I am a 16 year old girl and I still get bare bottom spankings from my dad. I had a date saturday night and came in past curfew and as soon as I came in, my dad made me go to my room and pull my pants down and gave a me spanking with Mom's old hairbrush. I get spanked about 2 or 3 times a month. I get good grades and don't cause any trouble. My parents are way too strict with me. How can I get them to stop treating me like a five year old?
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If you were my sister, I'd fuckin' castrate that child sex offender, with a very slow sawing motion. Some states have laws against that. "Forced" sexual activity with a child is illegal regardless of relation.
Women have their husbands arrested on 'Rape Charges' if they say "no" and he still has sex with her.
There are a few confidential 'hot-lines' in every state that can help you. They may give you a 'Temporary Protective Order' which could keep him outof the house and away from you for a year.
If he's 'touching' you, he's touching others. You can put an end to the molestation of his future victims. Have him visit NYCity... We'll 'clean' him for you.
Yes I agree that not all things on IIN will be 'normal' in everyone's mind. But in this case its just WRONG.
Only the US and I think Arabia believe in this corporal punishment (there are some other scattered places) But MOST of the world KNOW it is wrong.
As a 'Dad' myself to a girl teenager (and a fulltime sole dad at that) I have NEVER needed to physically hurt my little girl. You said 13 spanks for a 13yo? Since its ILLEGAL (as lukeuser stated) in MOST civilized countries (nearly ALL) You are very lucky you are in the US.
In the teenage issues you reported above, you would have been better off talking sense (on her level) why it isn't safe or accepted in society. I did and it worked! Why? Not because she magically must be a really understanding teenager, BUT because at 13 guess what? You CAN reason with them. Whereas at 5, you need to be more of a watchful parent and protect them. At NO stage does that mean abuse them!
PHYSICAL ABUSE TO YOUR DAUGHTER, YOUR WIFE, OR > 'ANYONE' IS WRONG.
Quite obviously the US don't get those types of advertisements, or EDUCATION at school stating this as FACT.
Since the US must state, 'oh in this case please beat your daughter'? Then what that shows me is that your laws require an immediate overhaul. And girls (teenagers and younger) get the hell out of there, it is NOT safe to be beaten, even at home! These parents VERY old fashioned ideas can literally scar you for life or worse.
If I see some FckWit beating his daughter. Or found out about it the next day, I'd be turning up on his doorstep to scare the shit out of him myself. Since quite obviously intelligence and rational communication is not part of his vocabulary. As for a child, they obviously would have a better chance in a normal non abusive family. ie The 'Mother' should have taken the children off you a long time ago. YOU are unfit to be called a father, and in any other country you would be (mandatory) locked up.
30 people agreed with you? Don't ever have children!
The only 'handling' of a child should be to hold hands crossing streets (etc) and obviously picking up (for small children) and hugged or taken to bed (or whatever) Obviously physical contact between a parent and child should always be loving; re-assuring; and for safety concerns.
But to spank and willingly try to cause pain and/or shock and discomfort? What the hell is that?
The ONLY time I have seen it here (note: here being ILLEGAL to spank children) is from some drugged up or drunken abusive mother you tend to see at the shops (or train station!) every once in a while. Most look at the 'parent' in disgust, but none approach KNOWING that if the 'Mom' would actually hit their own children (illegally) then they wouldn't hold back with any other abuse at anyone else. Obviously if it crosses the line (actual beating ie say more than one (illegal) smack) then intervening would be reasonable of any civilized person.
BUT the US? I have tried and tried to work out this mindset?
Now I know that other countries and even other states have somewhat different ways of handling life. Yes differences exist between countries (not racist, just fact) Obviously history and physical body and even climate can cause differences (ie I always say that the Middle East is so damn backward is because of the hot sun - hence wear a burka, great idea, but NOT a religious thing!??
But back to the US. The climate 'seems' fine (not extreme heat, or freezing cold. The people body and face seem average, although I think Americans are generally taller and fatter, plus teenagers look like adults more so than other countries. Generally I'd say its not a body issue. History 'could' play a part (especially on ludicrous gun laws, 'the gun doesn't kill the person does'? What absolute rubbish! Give a gun to ANY angry teenager ANYTHING could happen).
