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I am a 16 year old girl and I still get bare bottom spankings from my dad. I had a date saturday night and came in past curfew and as soon as I came in, my dad made me go to my room and pull my pants down and gave a me spanking with Mom's old hairbrush. I get spanked about 2 or 3 times a month. I get good grades and don't cause any trouble. My parents are way too strict with me. How can I get them to stop treating me like a five year old?
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does he choke himself while he does it?
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Your biological male parent is a sick mother-fucker. I'm sure we'll all learn more about him onc he's arrested.

If you were my sister, I'd fuckin' castrate that child sex offender, with a very slow sawing motion. Some states have laws against that. "Forced" sexual activity with a child is illegal regardless of relation.

Women have their husbands arrested on 'Rape Charges' if they say "no" and he still has sex with her.

There are a few confidential 'hot-lines' in every state that can help you. They may give you a 'Temporary Protective Order' which could keep him outof the house and away from you for a year.

If he's 'touching' you, he's touching others. You can put an end to the molestation of his future victims. Have him visit NYCity... We'll 'clean' him for you.
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Canttel
Hes a pedophile
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Your dad has problems and has know idea how to deal with simple problems. Generally if someone lacks inteligence they resort to being physical because well their just to stupid to just have a talk.
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@: lann757
No intelligence, eh?
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wow america still amazes me. spanking a child is weird. let alone a 16 year old. i would move house. maybe your dad is getting sexual pleasure out of it. creepy.
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@: t33h33
I think 16 is too old I would spank my daughters on the bottom when they are naughty but they are all under 11 . I was spangled till 14 and I think that was way to old
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not normal but a lot of people on this site say it is SHOWING THAT LOTS OF THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE ARE NOT NORMAL!
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My thoughts exactly.
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so what ?
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exactly the point of veiw here
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I'm 40 years old raising my 16 year old daughter without a mom. I actually try different types of discipline. I say this to say, as a man discipling a young lady...you need to be careful! When my daughter was younger many times I could look at her sternly or else use a firm voice and she would behave. As she has become a teenager, she is testing me a bit more. So at 12 she skipped school once to hang out with some friends - she was put on punishment for 2 weeks (no phone, no pc, no tv, no radio) - it worked. A year later she and a friend sneaked out of the house to go watch a dvd by a friends home at 11:30pm...when they got home they were scolded and my daughter was again grounded for 2 weeks. I forbade her to hang with that other friend until I could see her making better decisions...well 2 weeks later she skipped school and went to the mall and got picked up by police for being truant. I had to leave work to go pick her up - So when we got home, yes - I whuped her butt with my belt. She of course kept her clothes on, I held her by the arm, I'm 6'4 and she's 5'1 so I'm twice her size - I swung an unfolded belt directly at her butt and upper thighs and I connected 13 times (since she was 13 years old) - I let her calm down and stop crying and then I explained to her the dangers of not being at school when I think she is, how I need to know where she is at all times, and how dangerous it is to do otherwise. She apologized, I hugged her and assured her I loved her...and she has been straight ever since....like I said, she's 16 now. I've never had to use my belt again. But I did overhear her once two months ago talkin to a friend over the phone sayin "naw, I better not, my daddy would whip my butt if I tried to sneak to this party." So at least she knows its still an option and she respects it.
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That's illegal in the UK, and for good reason
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Dad
Agreed, and replied as well
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Beat a girl less than half your size with a piece of leather? 12 is borderline, 13 is pushing it. 16 is too old to spank anyone. You can get a DUI, stab someone, even beat your damn wife in this country...but it's illegal for a judge to have you bent over and whipped, or caned like they do in Singapore? They call it "cruel and unusual punishment". It's insane. A spanking is for children under 10 years old, to be done with an open hand to butt. Anything else is abuse. You're a coward who beats women.
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Dad
Why the hell would 30 people like this?
Yes I agree that not all things on IIN will be 'normal' in everyone's mind. But in this case its just WRONG.

Only the US and I think Arabia believe in this corporal punishment (there are some other scattered places) But MOST of the world KNOW it is wrong.

As a 'Dad' myself to a girl teenager (and a fulltime sole dad at that) I have NEVER needed to physically hurt my little girl. You said 13 spanks for a 13yo? Since its ILLEGAL (as lukeuser stated) in MOST civilized countries (nearly ALL) You are very lucky you are in the US.
In the teenage issues you reported above, you would have been better off talking sense (on her level) why it isn't safe or accepted in society. I did and it worked! Why? Not because she magically must be a really understanding teenager, BUT because at 13 guess what? You CAN reason with them. Whereas at 5, you need to be more of a watchful parent and protect them. At NO stage does that mean abuse them!

