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I like to hurt feelings

I have this problem, why do I like to hurt feelings of people that loves me ? especially girls. This happen with my ex-girlfriend, I used to make her cry by not talking to her the whole day and at some point she start to cry. Now its happening with my mom , I havent talk to her for a week now, since we have that verbal fight and she cried so much that day but I didnt even try to confort her when she cry I just ignored it.
I know I should talk to her but that will make everything go back to normal and something in me doesnt want to get back to normal , is like I want to ignore her for the rest of my life cause I know that will hurt her feeling so much, but I kinda enjoy bein like that but at the same time I know I shouldn't I dont know if you guys understand or know whats wrong with me is there anyone eles like me ?
I dont think is normal.
Do you think it's normal?
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drummerpimp (10279)
2007-08-29 00:46:30
i think u do it just to make sure they love u like as a test or something
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AdviceGiverLad (4680)
2007-08-29 03:47:55
i once learned about some physchology theroy. basically everybody likes to feel good about themselves and when somebody loves you you have alot of power over them so you put them down or make them cry to feel better about ur self. just understand ur mom loves you and that in the long run you should just talk to her. be a dick to other people not ur mom. thats fucked up
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-10-03 11:54:34
I'd suggest that you do a very thorough self-inventory to determine what is making you so angry. It seems that your ex and your mom may be serving as substitutes for whomever or whatever is really pissing you off. Meanwhile, you should consider finding healthy ways to unwind so your ire won't be so close to the surface. This is the sort of thing that doesn't get better by going into denial, so I hope you'll do the necessary work to discover and manage the demons within.
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EmoKid (9268)
2007-10-14 00:47:44
Dude... menatly hurting ppl is fun... dane cook thinks so... SO WHY CANT U?!?!
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DoonDoon (7460)
2007-11-02 13:24:12
I believe that if your mom were to kick you as hard as she could right in your testicles that it would provide the proper impetus for self examination on your part. If this fails, I believe this action should then be repeated as often as neccessary or until such time that you develop some concience and sympathy towards those you hurt.

God bless you son, and good luck to you. Let everyone know how things work out.
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Guest1111111 (11505)
2007-11-10 12:11:51
You have a case of peiceofshititus and need treatment. Take a shotgun with 1 shell in it and aim it at ur left testicle. You also have gotohellyoumotherfuckerexslymeia and need to brake your kneecaps right away
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illetchofetus (7261)
2008-02-07 16:24:45
@: Guest1111111
Wow, talk about run-on sentences.
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ASUassholes (16429)
2008-09-22 02:03:19
you're just a certified dickhead. a girlfriend is one thing, but mom? seriously? shit out a bowling ball and have it be an asshole to you and see how you feel.
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lotsofjunk (15110)
2008-09-22 05:45:57
I think its your horrible gramar that makes them cry
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lotsofjunk (15110)
2008-09-22 05:46:33
@: Guest1111111
LOL hahahahahahahahahahaha
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