Try explaining to her what makes you feel good,show her how you want her to do it.Just be honest with each other about what turns you on and you will have a wonderful sex life.

Get her to 69 you, if your licking her minge, she'll have to suck you cock in return at the same time. Unless she's just going to stare at it & if she does this stop licking and tell her "suck my cock." (Might be an idea to add "baby" to that last statement.)

thats the problem, we have talked about it and she doesnt know and and i cant do anything to her because once i start, she'll stop. is there anything she can do to practice besides doing it with me? we dont always have chances to do that stuff so when we do, i want it to be good for both of us.

Hey, a "doing the bunny" is "doing the bunny", just take steps, thats it.

Best solution, get a porn video and have her watch it with you and copy whatever the girl does on the movie

Be demanding and tell her what you want and as she tries to do it encourage her with hot sex catchphrases such as "thats it baby", "you know how to work daddys cock", or "shit bitch suck that shit and you get hitched."

Well, you could always rest a porn video so she can get some ideas, but it comes from practice and experience, the more she does it and feels comfortable the easier it will be for her, plus there are plenty of sights that add alot of insight onto the subject of how to give a blowjob, but it has to do with the amount of suction too, if she focuses on the head and has the right amount of suction and tell her to let her saliva act as a lubricant, it works well, just dont be afraid to talk about it, communication is important, As for the 69, it can be a challenge, try to lay on your side because if someone is on top and they are getting an orgasm, they most likely will arch they back and that means their mouth is no longer anywhere near you...so be careful with that one and a guy on the top is kinda difficult with that because you'll be shoving yourself into her mouth and down her throat and generally people dont appreciate that, just have fun and experiment and talk about it!

Personally,,I think she is afraid of you cumming in her mouth. Ask her if that is her concern,,,,maybe offer to pull out and cum on her titties....Thatt might be a olution for both of you.