PHYSICAL ABUSE TO YOUR DAUGHTER, YOUR WIFE, OR > 'ANYONE' IS WRONG.
Quite obviously the US don't get those types of advertisements, or EDUCATION at school stating this as FACT.

Since the US must state, 'oh in this case please beat your daughter'? Then what that shows me is that your laws require an immediate overhaul. And girls (teenagers and younger) get the hell out of there, it is NOT safe to be beaten, even at home! These parents VERY old fashioned ideas can literally scar you for life or worse.

If I see some FckWit beating his daughter. Or found out about it the next day, I'd be turning up on his doorstep to scare the shit out of him myself. Since quite obviously intelligence and rational communication is not part of his vocabulary. As for a child, they obviously would have a better chance in a normal non abusive family. ie The 'Mother' should have taken the children off you a long time ago. YOU are unfit to be called a father, and in any other country you would be (mandatory) locked up.

30 people agreed with you? Don't ever have children!
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@: Dad
You are so right. This country has way more idiots that it should. We assault kids with belts and rods. Offer them no protection, let people buy semi-automatic weapons without background checks. Its freaking backwards, we need to get these southern states and midwest under real control.
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@: JohnT
Hi JohnT, my above post was made 4months ago but I obviously still fully agree with NO corporal punishment.
The only 'handling' of a child should be to hold hands crossing streets (etc) and obviously picking up (for small children) and hugged or taken to bed (or whatever) Obviously physical contact between a parent and child should always be loving; re-assuring; and for safety concerns.

But to spank and willingly try to cause pain and/or shock and discomfort? What the hell is that?
The ONLY time I have seen it here (note: here being ILLEGAL to spank children) is from some drugged up or drunken abusive mother you tend to see at the shops (or train station!) every once in a while. Most look at the 'parent' in disgust, but none approach KNOWING that if the 'Mom' would actually hit their own children (illegally) then they wouldn't hold back with any other abuse at anyone else. Obviously if it crosses the line (actual beating ie say more than one (illegal) smack) then intervening would be reasonable of any civilized person.

BUT the US? I have tried and tried to work out this mindset?
Now I know that other countries and even other states have somewhat different ways of handling life. Yes differences exist between countries (not racist, just fact) Obviously history and physical body and even climate can cause differences (ie I always say that the Middle East is so damn backward is because of the hot sun - hence wear a burka, great idea, but NOT a religious thing!??

But back to the US. The climate 'seems' fine (not extreme heat, or freezing cold. The people body and face seem average, although I think Americans are generally taller and fatter, plus teenagers look like adults more so than other countries. Generally I'd say its not a body issue. History 'could' play a part (especially on ludicrous gun laws, 'the gun doesn't kill the person does'? What absolute rubbish! Give a gun to ANY angry teenager ANYTHING could happen).
So it just comes down to common mindset (or society, ie laws, beliefs, culture, even ignorance!)

Since EXTENSIVE research by civilized countries (by scientific research officers, and psychological 'doctors' and child learning centers etc etc) has CONFIRMED that communicating without physical abuse (or any definition of physical shock spanking) fully WORKS perfectly, especially if that communication is (on the child's mindset level) clear, loving, respectful and consistent. True 'time out' or 'naughty corner' (NOT behind locked doors btw) can be effective too, as it ALSO gives the parent 'time out' to allow patience and understanding to continue.

So what is it about the US? Why is the US in the same category as the Middle East and other undeveloped countries on 'smacking' (or physical abuse) to 'loved' ones!?
THIS is the ONLY thing I can think of. And I have tried to be as open and comprehensive as possible, looking at ALL scenarios.
Its because of your idiotic backward religious feelings. To avoid the common sense natural scientific realist 'human' debate how EVERYTHING happened naturally (as it still does), and anything contrary to that is just plain dumb. I can only say that because your 'religious' following allowing religion into your society in a major way (coins, schools, even your own president! - how fckd up is that?) THEN obvious religion DOES have a backward approach to things like disciplining a child - I mean in actual fact, children are seen by religious organizations as children of 'god' (lol) and should obey their 'father' (ie not think for themselves) I'm extremely concerned for the United States children, I feel they are in fear and they are growing up with this nonsense 'feeling' of religion and not taking any responsibility for the world, or their own society. Religion was NEVER this extreme a few decades ago. But even with separation of church and state STILL religion is given power and decision over childrens life and learning abilities! Why you have 'in god we trust' on your coins? Is SO counter productive to a 'separation of church and state' its unbelievable. I mean children handle coins! Of course they will never learn, and inevitably become ignorant 'fathers' (since women are second rate in the church).

