giving my girlfriend an orgasm http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/ try fisting, or something that vibrates http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-270865 2008-10-25 23:06:01 If you want her to have an orgasm, try another person's cock. http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-269935 2008-10-18 16:08:38 "I can usually go fifteen to twenty minutes" There's ya problem right there, your going to have to go a lot longer to get the honey squirt! http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-265926 2008-09-18 03:23:54 i also recomend the fleshlight from www.fleshlight.com http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-260946 2008-08-16 16:14:18 just fuck her all month and there u go http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-260945 2008-08-16 16:13:17 Well, in my experience, just be glad she isnt faking an orgasm, thats the worst honesty and communication are key. As for giving her an orgasm, definitly focus on the cl*toris, use the tip of your tongue and try to find the right amount of pressure. As for fingering finding the g-spot is also a very nice touch, but it is a different sensation, my gf described it as a strong sensation to urinate, but also about the relaxation, try to lengthen the foreplay try to get her comfortable and loosen her up, foreplay works wonders, and you could also try using a vibrator to help warm her up to sex if your having too much difficulty but dont worry! It will come believe me! And when it does you will feel a tremendous feeling of satisfaction and relief, pleasing your girlfriend is the best feeling in the world! http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-260143 2008-08-11 11:31:15 If she just lost her virginity not too long ago, she cant expect to just jump into an orgasm. She def needs to be completely relaxed. And coming from a girl, pay attention to her clit. Girl on top is best position for a girl to orgasm during sex. Make sure she is super relaxed! Try giving her a massage or something as part of your guys foreplay. http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-257875 2008-07-31 18:20:48 um... if she isn't emotionally ready, and is forcing it... she wont have one... tell her to relax. http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-236975 2008-01-23 10:56:19 You hold her clitoris i.e. upper point of her vagina into your lips and tongue it vigorously. She will definitely get an orgasm. http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-161298 2007-09-11 03:54:42 Shes probably in a state of mind where she is not fully letting loose and really getting into the sex.She may be preoccupied with some type of worry shes not telling you about. http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-161099 2007-09-10 19:48:42 concentrate on her clit. http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-160943 2007-09-10 16:58:16 i would say buy her a vibrator or a dildo..those work magic and maybe she's not lubricated enough. http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-160935 2007-09-10 16:27:56 be patient, sex is between two who love each other. calm down http://isitnormal.com/story/15867/#comment-160929 2007-09-10 15:35:20