ummm he sounds sort of gay to me.how much do you know about his past life?

Yeah, so move on you trick

I think that he is total asshole loser,i mean what kind off man gets his girlfriend all worked up with some oral and then decides to quit?It sounds to me like he thinks you are not faithful to him or you truly do have a feminine hygiene problem.Usally when a guy acts like that he suspects that you have been having sex with somebody else.And if that's not the case i think he has just lost interest in you.you should flat ask him what his problem is if he doesn't have a good excuse for his behavior move on.He may also have something on the side that would cause this problem to.

You asked for an opinion so I will be very frank with you. Anyone who has any form of sex should take a bath or shower just before and wash very, very thoroughly. I mean literally just before having sex as people often perspire soon after bathing. This topic is not something people can easily discuss and can easily flame people if not done right. This is just another reason people too young should not be having sex.

Second, if you are getting very intimate with a guy you only know for the past month it is not a good thing if you are looking for something to last long term. Guys will not value you as much more than a piece of meat if you give it up too soon and go all the way. If you don't show any affection, that too is not good and can turn them off and fast. You need to get the guys respect and if you really want sex, you can't do it too often otherwise it will become too expected, and make the occasion not so special to the guy.

As far as him hardly responding to oral sex, that is likely a case of your inexperience. Sorry if this is blunt, but few women know how to give oral sex to stimulate their partner. In a solid relationship, the guy should be able to tell you what he likes and then you can learn from it to please him. I taught a girlfriend and she had no problem with it and from then on it was incredible every time. As I said, it is something you do if you are open and very close, not if you are not on the same page or don't know one another which you two obviously don't after only one month.

Third, sex with someone you only dated for a month is not love making. It may be lust, infatuation, but it is NOT love. You can pretty much have sex with anyone and enjoy it, but it is not love. Love is something that takes time and grows. It is giving oneself to the other, not just intimately, but emotionally and involves sacrifice with no regret.

My suggestion to you is to not have sex with this guy for some time. If you can get along well without having sex then you may have a chance.

Your best bet is to move on, especially if that is your gut reaction, it is probably correct. And, the next guy you see, do not get intimate too soon, other than kissing and touching which is ok. Just No SEX!!!!!..... until some time passes.

Good luck!

Wow, I sure wish I could droan on and on like that. Making a comment so boring I'd shoot myself before I'd retype it. Thanks for enlightening me, snore, what was that?

"My question simply is: What would do in my situation? Would you try to work things out, or move on?"

My answer simply is: MOVE ON. He sounds like a complete pansy cocksucker! Why even THINK about making it work out? He obviously doesn't deserve you so tell him to piss off.

He doesn't appear to be gay, and says that he belivevs that homosexuality is "wrong", But he told me that he does have some intimacy/trust issues as a result of being cheated on in the past.

To knucifubuck,
Look u PRICK, it u can't give a descent comment, Then DON'T EVEN BOTHER!!

To gizzie57;
No I have'nt been cheating on him, abd I have super-good hygiene habits, I bathe at once to twice a day (esp. in the summer) I've tried to ask him straight forward waht's wrong, and he just tells me that he's very uncomfotable talking about it, and simply tsaysto methat"There's more to life than just sex", Which in some ways, he's right, but I still believe that he has alot more to tell me.

To spam_javelin:
Why don't u just "Fuck Off", and post your own damn stories--You STUPID PRICK!!

To Sisophous;
Thanks for your very sound advice, I'll try to folllow it, Your the good person on here that gave any good/sound advice at all, did not give any lame,B.S. , or abusive comments,and I Thank You very nuch for it. Again, thanks alot!

To bmfvpoison;
There's no need to be sarcastic! It didn'nt apply to you--only me, so don't worry about it!

Assuming you don't have a hygiene problem, then the problem is with your partner and the only thing you can do at this point is sit down with them have a chat and try to find out what the problems are.

Dr.Richard

actually if you knew anything about sex youd know that many men(including myself) had rather perform oral sex on a female a few hours after she has a shower instead of immediately afterward.We enjoy the taste of her juices instead of the lack of taste a woman has just after a bath or shower.Much more erotic to actually taste a woman instead of the soap she used.