What do you think it is?
Because of tried and that's the ONLY thing that seems to be common with countries that spank their children to create fear, pain and shock.

Note: The sexual fantasies of 'spankings' in adulthood is a good thing, as long as BOTH parties are agreeable. Otherwise its ABUSE.

Its NEVER ok for a child to be hit anyone ever. In school or at home!!

Your thoughts? (meaning anyone with common sense).
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@: Dad
So corporeal punishment is illegal in other countries, I had no idea. I thought it was normal, when I was in school, not long ago to be paddled was normal. We never thought anything was wrong with it. Hell we used to make every one shut up so we could hear if the person was cry.ing/screaming or not. I think you have the right idea, I personally don't like it, but thought it was normal until now. Its just what everyone does here. I've been whipped before, all of four times lol.
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Dad
I'm glad you replied.
Its that old point of, if it helps even one person then its all worth it.

Correct, corporal punishment is NOT universal. As stated earlier (and I'll try not to babble) we have now FULLY worked out that communication on a child's level solves issues, smacking only causes pain and usually fear followed by anger, of the child!!!

I worry that children in the US are all planning in their mind to kill their parents one day. I seriously do. If someone hit me every now and then for years! If I grew bigger and stronger than them, guess what? Pretty sure I'd give them a smack of my own, and then feeble explanation would be, because I told you so! (ie ridiculous reason).


One other thing, I'm not positive fully about this, but I think that US citizens believe they are the entire world. They're not.
There's different religions from entire OTHER countries, there's different laws there's different mindset etc etc.

The word 'disciplining' a child, now does not involve ANY physical abuse > NONE.
It did use to. It DID mean a clip behind the ear, or a smack, or light shrug. That type of thing. A LONG LONG time ago. If I went up to ANYONE and said do you discipline your foul mouth boy (a hypothetical silly example) and they said YES, they would NOT mean any physical anything at all. Because 'disciplining' ONLY means the following: (usually one of only at a time)

Saying 'NO' (sometimes this can be without explanation ie A parent knows best)
Giving timeout (could include parents timeout too, away from the child)
Removing access to mobile phone; tv; game etc etc For a few hours or days (can be up to 2 weeks)
'Grounded', meaning cannot go out to other places or where ever
> Communicating, explaining to the child why it is wrong, on THEIR level

It is NEVER EVER > Smacking

Because:
A child should never suffer physical abuse, at school, at home or out. Nor should an adult !!!!
It is NOT universal, MANY civilized countries count it as illegal, ie Assault, Neglect, Abuse
IT DOES NOT HELP. Thankfully it has been fully researched. Smacking does not educate a child right from wrong, it TELLS them the stronger scarier person is right. Just like they will be one day !!!
It causes pain, fear, anger, withdrawal, sometimes bodily marks, embarrassment. Just about everything a parent NEVER wants their child to ever have.


I could NEVER smack my child.
1. Because I love them too much
2. Because its idiotic.


I do not understand how the world leader country has BACKWARD ideas?? It is STRANGE.
I mean can women still be legally raped by their husbands over there?
STOP smacking your children, before its too late.

And for those that say 'I was smacked when I was young, and I don't have any issues'
Well so did I. I got smacked/belted ALL the time by my Dad. I NEVER knew why, even when he yelled at me, I had NO idea why. All I felt was pain and FEAR, when the moment before I was happy and laughing! I hated my Dad for it. Once my older brother held a knife to my Dad (because he was angry) and I didn't even care if he killed him (at the time I was still young) because that would stop him belting us! NOTE: Dad wasn't crazy, he belted us because we broke stuff, swore, didn't listen, didn't go to bed, etc etc etc ie ALL NORMAL BOYISH (or child) stuff. The problem was my 'Dad' had never known any better. Thankfully I learned NOT to do the same to my kids.

By the way, MY kids are polite, friendly, intelligent well mannered. Yes sometimes out of hand. And I have NEVER smacked them, but I have disciplined them ;)

I 'think' its because of your idiotic religious stronghold in the US, but I agree that I'm a tad bias against religion in general, so I could be wrong. But why the US don't ban smacking a CHILD is beyond NORMAL logic.
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Canttel
I rlly hate it when parents raise their kids outta fear. Please just put her on a long (6 month) punishment! You know eat it feels like to get whipped with an object so why do it to someone else?? Have u ever had a talk with her? I bet u its her freinds pushing her to do it
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Wow you're a horrible father. A 13 year old should never be spanked. You could have found another way to discipline her.
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Many of these comments show stupidity, which has no cure. For those of us who are intelligent, please observe the comments by those who support and or condone the behaviour of this topic. The comments have horrible grammar, punctuation, and or spelling. Some go as far as ghetto typing with nonsense such as "ur" in place of "you're" or "your."

