i had a guy do that to me it really hurts that is so shallow of you. if your friends will judge you on a girl then they are not your real friends its up to you what you decide but why would you hurt someone like that GOD MADE HER isnt that enough beauty is only skin deep she must not be too bad because you obviously saw somthing her its people like you who cause pain to those of whose who dont deserve and want nothing more than a little love or a friend REDEEM yourself do what is right dont be selfish think of someone besides your self

i am very beautiful i just thought id throw that in there

and very modest.

Well, who's going out with her-- them or you??? Just do what you want.

Your friends are jerks if they are going to make fun of you for going out with her. If you want to date her then, ask her out. If your friends make fun of you, then screw them because they are not very good friends.

give the guy a break. he is having a hard time and looking for advice, not for a witch like yourself to jump down his throat. just because you're ugly and uncool, doesn't give you the right to hate people for having choices.

the post above this was in response to the bit

your a smelly bastard if you don't ask her out you......smelly bastard (but that's only if you don't ask her) you.......umm smelly bastard

your a smelly bastard if you don't ask her out you......smelly bastard (but that's only if you don't ask her) you.......umm smelly bastard

your a smelly bastard if you don't ask her out you......smelly bastard (but that's only if you don't ask her) you.......umm smelly bastard

Actually, in my experiences, I have found that my friends won't razz me about going out with a not so pretty girl. As a matter of fact, I get a lot of positive attention for NOT being shallow. Give her a chance, you might like what you find.

Kevin

You should definately go out with her. The key you've always said "[she] likes me an I like her".

Your friends will hopefully grow up, and respect your descision.

right on kevin i totally agree

i agree with everything that's been said, so i'll say it again. if you like her, ask her out regardless of her looks. if you like her more as you get to know her, she'll get hotter, trust me. love has a funny way of making everyone look like brad or angelina. you'll impress your friends more by doing exactly what you want to do by not being a pussy and crumbling under their scrutiny and judgement. be youself and your friends will follow.

So, you're a conformist? Constantly worried about what others think? Aren't there enough of you infesting this world? And I thought the answer to your question was obvious.

Your school is failing in the English department. That said, ask her out. If you don't do it now, it will set a precedent for the rest of your life. Do you want to end up with someone who makes you happy, or someone who looks good to your friends? My guess is that if you spend some time with her, you will spend less time with your friends, so that if they don't understand, it will seem like less of a loss anyway. If they do make fun of you for going out with her, they weren't good friends in the first place. A lot of times people will accept something they made fun of if it is introduced to them properly. If you are worried about what nonfriends will think, who really cares?

You'll probably have a better time with her than some shallow "attractive" girl who can get whoever she wants and is consequently just a spoiled bitch.

If "she likes you an you like her an she likes you (again...)" then just date her. Don't be a prick.