The tape
Hi IIN people,
I know there have been alot of stories posted just for amusment, but I have a serious question and would at least a couple of opinions and advice.
My dad killed himself this year. He left a tape adressing everyone in the family individually. I have just gotten over losing my dad, who i felt was my soul mate too, and I know that listening to him crying and speaking his last words will shake me to my core. I don't know how I will react, and I am scared.
But he believed he killed himself for the family's sake... in his head he was acting for the better. I think, the least I owe him is to listen.
Gah, I don't know what to do, I am scared and conflicted.
Is this normal?
Thanks, any advice appreaciated :)
And wtf do ya mean by soulmate? Creepy
No, I am not lying.
And I don't mean the soulmate thing in a creepy way, its just that he was my best friend in everything. I was always the fucked up one in the family, and he was always there for me. The irony.
Thanks slack, that makes me feel better :)
A. your a girl (no willy)
B. Soulmate thing not in creepy way
So I take back what I said. What do you mean I can't delete it!? Damn...
My uncle killed himself for much the same reason.
I think you should listen to the tape, but keep in mind that he wasn't in his right mind at the time. People don't kill themselves when they're thinking straight.
He was not a cunt though, he loved his family intensly. He was obsessed with getting us nice things and filling our every whim. Apparently the obsession overcame him. Its also not nice to call him a cunt like that.
I don't think I am any lower than people who post about fucking their sisters. And this is not crap. I am looking for advice. Merely opinions.
Why are you such an angry and rude person?
I guess, what I gather from this, is that I should just listen to the tape and get it over with. I will listen when the summer semester ends and I have time to be all emo and shit :)
Thanks all.
Next, eject the tape, burn it and peace out. Fin. The end. Get on with yourself.
Jess
But thanks for the suggestion XD funny
You are a little troll boy. You sit behind your computer making stupid comments for hours every day. It is sad. You are sad. I feel bad for you.
So yeah, get that shit over with, and ignore cocksucking trolls like knuckifyoubuck.
The first question is, video tape, or audio tape? If it's audio, listen to it, and if you feel you need to answer him or talk to him, go ahead and do it, no harm in that.
If it's a video, I totally agree with watching it with the sound off, at least once, and then, once you've said your peace, turn the sound on.
But, of course, wait until you're ready for it. And, I would do it alone, because there are things that, no matter how good the friend, you will not feel comfortable saying or doing with them in the room.
You'll get through it - just keep your chin up. Best wishes. :)
and yes to all the people out there you can impragnat a dog.