So it just comes down to common mindset (or society, ie laws, beliefs, culture, even ignorance!)
Since EXTENSIVE research by civilized countries (by scientific research officers, and psychological 'doctors' and child learning centers etc etc) has CONFIRMED that communicating without physical abuse (or any definition of physical shock spanking) fully WORKS perfectly, especially if that communication is (on the child's mindset level) clear, loving, respectful and consistent. True 'time out' or 'naughty corner' (NOT behind locked doors btw) can be effective too, as it ALSO gives the parent 'time out' to allow patience and understanding to continue.
So what is it about the US? Why is the US in the same category as the Middle East and other undeveloped countries on 'smacking' (or physical abuse) to 'loved' ones!?
THIS is the ONLY thing I can think of. And I have tried to be as open and comprehensive as possible, looking at ALL scenarios.
Its because of your idiotic backward religious feelings. To avoid the common sense natural scientific realist 'human' debate how EVERYTHING happened naturally (as it still does), and anything contrary to that is just plain dumb. I can only say that because your 'religious' following allowing religion into your society in a major way (coins, schools, even your own president! - how fckd up is that?) THEN obvious religion DOES have a backward approach to things like disciplining a child - I mean in actual fact, children are seen by religious organizations as children of 'god' (lol) and should obey their 'father' (ie not think for themselves) I'm extremely concerned for the United States children, I feel they are in fear and they are growing up with this nonsense 'feeling' of religion and not taking any responsibility for the world, or their own society. Religion was NEVER this extreme a few decades ago. But even with separation of church and state STILL religion is given power and decision over childrens life and learning abilities! Why you have 'in god we trust' on your coins? Is SO counter productive to a 'separation of church and state' its unbelievable. I mean children handle coins! Of course they will never learn, and inevitably become ignorant 'fathers' (since women are second rate in the church).
What do you think it is?
Because of tried and that's the ONLY thing that seems to be common with countries that spank their children to create fear, pain and shock.
Note: The sexual fantasies of 'spankings' in adulthood is a good thing, as long as BOTH parties are agreeable. Otherwise its ABUSE.
Its NEVER ok for a child to be hit anyone ever. In school or at home!!
Your thoughts? (meaning anyone with common sense).
Its that old point of, if it helps even one person then its all worth it.
Correct, corporal punishment is NOT universal. As stated earlier (and I'll try not to babble) we have now FULLY worked out that communication on a child's level solves issues, smacking only causes pain and usually fear followed by anger, of the child!!!
I worry that children in the US are all planning in their mind to kill their parents one day. I seriously do. If someone hit me every now and then for years! If I grew bigger and stronger than them, guess what? Pretty sure I'd give them a smack of my own, and then feeble explanation would be, because I told you so! (ie ridiculous reason).
One other thing, I'm not positive fully about this, but I think that US citizens believe they are the entire world. They're not.
There's different religions from entire OTHER countries, there's different laws there's different mindset etc etc.
The word 'disciplining' a child, now does not involve ANY physical abuse > NONE.
It did use to. It DID mean a clip behind the ear, or a smack, or light shrug. That type of thing. A LONG LONG time ago. If I went up to ANYONE and said do you discipline your foul mouth boy (a hypothetical silly example) and they said YES, they would NOT mean any physical anything at all. Because 'disciplining' ONLY means the following: (usually one of only at a time)
Saying 'NO' (sometimes this can be without explanation ie A parent knows best)
Giving timeout (could include parents timeout too, away from the child)
Removing access to mobile phone; tv; game etc etc For a few hours or days (can be up to 2 weeks)
'Grounded', meaning cannot go out to other places or where ever
> Communicating, explaining to the child why it is wrong, on THEIR level
It is NEVER EVER > Smacking
Because:
A child should never suffer physical abuse, at school, at home or out. Nor should an adult !!!!