For those of you who use the brainwashed scapegoat as, "I was spanked and turned out fine" excuse to justify that is okay to beat your child, maybe you are not fine. Many people who were not physically abused turned out fine. With having said that, I am lead to believe, spanking is pointless. Unless, of course, you are a terrible parent and it's the only way you can have control over your child(ren).

I understand....humans are blood thirsty creatures, even if it's with our own flesh and blood.
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wow. nose in the air a bit?

technically it's "and/or"

also... "with having said that" makes no sense. It should just be "having said that.."

and it's "I'm led to believe", not "lead".

also... it should be "For those of you who use the brainwashed scapegoat such as "..." as an excuse....

and finally, what does spanking his daughter have to do with being blood thirsty? Nobody said anything about vampires here.

and beesyds woo cares about punkshooashun and speleng eneeway.
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You beat your kids then you're an animal...pure and simple. Beating someone to tears are the same things that slave owners did...Saddam did...ect.
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@: JohnT
Well.. of course. Anyone who beats a child (theirs or not) needs a whoopin themselves. I would never, ever, ever stand by and observe anyone beating any child. I would intervene, regardless of circumstances, regardless of backstory, regardless of consequences to myself. period.
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shut up!!!
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@: Mark3L
why he/she is right.
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Dfuck
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There is an element of idiot in this country, mostly confederate states who are anti-education-evangelicals and they should've been bred out about 20 years ago.
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@: JohnT
I live in Florida. I used to live in Virginia. So many northerners use southern stereotypes. You are no better than a racist. For your information, I don't believe in spankings.
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Anonymous
This is perverted, your dad should not be spanking you like this at your age. No child should be spanked bare assed, ever!

Does your mom know he does this??

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I think it is wrong and perverted but I have been spanked with belts when i was younger and i hated it. You really should talk to the authorities as soon as possible because NOONE should have to go through that ESPECIALLY if you are a young woman and your sixteen.
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What about my girlfriend...?
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As long as you live under his roof, you should expect a spanking whenever he thinks you deserve it. No matter how old you are!
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@: glyisa
That sounds dictatorial.
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mzgonnabee
i agree
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next time your dad goes to spank your arse, trip him up and make sure you bam his nose right up your stinkin arse, he sure as hell wont spank you again.
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try this take your mom and in front of your dad spank your mom then pull down her pants then spank her with her panties on then pull her panties down and spank her bare ass then get the stick the belt and get the bare hand out and spank the shit out of her ass and if you can pretty pretty sup pretty pleas post pictures and post a video of the spanking video of all of it that means every second of it in pictures and on video if you want them to stop giving you bare bottom spankings you will do this trust me this is what i had to do and it worked really easy. from 92736467
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wtf is wrong with you
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@: bubber
he's trollin'
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I am confused by a lot of this.
Is it, or is it not, a parents responsibility to bring up a child properly?
If the child is being punished for nothing other than sexual reasons then it is indeed wrong.
However, my father told me that he was slapped on the hands with rulers and even caned at school, this being in the 1970's. He now runs his own successful business and accepts that a lot of the bullying which went on, even in business, probably up until the 90's is wrong. We live in a changed society today.
Nevertheless, whilst I wouldn't spank a child of my own, I can appreciate why my father used to spank me.
I was only spanked when I deserved it, and there would be varying levels depending upon what I had done.
I wasn't an out of control child but I had a personality of my own and occasionally chose to flaunt my parents rules. I knew the consequences but still went ahead with what I was doing.
Part of it was testing the challenge and part of it was saying "come on now, understand that this is a different era and let me live my life".
I fully appreciate the way my parents brought me up and I now have a degree and am working in a responsible position, so it can't have been that bad, eh?
Why does everybody have to condone what was once perfectly normal just because some mamby pamby pathetic person sat on their backsides all day with nothing better to do creates something which is then voted upon and deemed illegal?
something wrong somewhere
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What's wrong is the fact that if you slap a woman in a bar, or if you take a leather belt and give stranger on the street the kind of "spanking" this animal gave his 13 year old child, to a full grown adult who can handle it...you go to jail for assault. If you can't raise your kids properly without hitting them, then please, please, give your children to DHS. THey are far better off in foster than with "parent" who beats them. I really feel like who really hit their kids with belts or sticks, or anything should off themselves in shame. The world would be so much better off with them.
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hi wanted to ask ever in my lift i bingging bad to my mom and i am looking for a girl that can give me panisment.
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"Pain" + "punishment" = "Panishment".

(And what on this green earth is "bingging"?)
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@: acuK
Wow, acuK, it would be nice if you had been specific about the research.

