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I just wanted to know if having a boyfriend who was 33 is normal? Who is pretty immature and loves video games but still takes care of his responsibilitys ex. paying rent, car payment, going to work everyday. Who I know likes me a ton but doesnt actually come out and say it? We've been together for 4 months. The last two months of the relationship we've been having sex. Is it normal for him to not change his myspace status to in a relationship? It still says single! Is that a big deal?
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HE DIDN'T CHANGE HIS MYSPACE STATUS OMFG THIS IS UNFORGIVABLE KICK HIM OUT BURN HIS CLOTHES AND SLICE OFF HIS PENIS OMGWTFBBQ
Drop the scrub.
lol i get the sarcasm...its not really a big deal but I was just wondering what others thought...
Kinda extreme are'nt you. Maybe guys should act the same way towards women when "they" don't act the way men want them to. What she should do is talk about it with him and how it makes her feel, if he is unwilling to change the page then she has a choice. She should also check his last login, maybe he hasn't been there to change it or forgot.
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You guys are focusing on the myspace thing too much...that's not the most important thing! I want to know if the other stuff is normal!
-shrug- if you and he are happy and he DOES seem responsible enough
liking video games is okay as long as he pays attention to you
maybe he isn't as open with his relationship because he feels weird about the age difference
just make sure it's okay with him and ask him why he isn't as open
If I were one of your parents I wouldnt be too happy with ur choice of bf because he's too old for you.

other than that the rest of it seems pretty normal. give the myspace status another 2-3 months before becoming concerned about it. after that, ask him about it and tell him how you feel.

but for now, keep in mind that a 4 month relationship is perceived differently by a 33 yr old than by an 18 yo. You might think it's a long time and he might think it's not that long of a time.
ahh well pleasing my parents isnt something im worried about when it comes to relationships. It is MY life after all.
nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
your reply to my comment indicates that you didnt really read it or try to understand what my point really was.

ah, to be young and stupid! fantastic.
it doesnt matter what we think of your boyfriend... think about him yourself
@poster

haha, he's screwing around.
I've learned from.. other people's experiences.. that age is just a number - it really doesn't determine how mature or immature an individual might act. You could find a 20 year old that acts really mature and then a 40 year old that acts like he's 5. Now about the myspace.. guys just don't pay as much attention to this as girls.. if it REALLY bothers you that much, bring it up to him and ask him why it still says single.. if he refuses to change it after you asked him to, then maybe there's more to it and he's hiding something.
thank you this has helped me.
you're welcome.
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