It is NOT universal, MANY civilized countries count it as illegal, ie Assault, Neglect, Abuse
IT DOES NOT HELP. Thankfully it has been fully researched. Smacking does not educate a child right from wrong, it TELLS them the stronger scarier person is right. Just like they will be one day !!!
It causes pain, fear, anger, withdrawal, sometimes bodily marks, embarrassment. Just about everything a parent NEVER wants their child to ever have.
I could NEVER smack my child.
1. Because I love them too much
2. Because its idiotic.
I do not understand how the world leader country has BACKWARD ideas?? It is STRANGE.
I mean can women still be legally raped by their husbands over there?
STOP smacking your children, before its too late.
And for those that say 'I was smacked when I was young, and I don't have any issues'
Well so did I. I got smacked/belted ALL the time by my Dad. I NEVER knew why, even when he yelled at me, I had NO idea why. All I felt was pain and FEAR, when the moment before I was happy and laughing! I hated my Dad for it. Once my older brother held a knife to my Dad (because he was angry) and I didn't even care if he killed him (at the time I was still young) because that would stop him belting us! NOTE: Dad wasn't crazy, he belted us because we broke stuff, swore, didn't listen, didn't go to bed, etc etc etc ie ALL NORMAL BOYISH (or child) stuff. The problem was my 'Dad' had never known any better. Thankfully I learned NOT to do the same to my kids.
By the way, MY kids are polite, friendly, intelligent well mannered. Yes sometimes out of hand. And I have NEVER smacked them, but I have disciplined them ;)
I 'think' its because of your idiotic religious stronghold in the US, but I agree that I'm a tad bias against religion in general, so I could be wrong. But why the US don't ban smacking a CHILD is beyond NORMAL logic.
The government has been putting more limits on corporeal punishment, but it is still legal in certain terms. A parent can smack on the butt, bare handed. They have tried to stop people from hitting their children in the face, or other areas, however it isn't very affective.
The only time I was ever afraid of my mother was when she went to whip me one an occasion when I had already had a panic attack from her being in my face and screaming in my ears. I was molested as a child and close contact makes me nervous. When she actually went to hit me with belt, I stood up and kicked her across the room. At the time I wasn't really in in my right mind, I was on flight or fight mode and there was no where to run. My panic attack naturally made it worse, that and she was built up into a flying rage. I locked her out of our bathroom, called my grandmother, and begged her to do something. That night was the night my mother realized how damaging it was to me. Between the eariler abuse, and my general phobia of people touching my ears,eyes,nose,mouth,toes, I couldn't handle it, and would mentally shut down. I guess she finally understood.
Yet, in saying that, for the life of me I can't see how a father 'spanking' his 10yo daughter bare backside could be legal? It verges on many issues including sexual abuse! Mainly its definitely physical abuse, EVEN lightly.
We have (well had, I haven't seen them lately) commercials on TV where they say physical abuse against anyone is not ok. they showed pictures of physically abused women and then children picking up on the abuse (teachings!) and doing the same. The entire principle of the ad, was that hitting, smacking, spanking is cowardly and basically imbecilic.
A parent canNOT spank a child, bare handed or with any tool (of which would then be classed as a weapon). This includes at home away from the public's eye.
IF the child told someone (teacher, friend, anyone) or if someone saw the abuse, the parents would be charged in a criminal manner. since it is a crime NOT a civil issue between people. Likely the child would remain with the parent still, on first offense (dependent upon severity) subsequent 'beatings' would/could place the parent in jail, and definitely will have the child removed to protective services (ie government care - which can have its own issues, but NEVER smacking).
In your case of molestation. You should have been given child psychologist ongoing help and the perpetrator at least charged. I understand courts may find people innocent BUT at least you made public his actions to everyone he knows and you know, possibly saving someone else from abuse. Quite obviously sexual abuse of a child is a mandatory imprisonment, usually without any release date, until the attacker can at least show some understanding of why it is wrong (whilst still in prison).
