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Turning Asexual
Hey, for those of you who don't know what Asexual is, it basically means, you have no desire for sex, and love, and all of that sh*t.

I'm not attracted to guys at all, and I've had sex before and been in love and what not, but I've seriously just lost interest in women. When I meet a girl, I can like her a whole bunch, but once we start going out, I don't want to anymore, I just feel VERY bored with it, ya know? Now I'm beginning to become turned off by sex, because there's so many STDs going around and sh*t, it's really not worth it. I would like to have a life partner though, do you guys think this is normal?

PS: I think my ecstasy usage may have something to do with it.
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it realy depends on how old u r if u between 35 and 12 wat the fuck is your problem
I really dont know anything about x because ive never tried it.But your feelings about not wanting to have sex i think is totally normal.I agree with you you've got to be damned careful who you have sex with because of STDs but there is protection.If i ever become divorced i know i would be just like you i wouldn't have sex with anybody i didn't know for a fact was clean.

Yes your normal!
There's still some attraction to females there, right? It sounds like you still want a partner and sex and all that, however, you're just turned off by what sex has become. Because of that, I'm not sure you're actually asexual by orientation, but you just desire celebacy over the alternative. Most asexuals, from what I've seen, don't experience sexual attraction at all, so it's not really a decision that they make in their mind. Unlike asexuality, celebacy is a conscious decision to not have sex.
Feeling bored and turned off by sex? Sounds like you've lost your libido. There can be a number of reasons for this, and I'm sorry to say but none of them are good.

If you're not bothered about not wanting sex then that's okay and not something to worry about. But whether you're worried or not, I'd suggest you try to find the cause of your loss of libido because it could cause problems in other areas of your life.

Common causes of loss of libido include stress, illness, drugs, feeling down, and reduction of levels of testosterone. All of these can cause other health problems. If you recognise that any of these apply to you ten there's your likely cause. There's no way of knowing if your testosterone is low without a medical test, but plenty of exercise and foods rich in zinc should bump it up.
Fuck off Twat. Go cry on someone else's shoulder. Fuck you
b celibit find another celibit woman.
ecstacy makes you want to have sex.... and you know that. Asexual means you can reproduce with yourself.... without coming in contact with the member of the opposite sex. Like an amoeba, or an atom. Idk if worms are, but you can cut them into six parts, and have six live worms.
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