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Jealousy
My best friend and I have been friends since the beginning of high school and everytime she talks to someone more than me I get jealous because she isn't talking to me. And when she gets a new boyfriend I always want them just so I can hurt her. But she is my best friend in the whole world and I love her to death. I'm jealous of her and everything else she does better than me. Is this normal or what?
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Comments (14)
Anonymous
Ummm not so much
You should try a little separation from your friend. Do things on your own and feel good about yourself for your own accomplishments. Otherwise I see a same-sex fatal attraction thing happening here.
Anonymous
I'll make u happy
I'll just bang both of you
Anonymous
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Explain to your friend that you would like to spend as much with her as possible. Don't get jelous if she talks to her other friends. Explain to your friend how you feel and realize that she has other friends. Also realize that you do not need to be jelous of your friend. You are your own person and you are great. It is normal, though, for everyone to get jelous once in a while.
Anonymous
"I'll just bang both of you"

I'll take one, you get the other, then they won't be jealous of who gets more attention.
Anonymous
yo
i just bang ur dad mate
it sounds like you might have some unresolved and intense sexual and romantic feelings for your friend. before you talk to her, you need to be honest with yourself.
you shouldn't refer to her as your best friend. friends don't treat their best friends like shit.
Anonymous
you guys are shit heads.
"bang them both"
They're lesbians, they'll bang eachother!
no, searousely i think you might have more than friendly feelings for her.
to oringinal writer
Your words are like my thoughts. I'm jealous of my best friend too.
sugar rush?
yo i hate to break it to you but u may just be a lezbiand which is ok who knows thought it may just be a sugar rush....in other words u may not be a leza but you may be so close to ur friend that u feel protective and have gradually learned to love them more and more...you may get over this u may not its in ur hands rly u can stay friends (with ur secret) u can break it to her slowly and hope for the best or u can move on and dont come back ... Good Luck Mate
You should try to be no jealous of her. If she has good things, let her have them. You don't control her life and don't try to because it won't work.
Well, it's normal to be a little or even more angry, jealous when your friend makes other friends or spend more time with somebody else but try to keep your cool because if you're always in her face that'll really turn her off and she'll want to spend even less time with you! Try to focus on other things like after school activities or hobbies such as reading, drawing maybe even make other friends and just keep light contact with her. I'm sure everything will turn out alright I know how you feel, like you're going to lose your best friend and you love her like a sister. But if you guys have been through the worst and best with each other for so long I'm sure another friend won't break you guys. Don't be afraid to take intrest in being friends with her other friends also then you guys can do stuff together and not fight over whom spends what day and where with your best friend.
Idiots, the situation and her feelings does not necessarily mean she is a lesbian and try spelling things right because I can't tell if it's a typo or you're just really stupid and unlogical.
Her being better at something, yes, it's normal if it bothers you to the point you can't join in that activity with her because you get so angry just find something you are good at like your secret hobby just for you when you come home from school/work. I'm sure your friend gets jealous of you to many people don't realize this, it just takes an outsider to notice maybe since you join in things she does better she can also join in things you're better at to even things out that way the situation is not all on you and good luck! ~.^
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