15 and never had a boyfriend or been kissed

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yes thats totally normal.. your time just hasnt come yet but i promsise it will happen one day..

you saw you go to an all girls school, i know heaps of girls that go to an all girls school, is there a place where you all gather after school, like a shopping centre? 7 eleven, a train station something, there are always guys out after school, you just need to find a popular gathering place for kids your age..

Ive met heaps of friends ive lost in touch at essendon station, its great to see them..

Dont be in a hurry cos your friends are doing stuff before you. your time will come, dont force it to come, let the universe do its thing!

Totally Not Normal!

Its normal. the problem is, guys around your age are looking for anorexic blondes to have some fun with. I bet your just an average girl, at an average weight. So dont be let down, its normal.

A great way to meet people is through friends. I often would tell my friends if they know of any cute girls who they can hook me up with, by all means I'm interested. Then, we would go someplace as a threesome, such as playing billiards, bowling, something very casual. You get to see the other person up close, read them, talk to them and it's very easy to exchange phone numbers toward the end, or at least give your phone number out. If there is any chemistry, you will know after an hour or so. You need to have good friends willing to help you out, who don't mind going the extra yard to arrange things. Going to an all girls school makes things more difficult but I never found school the best place to find a boyfriend/girlfriend, it's too rigid and awkward for the most part. And as far as your age goes, you will find it easier and easier to make friends the older you get, particularly once you get out of high school, the flood gates will open. Good luck and quit worrying.

fucking hell
IM IN A MIXED SCHOOL
IM SIXTEEN
IVE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND/BEEN KISSED
im in a worse boat than you
consider yourself lucky

Maybe you should change your name "Sexybabe".

your one of the lucky girls. many guys are jerks and listen to their dicks instead of to a girl.

i'm a 16 year old guy and have never had a GF. Its probably because i'm too shy. do u have the same problem?

heya Link2.0, im not shy at all around my friends but then i am shy around guys. im not naturally flirty around guys either which is what they seem to think is attractive! im only ever 'nice' and it sucks!! are you in the same boat? (but obviously with girls in ur situation). and one for all the guys- what do you find attractive in a girl?? nothing rude please- we have heard it all before xxx

i am a constantly nice person to. and to the other q, a girl with a good personality, who's not an absolute bimbo, who i can have a good conversation with and who is fairly good looking. what do u look 4 in a guy?

You need to be more loose advertise your availability more, posting here was a good start. Don't worry, just dress more like yourself and your inner tart will soon show and then guys will be fucking you by the dozen.

is that a good or a bad thing?

i mean like being a tart is that good?

a tart is a whore.

I'm 13 and I've had a boyfriend, but never actually properly kissed. I think I'm too shy, and I have the same problem too, I go to an all girls school. Although there is an all boys school near by, I dont socialze with any of them. I feel really lonley. I do go out alot with my friends, but I never get to know boys or anything. I find it really difficult, because boys always go for the sluts. One of my mates is always being asked to get off with boys she doesnt even know, I mean, I dont know if I'm frigid, or their just sluts? Please help me out!

I am 13 and almost all the girls in my class have had a bf. i have not. i hate it. i haven't really kissed a guy but in gr 2 i was kissed but that dont really count. it sucks

a tart is a hore!!

just kiss ya b.f

Go to a public school?

13 yrs old boy. Ive never been on a date. Im in secondary school in second year

Lose some weight, that might help, but I'm not promising anything if you are ugly too.

yes, it's perfectly normal and there are a lot of people that feel the same way. although you may feel like you're the only one, you're not alone. i'm 15 also and i've never been past first base but all of my friends have been to 2nd or 3rd. sometimes it gets me kind of sad because i feel like the slowest one of the group but then i realize how stupid it is. you'll experience things when the time is right and you're with someone you love and trust.

dont worry about it, the right guy will come just be out there and be more outgoing so you can meet other guys more often! relationships arent everything so dont work yourself up

omg i thought i was da only 1. lol
im 15 n have never had a boyfriend or been kissed. it sucks because my sister is 14 n has had plenty of boyfriends n has been kissed when she was like 13 ! i feel im not normal, people tell me im cute n beautiful all the time, n im a reely nice girl but i guess boys dont go for that stuff ,, it will happen sumday thou (:

Dont worry about it
im 15 almost 16 and i have never had a boyfriend. i was worried about it 2 but not anymore. Guys tell me im pretty and hot all the time but i have never been asked out or gone on a date.
Just have FUN and i will happen!!

Heyy Hun,
No worries, both me and my friend are in exactly the same situation. Except we go to a mixed school. Its perfectly normal. My advice is just dont go out with just anyone, make sure its the right guy. As I know how much pressure it can be.. x