Are we talking about galvanic skin response sensors, like those used in polygraph machines? On the fingers, or on the face?

Males and females get "instantly aroused" from pictures of naked people, as measured by galvanic skin response, is that what you mean?

You said "men become instantly aroused at the sight of a young female's genitalia," and you said you're a graduating medical student. Does your concern
about fathers and daughters extend to male doctors and
young female patients?
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@: acuK
well how do we know he is geting plesher out of it my mom spanked us all untill we moved out in 16 still bare spanked and my sister is 15 and she gets it too they have their resions and i dont think it is unnormal
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and now you type like you have Parkinson's.
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seexxyy
Ur dads A pervert!
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On the Curfew it's depends on if you were a little late or a lot late. As for the other spankings, were you spanked because you were acting like a very naughty child and needed a good sound bare bottom spanking? On the other hand, if all the spankings were for breaking curfew then another punishment should be given as the spankings are not stopping you from breaking curfew.
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im 28y/o and back in the day i used to get it on the bare butt and i turned out fine all of my friend also got it bare intill we moved out we learned not to lie, cheat, steal, or misbehave unless we wanted to get spanked and stand on the corner. But we always knew that after the spanking stoped the we would get held and told we are loved. Be glad you have parents who care that you don't end up in jail or worst.
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im 18..and.. still get spanked.. also with a broomstick belt or slipper if my mom catches me disobeying my older brother when he tells me to do something for him.
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hot ;)
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I'm really sorry that this happens to you. It pisses me off, because I went through the same thing with really strict parents. I don't think that your father is a pervert, my parents weren't. It is a power play. Its an ego trip, it's making the teenager understand they are still a small child in the eyes of the parent. He's afraid of you getting older and becoming a grown woman, and he wants to show you that he can still pull your pants down and spank you like a toddler. It's psychological abuse and that's what pisses me off. And no, I'm not a troll or some freaking pervert jacking off to this. I hope that it stops soon for you.
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Children of abusive parents always find ways to get their parents off the hook. Of COURSE it's normal when you're in the middle of the situation, because that IS what's normal for you.

Whether your dad is a pervert or just really fucking old fashioned, this is child abuse. If you have any younger siblings, I hope this guy gets what's coming to him. If it's just you, I don't blame you for waiting it out 2 more years.
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This behavior is not normal and whoever bob17 is or who wrote salty, this girl needs help, not some perverts reply or harassment. This is abusive behavior and needs to be taken seriosly. No one EVER deserves to be hit, no matter what they have done, and the fact that he does it barebottom and that you are 16 years old is even worse. GET HELP from someone you trust because this can only get worse!!!!!
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Ha of course it's not normal! How many of your 16 year old friends also get spanked? None? Exactly.

That's if you are 16 and not some guy getting off on the fantasy of 16 year old girls getting spanked by daddy.

This site is tiring sometimes...
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My Dad spanked me on the bare bottom growing up until I was 16 and I considered it quite normal
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WOW. You don't "cause any trouble"; you get good grades and STILL you're spanked 2-3 times a month?? on the bare?? GEEZS! Something doesn't compute.

Either you are lying, (tho I don't think you are) or you dad is really abusing you.

My guess is that he is one VERY disturbed individual.

Habitual bare bottom spankings for minor offences is very wrong.

Your dad probably has a strong spanking fetish and you are "handy".

Let him spank your mom, or go to a hooker, and he must seek professional counseling so that he can channel his desires appropriately.

My friend's dad used a nasty belt to spank my friend's panty clad butt, (we were about 15 then) so I am acquainted with the psychological damage such abuse can cause.

Please try to get your mom to help both you and your dad. Good luck.
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I am 41, and not blind. I love looking at girls, even teenaged ones (I love looking at females and the ones just "blooming" are pretty) but I would NEVER even think of touching or wanting to see one in that state.(bare bottomed) Its WRONG!! Anyone who would do that to you is seriously immature, or perverted. Talk to someone you TRUST.
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Somehow I don't think you're the only thing he spanks, due to an odd coincidence he also spanks the family monkey right after he spanks you. Must be the monkeys fault.