Your 'phobia' of contact won't be there with someone you fully trust. It may be reminded at times to you, since that is YOUR past and therefore life goes on after the fact. Soldiers go to war and watch people getting blown apart they can STILL watch people afterwards. They haven't toughened up, they have just realized that at home they are NOT at war anymore. ie With your boyfriend/lover/husband or even loving parent you CAN be held and touched (ie ears eyes nose mouth etc). The past is the PAST. Your love ones are not the abusers so do not treat them as such. MOST guys want to build up a REAL trust with the ones they love. They'll defend you from others and protect you from harm. By you saying don't touch my ear or mouth etc, is a mistrust and means either 1. You are asking for sympathy (strange way of doing so) Or you are just not ready yet. Let them know that you still need professional help and its not THEM!
By the way, I'm positive I could hug you and you'd know it was real. And it wouldn't even matter if your nose got touched Lol Because when you show caring and understanding you KNOW that its not wrong, and this could be within minutes of meeting you! Either get with someone you trust, or seek help. By the way the toes thing can be sensitive (tickly) and some reason some people have fetishes about feet, no idea what the hell that is, but maybe stay away from foot fetish people, they seem strange to me anyway :D
Anyway make sure you or your husband (now or oneday?) don't spank your children. Its not sexual when the 'child' is not able to agree, its not a way of opening up a child's mind and allowing them to learn from it. Its just child abuse.
Oh, and I understand you are likely god loving, this is just your country again. Praying is not the answer either!
For those of you who use the brainwashed scapegoat as, "I was spanked and turned out fine" excuse to justify that is okay to beat your child, maybe you are not fine. Many people who were not physically abused turned out fine. With having said that, I am lead to believe, spanking is pointless. Unless, of course, you are a terrible parent and it's the only way you can have control over your child(ren).
I understand....humans are blood thirsty creatures, even if it's with our own flesh and blood.
technically it's "and/or"
also... "with having said that" makes no sense. It should just be "having said that.."
and it's "I'm led to believe", not "lead".
also... it should be "For those of you who use the brainwashed scapegoat such as "..." as an excuse....
and finally, what does spanking his daughter have to do with being blood thirsty? Nobody said anything about vampires here.
and beesyds woo cares about punkshooashun and speleng eneeway.
Does your mom know he does this??
Is it, or is it not, a parents responsibility to bring up a child properly?
If the child is being punished for nothing other than sexual reasons then it is indeed wrong.
However, my father told me that he was slapped on the hands with rulers and even caned at school, this being in the 1970's. He now runs his own successful business and accepts that a lot of the bullying which went on, even in business, probably up until the 90's is wrong. We live in a changed society today.
Nevertheless, whilst I wouldn't spank a child of my own, I can appreciate why my father used to spank me.
I was only spanked when I deserved it, and there would be varying levels depending upon what I had done.
I wasn't an out of control child but I had a personality of my own and occasionally chose to flaunt my parents rules. I knew the consequences but still went ahead with what I was doing.
Part of it was testing the challenge and part of it was saying "come on now, understand that this is a different era and let me live my life".
I fully appreciate the way my parents brought me up and I now have a degree and am working in a responsible position, so it can't have been that bad, eh?
Why does everybody have to condone what was once perfectly normal just because some mamby pamby pathetic person sat on their backsides all day with nothing better to do creates something which is then voted upon and deemed illegal?
something wrong somewhere
(And what on this green earth is "bingging"?)
Are we talking about galvanic skin response sensors, like those used in polygraph machines? On the fingers, or on the face?
Males and females get "instantly aroused" from pictures of naked people, as measured by galvanic skin response, is that what you mean?
You said "men become instantly aroused at the sight of a young female's genitalia," and you said you're a graduating medical student. Does your concern
about fathers and daughters extend to male doctors and
young female patients?
Whether your dad is a pervert or just really fucking old fashioned, this is child abuse. If you have any younger siblings, I hope this guy gets what's coming to him. If it's just you, I don't blame you for waiting it out 2 more years.
Either you are lying, (tho I don't think you are) or you dad is really abusing you.
My guess is that he is one VERY disturbed individual.
Habitual bare bottom spankings for minor offences is very wrong.
Your dad probably has a strong spanking fetish and you are "handy".
Let him spank your mom, or go to a hooker, and he must seek professional counseling so that he can channel his desires appropriately.
