Just be yourself! Most larger cities have discussion groups to talk things over with people going through the same thing... it's quite a relief once realize there are so many people who completely understand! Good luck.
I don't understand where identity is coming into question.
And personally I think murders taking place because of who a person wants to sleep with is a whole hell of a lot more wrong than wanting to have consensual sex with adults.
Let's face it; women are more attractive than men. I'm bi and I can see the attractive sides of both sexes, but I do think that the female body exceeds the male's in aesthetic appeal.
And personally I think murders taking place because of who a person wants to sleep with is a whole hell of a lot more wrong than wanting to have consensual sex with adults.
good lick ... i mean luck ;)
Let you male friend watch or join in!