Nah, just joking, who cares?
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thats illigal
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Back in the old days it was alowed to spank,including bare bottomed.I know because I was spanked also.Your dad must be from the old school,But I still think its normal.Its what hes been taught and happened to him by his parents.Dont stay out pass curfew and be good and it wont happen.Remember his house his rules
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I agree. Spank on your bare bottom.
Laurey.
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@: laurey
I agree a spanking on bare bottom is ok
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Well im 23 and my mom gave me a spanking the other day pants down with hairbrush. So I think if u didnt follow the rules u should have gotten a spanking. As long as u live there u know the rules u break them u pay for it.
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You are so wrong to allow your parents to be spanking you at 23. Either you enjoy it which makes you mentally ill or you are unable to see how wrong it is to allow this behavior to continue. For someone to allow their parent to spank them at your age is unbelievable. In today's society if you are hit, slapped, punched, kicked, or anything at age 18, you can file an assault and battery charge against your mother, father, sibling, aunt, uncle or anyone who chooses to engage in this violent behavior. Spanking is wrong and it damages people psychologically. There are so many other ways to discipline children than spanking. People who are ignorant use spanking as a first resort and not as a very last resort after they have tried everything else. Even then, spanking should not be done on people after age 11. I do not believe in spanking. My husband and I did not spank our children and raised them with a lot of love, time and attention and they turned out getting in absolutely no trouble at home or school much less with the law even one time. They loved us and respected us because of how we raised us. Children who are spanked and especially abused tend to be rebellious, get in more trouble, are sexually promiscuous, end up having emotional and mental health issues even decades later in life. Not to mention, the person being spanked will have feelings of inferiority, humiliation, shame, guilt, feelings of being degraded, feeling devalued, and so much more. There are more effective ways to raise children than hitting them or spanking. For those who choose to continue to spank or abuse, they are going to have worse problems than if they use more effective ways of discipline like removing privileges, grounding, etc.
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Can you point me to the control study you performed to show the statistics about promiscuity, rebellion, and trouble making being directly linked to NORMAL corporal punishment?
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Sometimes, if I'm a really bad child, I'll let my dad play with my bare bottom a little ;)
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Yeah talk to someone and get them to intervene. Your dad is fucked in the head.
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A policeman would be a good choice for intervention.
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to HELL with intervention !!!!!!
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That would be "The act of intervening..." Smart one.
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its not normal to be spanked at sixteen sorry but it sounds your old man is sick in thehead or sex starved any would you should do if he continues is turn around and smack him in the mouth make him see senese
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Get ur mom full custody ur dad is a pervert
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wow yeah I think this is your dad being perverted not some kind of punishment and you should tell your mom
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Who really knows what is normal. I was raised by an aunt and I got it over the knee on the bare bottom well into my teens.She only spanked for serious offences but her three daughters got the same treatment and we all turned out fine. This was back in the 60's but I don't see a problem if a parent uses good old fashion discipline.
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NOT normal, especially not at your age. You're a young woman now, and for your dad to still being doing this (and for your mom to be okay with it!) is fucked up. The whole idea behind spanking isn't pain so much as humilation and shame... this sort of stuff has lasting psychological impact on anyone, but it is so much worse when you're on the cusp of adulthood. Call the authorities on your psycho-ass father!
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i agre plus u sholdent hav a cerfu at 16 i wos 9 wen my bro showd me thes and i didnt hav a bed time/cerfu lol my bff wen he wos 11 and his sis aka my g/f ther bed time wos 8 30
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also ask him why the need to pull your pants down? does he like the view of ur ass? girl believe me, that is not right. tell him to let your mum spank your ass not him if you are going to accept this situation. He is a man ffs. I personally would report him to the principal or police. You can try and tell him seriously you are going to do that if he doesn't quit this abusive behaviour.
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@: CarolM
CarolM 47979: Here the answers to your questions: It's a spanking. It's supposed to hurt. That's why she has to pull her pants down. That's the standard way to give a spanking. Next, it is typically a dad's JOB to administer the spankings. Lastly, SPANKING IS LEGAL IN THE UNITED STATES AND IT IS NOT ABUSE! Don't believe me? Look it up on the internet. It's even legal in 21 states, and several school districts give paddlings regularly in the U.S.A. Some even use paddles with holes in them, and I think some do it on bare bottoms. The punisher is the same sex though, but in the case of a parent, I think it's OK for Dad to spank his daughter and for mom to spank her son.
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i get spanked aswell, your whole family does, me and 2 sistres get it bare, or even naked sometimes, its so awkwrd. i hate it too. we just have to live with it.
we r unlucky.
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@: jacko14
If what you say is true, it is not right, normal or healthy. For any parent, father or mother to spank a near naked or naked child (of any age) is something the police should be interested to hear about.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT, you are being criminally assaulted. Go to the police.
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I see alot of ppl saying that its normal and done out of "love"...what they don't realize is, WRONG type of love guys! This is sooo wrong!....like 16?! Cmon!
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Not normal, no. Just get out of the house.
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Your dad should be caned!
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i was only threatned to get smacked at 12 but never happned as parents see u argue and the fact u say u cnt do tht witch i did say they dont bother my mum just used her voice very loud it was only upto 8 tht i got light taps but thts it
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Report him to school authorities, go to a school counselor or better yet directly to the principal. When scheduling an appointment and asked what the issue is regarding, say it is a "private issue", say no more until you meet the principal or counselor in private too. Realize you likely will not be living with your father after an investigation is conducted, but what he is doing is abusive and very abnormal. You don't need to have bruises to report abuse. Good luck to you.
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you need to seriously ask yur dad if he is attracted to you.
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I agree, you are too old. You are two years away from being a legalized adult, and my mom always says that if someone wants you to be an adult, then they should TREAT you like an adult first! Can't you talk it out with your dad or something? Also, it's pretty SICK that your DAD is spanking YOU, a sixteen-year old, because, I mean, he is of another sex and you are getting older...
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You perverts just better knock it off because your just nasty.
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thats insane. thats bordering on sexual
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Look its not normal for a dad to spank his 16 year old daughter bare arsed.I don't care what excuses are made for him,he has a sick problem.Then there's talk of taking weapons to said daughter.Why is she that dangerous weapons must be introduced?Some people shouldn't be parents.
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No that's not normal. 51% of the people who voted on this are Christian Domestic Discipline freaks. I bet they searched "spanking."
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I think your dad wants to touch your ass and pussy