My friend's dad used a nasty belt to spank my friend's panty clad butt, (we were about 15 then) so I am acquainted with the psychological damage such abuse can cause.
Please try to get your mom to help both you and your dad. Good luck.
Nah, just joking, who cares?
Laurey.
That's if you are 16 and not some guy getting off on the fantasy of 16 year old girls getting spanked by daddy.
This site is tiring sometimes...
we r unlucky.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT, you are being criminally assaulted. Go to the police.
he does it through 'spanking' to make his pedophila seem like 'parental discipline' in case your report him to the cops.
tell him if he does it again you're going to the police or report him to child's aid.
seriously his behavior is disgusting, sickening and creepy to me. It has to stop.
Is it normal to break the law?
NO its not.
What law exactly? (since the US as one of the ONLY civilized countries that still ok this!)
Humankind law that states don't abuse and cause pain to ANYONE, for ANY reason.
I blame the stronghold religious aspect of the US still.
I understand there will be many who state that this is not relevant in their particular family. But since you are jailed in generally ALL other civilized countries for this physical abuse, then the US need to start thinking rationally and wake up to the fact that:
Physical abuse should NEVER be tolerated in any situation.
I mean do you guys also BELT your wives if they do wrong? How is this different to a 13 or 16yo? Because they can't fight back? Teenagers CAN think rationally, yes they are immature but their brain works perfectly, I'd say MOST are smarter than their own parents, especially in this case!
Note: I was also belted as a child, often.
Did I turn out ok? Yes
Oh.. Except I was frightened as shit of my own Dad, and I LITERALLY hated him, just for that alone!
Plus I do have a small confidence issue that I blame on it too.
Looking back I truly WISH my Dad just talked to me WHY I did wrong, until I understood clearly. Being belted just made me scared, angry and HURT.
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I got spanked unil I was eighteen, once I hit puberty, it was by mom, I'm female. Generally it was ten or so licks with the belt, I hatred it....byt I am not in prison ad it worked for serious stuff........ The one time my dad spanked me was ast fourteen for sneaking out and getting stranded at 2 am...it was the worst of my life 20 licks bare :( butt never stuck out again
it's really not normal if u think about it
And just so you know, when you talk about paddling your daughter's bare ass, or if she ever tells anyone, it would have to be quite a challenge to convince people out of picturing you getting off on it.
If you determine if your dad is “Just Mean” or if your spanking is “Sex abuse,” then you will need outside intervention. If you determine your punishment is deserved and you can exchange civil words with your dad, then don’t feel that you’re being treated like a child. After he finishes, embrace him and thank him for taking the time with you to show that he cares. You might also ask him what you can do to avoid another incident like this.
People today have a tendency to judge something as all bad when it is inappropriate, done incorrectly, and for a wrong reason in an isolated incident. It is unfortunate that our society does not teach the correct way and time to give a spanking. It does NOT solve all problems, and it is NOT all bad.
Spanking done as a scare tactic is for the wrong reason. It must always be a “care” tactic. If it is like learning to ride a bicycle, then that IS wrong and not normal. It should only be given in the most serious of rule violations and repetitions of them. The person getting spanked must always understand that it is a result of their making and not a result of getting caught.
God Bless America and our children.
is ur dad a perver? sry but is he??? i mean rly, that makes no sense what so ever
I love my father and he raised me well. =)
Firstly for a 16 year old girl to be spanked against her will think is wrong. I dont know what country you are in but there may be a number you can call such as childline.
On the other hand I was spanked as a kid at school and although I hated it at the time I have come to enjoy it as part of sex. But then that is more like erotic spanking between myself and girlfriend where we both enjoy it a lot and find it can be a real turn on
Aris
A husband has absolutely no right to spank his wife as punishment. A woman doesn't have to answer to her significant other like that. It's fine if she wants him to spank her in a sexual way, but this is not cool. And I doubt spanking would fix the problems you think we have over here.
The fact that they have to be spanked bare adds to the punishment.
I am not one of those who spanks for any small misbehavior. If anyone gets spanked more than once in 3 weeks then it is a lot.
