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I like this guy, but there is an age difference
Okay here I go. My story is that How I like this guy that is 16yrs old, and I am 13. I met him through a friend one day when me her were just hanging out at a school close to her place. And thats were we met. But the thing is he is 16 and i'm only 13. And my friends are telling me that oh just get over him, it's not like he really likes you, or just go for it, or telling to go for a guy that is my age. But I really like this guy. He is so sweet and nyce and cute. And thinks that too about me. And when I found out, but that was because my friend told me. So I thought she was just f**king around with me. But I asked him and he said yeah. But as a friend. I got so mad at my friend I slaped her so hard that I think I left a mark.. hehehehe lol But she deserves it. Like making me feel all happy and then me finding out from him that he only likes me as a friend. But what I found out was that how I asked him if he had any feelings for me. And he answered yes. But he just wanted to get to know me better. And before I had told him that I had feelings for him. But I really like him. And he's been acting all weird latley. Like on msn I would be afk for like 5 minutes then he just be like ' Icyour busy, bye ttyl' And I would ahhh sh*t. Cuz' I'm mostly afk, but not always... But All I want to know from you guys on this site. Is advice. What should I do. Like should I keep on talking to him. OR just get over him because he's 3yrs older then me? I need Advice please!
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stinkbug12345 (9117)
2007-08-09 16:38:09
why does he want a 13 year old ? he needs to go after a girl with boobs
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KingSmithee (9059)
2007-08-09 16:53:59
I hope you get pregnant.
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irisheyes (9749)
2007-08-09 17:56:40
you could have shortened this post quite a bit.

here's how it should read: "I like this person who only likes me as a friend"

Get on with your life, the more beef in the field.
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SpankyRappeR (7962)
2007-08-11 15:05:28
dont worry about it, same thing happened to me. Except i was 15 and the girl was 13... not much of an age difference but i was a frosh in HS and she was in 6th grade..... that woulda been weird so when i found out she was in 6th i was like nigga fuck dat shit and said no. Dont worry move on your only 13 your not going to die
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theprofessional (9228)
2007-09-03 10:49:14
guys dnt like young girls they look to boyish and child like if you look older than say 15 he mite do you but then agen if your younger he will do you but just to get his willy washed in your mouth lmao
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eggs378 (13004)
2008-01-22 07:23:40
OK, ignore the cunts at the top, I'm 16 and have to say if i was in school and a 13yr old liked me that much, i would be flatterd, specialy if she was pretty, but this fella might get the piss taken out by the other boys in his class, even if he does like you he may be forced to end all contact with you to protect his own ass from narrow minded bullies in his school, I dunno if its normal or not, but i do find some 13yr old girls very attractive, which is wierd coz of the age difference, but i would never go out with one coz i do think they are to young for me, so i wouldnt be supised if this guy thinks the same way, PLUS all 16yr od boys want 1 thing, you cant give it to him, or shouldnt anyway, hope this has helped!
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brian (11402)
2008-02-13 19:08:54
trust me, he doesnt like you. ur just that 13 year old girl that he knows u love him but he doesnt care about u

ever listen to the song When You were Young by The Killers?

"You sit there in you, heartache waiting on some beautiful boy to save you from your old ways"

yee, ur just waiting on some hot guy
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Thepalehorse (15646)
2008-08-11 02:47:24
age is just a number. love is a force of nature. do what YOU think is right.
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Metallicafan01 (15681)
2008-08-11 12:36:55
One of my good friends had sort of the same experience, she was 13 and she met a guy that was 16 and instantly fell in love they were inseperable. But its perfectly normal for a guy to want to get to know someone first before he goes out, I don't know him but from what you read it seems like he just likes the attention and isn't really interested, but you never know, so you could keep trying but dont get too discourged if things dont work out there are plenty of more people out there, 3 years isnt that much, it may seem like alot now but once you get older it doesnt mean anything, just go for it, if it feels right ask him out and if he doesnt want to then just move on and find someone else more worthy of you time and affection
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Deathonastick (16030)
2008-08-30 06:14:58
I dont mean to be offensive, Ive neevr been put in the position, and nmot really that clued up about girls (Im not rally a 'player').However, Im seventeen and dont think I would ever go out with a girl younger than 15, I think 13;s fine if its someone your owna age but or a year older, but I think that there is a big difference in maturity (strangely), between a sizteen year old and a thirteen year old, as it was of the most fast moving parts of adolescence.
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