he does it through 'spanking' to make his pedophila seem like 'parental discipline' in case your report him to the cops.

tell him if he does it again you're going to the police or report him to child's aid.

seriously his behavior is disgusting, sickening and creepy to me. It has to stop.
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Yeah he's not normal! Next time he does it, run into the kitchen, grab a rolling pin and knock the fucker out!!!!! Axxx
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Yes, it is normal.

First, of all, 16 is not an adult. You are still legally, and apparently emotionally underage. He is your parent and as such has every the right to spank your bare bottom however he chooses as long as it’s warranted (which it is in this case), and not excessive. You do not get to ‘choose’ the punishment. If he believes in spankings; as long as long as you are underage, living under his roof, and disobey, that’s what you deserve and get. You think 16 is too old to be spanked. I definitely don’t! Whoever said that teenagers can’t or shouldn’t be spanked? There’s no law or rule that says spankings should stop at a certain age? It’s at a parents’ discretion. If you don’t wanna be treated like ‘5’, then be old enough to obey the rules.

Second, it’s great that you’re doing well in school, but I wouldn’t agree that you don’t cause any trouble. You missed the established curfew. That’s ‘trouble’ for you, and for him.

Third, you knew the rule and you broke it. You obviously still need guidance and to learn the consequences for your actions.

Learn from this and be grateful that you have a dad who loves you enough to spank you when you deserve it. If you were my daughter, first I’d blister your bare bottom till you were hoarse from crying and couldn’t sit down for a week. Then I’d lovingly hold you in my arms, tell you how much I love you and it hurts me to have to punish you, and let you cry it out.
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I was spanked as a young kid. When I drew on my door with a coat hanger my dad used it to beat my butt! If he tried to spank me down I'd sock him in the face!
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Is it normal to break the law?
NO its not.

What law exactly? (since the US as one of the ONLY civilized countries that still ok this!)
Humankind law that states don't abuse and cause pain to ANYONE, for ANY reason.

I blame the stronghold religious aspect of the US still.
I understand there will be many who state that this is not relevant in their particular family. But since you are jailed in generally ALL other civilized countries for this physical abuse, then the US need to start thinking rationally and wake up to the fact that:

Physical abuse should NEVER be tolerated in any situation.

I mean do you guys also BELT your wives if they do wrong? How is this different to a 13 or 16yo? Because they can't fight back? Teenagers CAN think rationally, yes they are immature but their brain works perfectly, I'd say MOST are smarter than their own parents, especially in this case!

Note: I was also belted as a child, often.
Did I turn out ok? Yes
Oh.. Except I was frightened as shit of my own Dad, and I LITERALLY hated him, just for that alone!
Plus I do have a small confidence issue that I blame on it too.
Looking back I truly WISH my Dad just talked to me WHY I did wrong, until I understood clearly. Being belted just made me scared, angry and HURT.





