actually the bible doesnt say to hate homosexuals.....that idea has been planted by the religious right in a perversion of what the bible actually says regarding homosexuality.
For his part Jesus never once even mentions homosexuality.
As a fag I'm used to straight folks getting freaked out.
My Dad and my brother used to be really freaked out about gay people until I told them that I was gay. After that they became super supportive. I guess they realised that gay people could be okay and could be people that they were close to.
I don't judge my Dad or brother for having being uncomfortable with the idea of someone being gay. Most men don't meet real-life gay folks so they spend their whole time surrounded by fellow haters and never get to know a gay person for real. So I don't like it, but it doesn't upset me that you hate fags 'cos I can understand how you've become like that.
I also don't like it when straight people say that they 'love all gay people'. They obviously haven't met some of the gay people I've met. To be fair, some of us are fantastic, some of us are okay, some of us are a pain-in-the-neck, and some of us are easy to hate. Hmmmm, just like straight folks...
well that might be it.
70% of my fear/hate is cuz of that the thought of a man jabbing his c**k in the a*s of another man is gross for me... i think i don't like fags cuz where i live the girls in my school class is so sexy(and they are not bitchy)that i almost look at it like something very very wrong.
and the gross part. if i see a fag i won't talk bad about him behind his back though.
but if some gay guy claps me on my a*s then i won't be mercy full.
It did stand somewhere about fags in the bible. (my mom told me) god destroyed those cities cuz it was so much evil in em. people was whoring so much and killing. It also stood: "men do it whit men". which was meaning people was whoring that so bad that they would do ot whit someone of the same gender. it was something from there. so in other words the bible did say something about homos. though i don't believe any of that crap.
>:( (i still don't like fags)
you are referring to the cities of sodom and gomorrah,thus the word sodomy comes from sodom.You know i'm not at all homophobic,but i see this situation in quite the opposite direction.I think men with men is pretty interesting,i've even watched a few gay films(not neccessarily porn either).I think lesbians are weird,especially the butch kind.i could just never picture myself kissing,touching.licking,or fucking another female.It's their thing,and that great for them,but the thing i dont understand is why do most men say they "hate fags",but if they see two girls kissing they get a hard-on.that just seems double standard to me.
im a str8 guy but i like sum gay ppl. i wud nvr call sum1 a fag. maybe think it but not call any1 that. i mean really they r ppl too! guess wat if cut you with a nife you would bleed blood. wouldnt you think gay ppl would bleed also?? and y wud they smack you on the ass? wud a regular person slap sum1 on the ass? well maybe but thats besides the point. oh and i wud nvr anal a chick becuz thats stupid and selfish of me. i mean y wud you want 2 anal sum1 if you wudnt want to bea analed??
it's not normal to get freaked out over gays, because what if gay people freaked out when they saw you with the person you love? if you can love, that is.
I wonder what 'nearly' would have said to this poster! Anyway karl, you gave a fair answer. However, since most gay people aren't "out", you make assumptions, Hosikage. How do you know they don't know any homo sexuals? They may be working with them, eating with them, playing sports with them, anything really. What you mean is they aren't AWARE of any because I'll bet my last buck that near every human being KNOWS a homosexual! So next time you look at that guy you play socer with in the shower, ask yourself, is he gay? You'd be surprised :)
All religious biggots take single passages and corrupt them to their own needs. THATS what makes them religious BIGGOTS! They will go to hell and the gays (like me) will laugh all the way to heaven! mwhahahahaha.
i've met straights who looks gay and gays who look straight.
if someone behave normally i'll accept even not agreeing with their choices, but i still hate people who use the respect owned by someone to behave in the inapropriate way.
Awe, is someone afraid that they might be gay? Here's what you have to think, if you're not gay, then why should you care if others are or not. It doesn't affect you in any way. Or does it? Do you get beat for every gay person walk past you? I don't think so. Even if you did that still wouldn't be a reason to hate them.
No matter what anyone says, Jesus and the Bible in general command that we love all peoples of every kind. This is an ideology that all men can embrace, of every religion and every race.
In the real world, you'll have to get over your little fear. The internet is a great tool for this.
Someone mentioned the biblical cities of Sodom and Gomorrah and how god destroyed them for their sinfulness. This is true in the Bible, but if you read the passages, there is not a single reference to homosexuality being a reason the cities were destroyed. In fact, respected theologians emphasize that God specifically did NOT do it because of homosexual activities, and that passage is not a correct justification for Christian rejection of homosexuality.
For his part Jesus never once even mentions homosexuality.
My Dad and my brother used to be really freaked out about gay people until I told them that I was gay. After that they became super supportive. I guess they realised that gay people could be okay and could be people that they were close to.
I don't judge my Dad or brother for having being uncomfortable with the idea of someone being gay. Most men don't meet real-life gay folks so they spend their whole time surrounded by fellow haters and never get to know a gay person for real. So I don't like it, but it doesn't upset me that you hate fags 'cos I can understand how you've become like that.
I also don't like it when straight people say that they 'love all gay people'. They obviously haven't met some of the gay people I've met. To be fair, some of us are fantastic, some of us are okay, some of us are a pain-in-the-neck, and some of us are easy to hate. Hmmmm, just like straight folks...
70% of my fear/hate is cuz of that the thought of a man jabbing his c**k in the a*s of another man is gross for me... i think i don't like fags cuz where i live the girls in my school class is so sexy(and they are not bitchy)that i almost look at it like something very very wrong.
and the gross part. if i see a fag i won't talk bad about him behind his back though.
but if some gay guy claps me on my a*s then i won't be mercy full.
>:( (i still don't like fags)
-dirt dobbler
the first thing I thought when I read the post was this guy is uncomfortable around gay men because he's gay. He feel vulnerable.
For instance, if you've been let's say vaccinated against the chicken Pox then you don't get freaked out and hate people with chicken pox.
Only people afraid of contracting chicken pox are afraid; like are friend who posted this.
if someone behave normally i'll accept even not agreeing with their choices, but i still hate people who use the respect owned by someone to behave in the inapropriate way.
In the real world, you'll have to get over your little fear. The internet is a great tool for this.