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What does he want from me?

Alright, so basically I'm living w/ a guy friend of mine at the moment. We dated about 5 years ago but have remained friends. In fact, he's one of my best friends. Recently we had gotten back together, but I broke up w/ him b/c I had been having an affair w/ another ex. Keep in mind, at the time I was into a lot of things I shouldn't have been (i.e. drinking, drugs, stealing, etc.), so I really wasn't myself. But I broke up w/ him so that I wouldn't end up hurting him.
A few nights ago, he and I were sitting on the bed, and he told me that he wanted me to go to NY w/ him (that's where he's going to school) and he said he needed me. Now, over the years, he and I have had a kind of on again-off again friends w/ benefits relationship. In the years I've known him, he's never said anything like that before. He even admits that he loves me. But two nights ago, he made the comment that he didn't think he could ever date me again after what happened. While I understand this, I'm confused as to how he really feels about me. He always puts his arm around me and holds my hand, and kisses me; so we act like a couple, but we're not. And I just don't know where to go w/ it because I'd love to date him again, but he said he wasn't sure if he'd be able to do it again. any help or suggestions???
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (7)
Didge_Daz (5056)
2007-08-04 10:07:34
if you really like him and think you can keep it right, then go for it.

dont take this as an insult, but if he stuck around after you trew him all that "crap" i think you got yourself a winner there, trust me, most of us whould just cut and go when placed in that spot.


peace Jah bless
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irisheyes (9749)
2007-08-04 14:04:02
Don't blame drinking or drugs for your personality flaws. Stealing and cheating are choices. Do this guy a favor and cut him loose. you probably have some trama in your past. I don't mean to be an asshole, but you're never gonna treat anyone right until you get your head straight.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-08-04 14:50:31
Prehaps he is afraid to go to NY alone and just wants someone along with him?
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Phantasma (8744)
2007-08-04 20:54:54
He probably didn't mean that
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O________O (9745)
2007-08-05 06:21:05
If you are going to be horny horny hippos, as in you and the guy, then starting to just fuck other people after we told you, then the advice we are giving to you is useless.

But well, I guess try to give it a shot... Just tell him to start out slow and easy... And work it up from there, none of those horny moments. Just cuddle, cuddle, cuddle, and talk about what's in your minds. That's what it's all about.
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greatgoogliemoogli (10505)
2007-09-10 12:15:53
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORRRIIIIIIING!!!!!!!!!
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R0adk1ll (12301)
2007-12-19 11:33:40
You deserve it slag
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