Anyone who suggests that there is any sexual reason behind me spanking my daughters is just a sick person.
Yeah, right.
mom & dad should spankins
stare at age 5 yr old-- should stop at age 21
the bottom line is ur kids will love
I get the chance to pick a window if i'm "out of order" or get a punch.
16 and gettin bare arsed spanked; that is not normal no!
that will teach him
Spanking is NOT at all acceptable!
i spanked my daughter she is 11 year old when she is a naughty girl.i lay her accross my laps giving her 20 swats with my hairbrush for serious offenses and 10 swats for minnor offenses. i hug her after the spanking, her butt is always red and sore, but i think she deserves that.i use a cool cream and the very next day she is ok.
and i think i will spank her till forever if she misbehaves. but i will not allow her dad to spank her after 13 year old.its not normal.
the bare bottom is very much a humiliation, to the person being spanked, and allows the person spanking to know how much damage they are doing, or trying to prevent doing to the person being spanked. My cousin now wished several spankings he had as a child would have been bare assed, as his dad would never have done the damage to him. if he had to witness it first hand, ie. not hidden by clothing.
you are a retarded little brat, suck it up and deal with it.
if you have been spanked up to the age of 18 you add an extra 5 years to your life.
I was personally spanked until i was 18
This guy went to jail for spanking his older daughter bare and I hope the two of you do too! You are sick, sexual abusers. Go to hell.
Well, I will tell you how my mother viewed the whole subject when I was growing up. "Act like a chid and show the responsibility level of a five year old and you will be dealt with as such." You see the point? A person is to be dealt with and punished according to the age level they are acting at the given moment, not their biological age. So if person is 16 and acting or showing the level of responsibility of a five year old, then they will be dealt with and punished as such.
That having been said. I say "way to go" to the girl's father!! Here is a dad who cares. He is not baring his kid's backside for sexual reasons but for disciplinary reasons.
For any punishment to be effective it must carry undesireable and unpleasant consequences both physically and emotionally. A bare bottom spanking definitely fits that criteria. Now I am not talking about abuse, but effective discipline.
I was spanked as a child. Often bare bottomed. Momentarily it was pretty painful both physically and emotionally. There was not abuse, however. There were not any real marks left other than a momentary red bottom. As far as I know, no one has ever died or sustained any long term health problems from a red bottom. I am a better person as an adult because of it.
In conclusion, I say "Way to go dad". Congratulations for not joining the vast group of people of today who have been brainwashed by the "Dr.Spocks".
As for RubyAndreas, U GO TO HELL.
I don't know if this is abuse, pervertednes, or he thinks it's normal. We don't no.
All that we have is a story. How can all of u just listen to a few sentences and then say "it's deffinatly abuse."
the fact is u don't no. As many ppl have said, he probly had it done to him. So it's very possible that he thinks it's normal. I don't know. U don't either. But it is true that w/ pants on ther is little to no effect.
And as for u idiots who tell her to "fight back" and " kick him in the balls", ( yes they're in here. I'm not kidding. Ppl r that stupid.) if he is punishing u for something, and u kick him in the balls, wut do u think he's gonna do? Be nice to u? If anything, it'll just make him madder. Especially if it's abuse, he will definatly try to make your punishment worse. Which, believe it or not, is not good. It won't get u anywer. And if u love ur dad, don't tell the athaurities. U most likely won't see him again. Wut u need to do is talk to him about it. Get some balls and ask him to find some other punishment. Like grounding or taking away privelages. Take courage. But as many have said, it's his house, his rules.
I think that that is all I want to say. I felt so disgusted by some of ur comments that I created an account just so I could add my wisdom. Cuz u really need it. A lot. My final conclusion is that we can't decide wut it is. No one else should comment unless they have good ideas that r not stupid.
