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porn obsessed bi female
I am a 20yr old bi female who regulary masturbates over either woman or lesbian porn.
I have a demanding job which has me working late hours and my bf is a full time uni student.
Our sex life, I would say, isn't very sufficiant, a few times per month if I'm lucky!
So I turn to porn which satisfies me to some extent but obviously would prefer the real thing.
My bf knows I look at porn because I don't erase the history as not only can I not be bothered I feel I've nothing to be ashamed of, and think this is perfectly normal.He says I am odd for doing this and shouldn't look at sex as the be all and end all of life!
Am I right???
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Comments (13)
Anonymous
2005-11-05 16:14:38
I am also a bi femal, as of now, all I can do is masterbate to lesbian porn. I can't look at anything else, I love watching chicks eat each other out. My girlfriend doesnt care though. She knows I'm a freak. Your guy should get over it for real. I don't see a problem. By the way, women in general get turned on by watching lesbians get it on. Oh and more people than you know are addicted to porn. Humans are just sexy
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Moi (588)
2005-11-05 17:37:52
Make the moves on him . . .
If you've got the time to look at porn, you've certainly got the time to have sex with him.
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Moi (588)
2005-11-05 18:00:37
@: Moi
There's more . . .
Maybe you just need to get yourself a girlfriend on the side to fill the your needs?

And about your bf commenting on the your lesbo-porn activities, I'm guessing he's not so comfortable about your bi-ness.
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magnum2 (771)
2005-11-05 18:43:57
it's mighty fine...
believe it or not...most men are not the raging sex stud-pervert-fiends people think...sometimes porn is all you have at the moment. if he thinks its weird..maybe he should jump in instead.
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ruthie20 (895)
2005-11-06 05:45:50
@: Moi
i am the original poster of this post, i dont have time to have sex with him as i look at it when he is out at uni, we hardly spend time together. so how does that figure?
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Bleed_Black (921)
2005-11-12 19:26:31
@: ruthie20
Personally I have a sort of same thing going on I find some guys hot (I'm a guy also, but have no sexuality) I also masturbate to guys and wanting to have sex with a guy. I don't have a bf or gf.
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Katness (768)
2005-11-13 03:34:16
I'm a female, I'm 21. I also like women. I find them incredibly sexy. Don't get me wrong I find guys attractive, but women even more so.
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Katness (768)
2005-11-13 03:37:20
@: Katness
Also
I myself look at porn regularly. I look at all kinds of porn except for the illegal and down right disgusting. I forgot to add that in.
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Anonymous
2005-11-13 16:06:58
I myself? Let's learn how to write people.
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bandit (844)
2005-11-19 15:54:25
If he isn't going to get you off someone has too. It's either you do it yourself, he does it for you, or you find someone else to help you out. Give him those choices and let's see what he says then.
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Anonymous
2006-04-15 00:14:32
@: Anonymous
Hmmm...
Do u ever watch or get turned on by straight porn? Sounds like you're a gay chick in the closet and he's just there so you don't have to come out to you're close relatives..You should just"come out" and be true to him as well as to yourself.
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sisophous (3738)
2006-11-08 18:31:54
Two issues here IMO, the obsession and your boyfriend. Obsessions are not good, everything should be done in moderation. Viewing porn occasionally is fine but try not to rely on it too much. And if your boyfriend doesn't care for you to watch porn then make a decision. Either dump him or cater to him and get rid of the porn. Your boyfriend sounds controlling and you may want to consider getting a guy or girl for that matter, who isn't offended by what you do on your own time. If the porn bothers him as you describe, likely many other issues will arise sooner than later. I'm on your side. Hope this helps.
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MatthewDark (10431)
2007-09-06 22:21:11
um not sure the point of this one . . . you're in the right tho
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