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How Spanking Affected Four Years of my Life
My dad doesn't do it anymore ever since I told him that and threatened to tell the teacher about my marks, but for four years, 10-14, of my life, he used to hit me with a belt using the buckle end. It was for minor things, such as not getting as high a grade as I should've, acting sulky, etc, or sometimes for no reason at all. It always used to hurt a lot, but that wasn't the point. The welts bothered me during school, and people made fun of me when I changed for swimming or things like that. Then one day, my teacher caught sight of some blood trickling down my ankle. He asked where it came from, and I wanted to tell the truth so badly, but I knew I would get in trouble, so I lied that I had pricked myself with a scissor in the morning and forgot all about it until now. He looked skeptical, but let me off. This would happen many times in my life. Anyone else have similar experiences?
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hmph........
Maybe this will help:
The blood came from one day, when one of my best friends dumped me and called me names, I was in a bad mood all day. So when Dad asked me something (I think it had to do with my declining grades) I replied a bit more hostilely than I should've. Bad, bad memory.
I'm sorry you had to go through such child abuse.I was spanked with a belt to when i was growing up but with the leather part not the buckle.I think those ass whippings did me some good you see im a believer in disciplining children to the point of a spanking when they deserve it.For things like mouthing off to elders or not doing homework and just plain stupidity.Your case is different that is just plain child abuse and he should have been arrested and jailed sorry man.
By the way i think that's one of the biggest problems with kids in this day and age they get away with to much shit and you cant do anything about it.When i was in school if you got into trouble you had your choice detention or a swat i made the mistake of taking the swat and it hurt like a mutha fucker.
Thanks for replying. :-) But it's all right now, I guess. I live with some roommates in a big apartment. Faaar away from my old house.
yes... i had a mom that used to cut me with knives..... i waited until the right time... went to the school, and told someone that I needed a vacation, they asked why, I showed them and they assumed I did them myself...I went with that... they put me in a residential for two months, relocated me to a new state....I had to live in group homes for four years, and a few homeless shelters... but now Im doing better. It was also for trivial things not doing the dishes, not getting honor roll, sometimes for just being there. It will take awhile to get rid of it.... but get out. (the right way) Now I live on my own, and have newer parents that are cool.
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