Aris
I think they should find a different form of punishment really.
ok! i hope ur dad is literate n he has gone thru biology once be4 . just talk 2 ur mom or try talkin to her n tell her that ur sex hormones and sex cells r active n u hv periods(i know dt she knows laready bt be sarcastic). tell her dt it would not be right for u to show ur boobs or ass to anyone else just like dt cause they hv grown. m 21 n i keep lukin for sexually related questions on net to answer em. i never got spanked n my parents were very lenient. dey were though not too gifting kinda people. when they used to punish me , dey used to talk gently n in a very unusual (depressed n hopeless) manner to me n dt ws enough 4 me to go do wt dey expect. so , wt u need is not good grades. two things after mom to daughter talk. when next time dad spanks u , u remove all ur clothings be4 he comes to spank u(if dt is comfortable 4 u) and let him observe ur adulthood. he would realize slowly dt u r not a five year old. u know , parents always want their child to not to repeat d mistakes dey did. they want u to be successful and for them u r always a child . don't be too harsh to them and receive spanking as if it doesn't hurt . don't stop him and don't cry or shout during the session(u hv to control ur pain from ur butt inferno) .just do wtever he says . try to reflect glimpses of adulthood by making food for urself and doin ur own work urself . it will help u know. i did all dt from d age of 8 . try to be as much naked in front of ur dad as possible (if it doesn't hurt ur sentiments) . just let him see vagina hole(try spreading ur legs by any methods possible and whenever possible). he would feel ashamed and uncomformtable and the next time he spanks u would be d last time (i hope)
thank you.
First, of all, 16 is not an adult. You are still legally, and apparently emotionally underage. He is your parent and as such has every the right to spank your bare bottom however he chooses as long as it’s warranted (which it is in this case), and not excessive. You do not get to ‘choose’ the punishment. If he believes in spankings; as long as long as you are underage, living under his roof, and disobey, that’s what you deserve and get. You think 16 is too old to be spanked. I definitely don’t! Whoever said that teenagers can’t or shouldn’t be spanked? There’s no law or rule that says spankings should stop at a certain age? It’s at a parents’ discretion. If you don’t wanna be treated like ‘5’, then be old enough to obey the rules.
Second, it’s great that you’re doing well in school, but I wouldn’t agree that you don’t cause any trouble. You missed the established curfew. That’s ‘trouble’ for you, and for him.
Third, you knew the rule and you broke it. You obviously still need guidance and to learn the consequences for your actions.
Learn from this and be grateful that you have a dad who loves you enough to spank you when you deserve it. If you were my daughter, first I’d blister your bare bottom till you were hoarse from crying and couldn’t sit down for a week. Then I’d lovingly hold you in my arms, tell you how much I love you and it hurts me to have to punish you, and let you cry it out.
i'd be spanking you and myself at the same time, and i'd also play with/fondle ur boobs, then i'd be fucking u hard in the pussy, then i'd want u to facesit on me and fart a nice and smelly one so i can devour it, then i eat u out like a pro♥ ;)
The conversation got on to smoking and somebody asked our 19 year old daughter if she had ever smoked.
She replied she can not. She said if she did we would take her knickes down and she would have an extremely sore bum.
"It is WRONG to harm ANY living creature for ANY reason other than to prevent THEM doing harm."
Read it several times. Your duty is to do your VERY BEST to live by that rule as closely as you are able.
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Now that all the comments are in I will come clean.
I have only ONCE ever spanked a kid of mine bare OTK. This was in a case where one of my kids bit another.
She was 6 at the time.
Besides that case I have never bare-arse spanked a kid of mine and wold never do so again. Spanking a 16 year old is totally out of the question.
I just wanted to see what comments would come in.
I've seen my stepdaughter's genitals and twice even her chest when she's gotten the belt because she's had to pull a one-piece bathing suit to her knees.
We insist on modesty, ironically enough, and do not allow two piece swimwear, but most people know that there's no way to pull the back of a girl's one-piece swimsuit away from the buttocks while keeping her breasts covered.
The thing is, she must not mind her breasts showing that much because with her bathing suit to her knees, she puts both hands over her pubic hair, leaving her breasts to bounce away. I've even taunted her, saying that there's really nothing to be accomplished holding her hands over her pubic hair because her "private"-Hahaha-parts are fully visible from behind.
I guess a 13-year-old gets used to her bare C-cups jiggling after a few spankings, but it's not my problem either way.