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Are guys friends with me for superficial reasons
I am an adult, and this is not fake. I am as other people call me, "sexy" I do sometimes agree. But it seems like guys are only friends with me to f**k me...and when they dont get to, they ditch. A lot of times, they will say things about my big breasts, or perfect figure. I want to know if guys only want one thing???? Im not sl*tty, i know that, and i am also extremely intellegent. Advice????
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Maybe these guys meet you and see you as a prospective girlfriend. Spend too much time with a guy and he'll think youre more than friends. Not a lot of guys will stay in a sexless relationship, its probably not fair but its a fact.
yes this is the main purpose men want to be around women, to have sex. Otherwise men would be out fishing all day or hunting or guy things like drinking beer and watching sports. Don't worry. We are just animals, I'm sure you have sexual desires for girls, you may be a lesbian if you don't trust guys. But don't worry because lesbians are far worse than guys in relationships
sounds like youve invited a certain type of guy because they have heard you put out.anyway ones who leave who dont get immediate sex are ones you dont want anyway so what is the problem? its a good way to weed out the losers.
pretty much yeah, sorry were just kinda hardwired that way, the only "cute" girls i manage to stay friends with, strange as it might seem, are the ex's, and thats pretty much because you know thats not going anywhere and you got a good knowlege of the person.



peace jah bless
there's a difference between intelligence and personality you know
Every time a guy says hello, he's really asking: "Would you like some dick"? When a door is opened for you... "Would you like some dick"... When a guy does something nice for you, he's wondering if you'd "like some dick"... Sorry but that's the way it is. Remember there are always exceptions to the rule but I don't know of any guys that are "just friends" with a good looking female, by choice anyway. They're hoping she'll change her mind...
well if your so inteligent why r u asking a bunch of teenagers u god dam hoar
it is harsh i know a friend of mine went through the same thing , and she was as u call urself sexy and had a natural way of being too kind , maybee its because your flirting with them without even knowing it, some people do this and are to naieve to see if there liked by another person maybee you should ask your irl friends =)
There are women who enjoy casual sex, but most do not, and you do not seem to be one who does. In general sex can be seen as somthing women have and men want, and as something that women give in return for something else. Whatever eles you want you better ask for up front.
sometimes men ditch women after they realize the woman is a dumbasss
There is a simple fact you must face- if your an attractive woman with any straight male friends, there will always be a sexual element to their interest in you. That is non-negotiable. The question is whether or not it is the only reason for their friendship.
Im really twisted in that Im 17, and I only like intelligent girls with good personailty (and I have to admit, Im not usually attracted to 'ugly', or overweight girls, but I can like them as people). Ive never fancied a girl that Ive never really liked as a person, but have fancied perhaps less 'attractive' girls with good personalities. I guess that makes me a bit of a nerd/geek, but I am. Just so you know, I think there are some other loosers like me out there =)
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