my violent bf http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/ star im sorry there mean to u there all losers http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-251008 2008-02-11 10:49:27 you are hot u single http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-251005 2008-02-11 10:44:48 u shoud leave him and go to the cops if he beats u like u say he does he needs help and they can get him the help he deserves i hope u make the rite choice soon for your sake http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-250972 2008-02-11 09:07:02 you said you "love him to death" well, maybe you're right, because hes gonna kill you one day. get out of there. http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-216073 2007-12-23 16:11:00 oh what's a little beating now and then' I like having my fat white ass spanked then drinking chinese baby-boy urine. http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-215806 2007-12-23 11:47:20 I know that feeling, Loving a man which brings pain in more than one way. But I would say you need to walk away and walk away soon. If you don't you will be some where you don't want to be after so many years. I just got out of a relationship that is like this, i still miss him, love him, and care for him. But for my sake of my life I walked away. People are saying practically run get out when hes gone pack and go. ITS NOT THAT EASY! Especially when you care for him or want to help. But what I would do is get a cop there to help you out with your stuff. Tell them he is violent and you just want to move out. You grab your things and say good bye and if anything happens he will get into trouble for it.File against him if you feel its needed and just move on with your life and dont talk to him again. His actions will catch up to him. http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-215648 2007-12-23 03:03:05 What you need to do is wait for him to go to work and get all your stuff together,load it in your car and get the fuck out of there.If you don't have a car then call one of your friends to come get you.After that you need to go directly to the police station and file a restraining order against him.If you cant stay with a friend stay in a battered women's shelter or with family.My sister was a battered woman and i know from experience that the situation will get worse before it gets better.He will probably get progressively more violent to the point where he might kill you.Teach him you are not going to tolerate this behavior or pay the consequences. http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-137143 2007-07-27 19:19:57 I would hit him back. Beat the shit out of the fuckin jerk and then see if his dumbass touches- or even looks at you in the wrong way ever again. Guys can be so fuckin stupid. http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-137029 2007-07-27 11:27:41 I know this'll sound stupid but try running away when he asleep and stay with your parents and do not tell him where you are and if for some reason he finds out and is harrassing you get those guys you spoke of (your ex nd his friends or sumfin) getem to beat the crap out of him send him a message and if he continues you have to call the police it is the very safest thing for you to do I know you said not to but this situation could get real ugly real fast. He could very well be arrested for what he did and I know you say you love him but just think of all the things he does to you think about how he makes you feel and your love should fade he doesnt deserve your love leave before it is too late! http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-137020 2007-07-27 09:57:27 explain to him how you feel, and tell him you will have to take actions...if he is still mean to you then stop seeing him...nobody deserves this kind of relationship...very sad sometimes. http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-136959 2007-07-26 21:50:46 u suck cock n http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-136943 2007-07-26 21:06:54 sweetie you should get out of this relationship right now before it gets alot worse.try talking to your parents about all of this because they might be able to protect you , you dont deserve this and its wrong what hes doing. i understand that you love him and yeah it proberly is hard to escape from him.i no you said dont bother telling you to go to the police but that is the safest option i can think of. violent relationships often leads to them killing you and it could happen to you if you dont do something right now. dont be scared,just get out of this relationship right now otherwise soon you will regret that you didn't. go to anyone for help because this website will be no help for you at all http://isitnormal.com/story/13848/#comment-136900 2007-07-26 19:09:56