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...and I get spankings too, but when I was smaller. Now, as I get older, they sit down and talk. Spanking is for when you're littler, and you CAN'T just sit down and talk with your parents like an adult. Sorry for the double comment, I forgot to add something and I accidentally sent it already.
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I have absolutely no problem with discipline, but a father should not be making his sixteen year old daughter pull her pants down to do it. There's no need. He obviously just wants to see your naked lower half every now and then. Try following him afterwards next time, you'll probably catch him wanking.
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Hi, :)

I got spanked unil I was eighteen, once I hit puberty, it was by mom, I'm female. Generally it was ten or so licks with the belt, I hatred it....byt I am not in prison ad it worked for serious stuff........ The one time my dad spanked me was ast fourteen for sneaking out and getting stranded at 2 am...it was the worst of my life 20 licks bare :( butt never stuck out again
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I've been spanked since I was like...7 bare ass with a hairbrush. It hurts alot...Now I'm 17, so I guess. If it's by ur boyfriend then it's totally normal, my boyfriend spanks me otk
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i think your dad might be doing this for the enjoyment... possibly.
it's really not normal if u think about it
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I think that there is some confusion about spanking because of all the "It's abuse" "No, it's just disapline" crap that is going on. If you father was brought up by parents who spanked him that is probably what he believes in. Until you are either 18 or you emancipate yourself, you are legally under the control of your father and mother. It is not abuse unless you are spanked for no reason and there are bruises and such, it is simply your father's method of disapline. By doing it on the bare with a hairbrush it hurts more than if he used something else and let you keep you pants on. He probably expects the rules ot be followed because you are so close to adulthood so he makes the punishments harsher so that you will learn.
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The assertion that spankings will curb the behavior of young adults is laughable. Light spanking can be effective punishment on an unruly child, but after puberty this treatment only effective in causing humiliation, coercion. The simple truth is this Dad bare bottom spanks his daughter because he gets off on the power and control. This torture and abuse must be reported to the authorities. Those advocating Parental Rights have forgotten about Youth Rights, a sub-statue of Human Rights, that protects against slavery and coerced submission even from your guardians.
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OKAY??? You are right about ONE thing, until you are 18 you are under your mother and father's rules, BUT you are WRONG about everything else!!! NO ONE should be spanked bare bottomed when they are 16, or 12 or 9 or 6...that is sick, and done by people who are perverted. She is being abused, one of the worse abusive things anyone can do to another human being!!! This is sick, and it's wrong!!! As for you, go learn what abuse is, check into it, you'll see that you are entirely WRONG, and please, if your only going to write stupid thins, please don't write, you're just making an idiot out of yourself!!!
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Spanking doesn't bother me. When your a child and you think being in trouble is funny, a quick but not hard spanking is sometimes the most effective way to get the message through. After about age 6, when they start being social, grounding becomes the most effective way, or taking away something temporarily that they don't like being without. I was never spanked by anyone but my own mother. But for a grown MAN spanking a teenage GIRL, BARE BOTTOM, it is perverted. A man spanking a girl who has passed puberty is wrong. I don't even think a father is allowed to look at their daughter's naked body at that age. It's disgusting. Forget about the abuse....it's just disgusting. He's probably just hoping to get a new and exciting reaction from you. Any girl who is over 13 and getting spanked by their father should ask him one question, "Do you get off on this?" If he's smart, he'll never do it again. If he advances, you know to go to the nearest authority and let them know your dad's a sicko. Anyone is thinks this behavior is normal...is just stupid.
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I spanked my daughter, on her bare buttocks, until she was 22 and graduated from University. She ALWAYS had a choice of other types of punishment. Mostly she chose the spanking. I spanked her over my knee, with clothes on, unless she was really bad, until she turned 16. She had a friend, same age, that got paddled by her dad on the bare butt. I started giving her 'swats' with a paddle, bent over a chair, on the nude rear from then on. I caned her several times, bare bottomed, when she was really bad. She thanks me to this day for my discipline, and she is in her mid 30s. I feel it is mandatory to spank, paddle etc on the bare skin. This way you know how severe it is. I never bruised her when I punished her. Her butt would have red spots the next day but never black and blue.
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you r a PERVERT !!!
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So were you looking the next day to see the bruises?
And just so you know, when you talk about paddling your daughter's bare ass, or if she ever tells anyone, it would have to be quite a challenge to convince people out of picturing you getting off on it.
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You are a sick person spanking your daughter at 22 years of age! You need your head checked because anyone who spanks their children, especially after the age of 12 are mentally ill in my opinion. If your daughter had not been terrified of you and had not been brainwashed, she would have removed herself from your life and never looked back. I will tell you how much it damages a person for life being spanked, hit with a belt, switch or paddle. It humiliates you, degrades you, and psychologically damages you for life. I know. I have had issues with very low self esteem, no confidence, depression, anxiety, PTSD and so much more because of what my mother did to me physically abusing me as you are or did to your own daughter. Spanking at 22? Seriously? Your daughter will be very lucky if she is not messed up mentally. And do not think for a moment that you will not answer to God for your actions when you die. People like you make me sick to even hear this kind of stuff.
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Exactly!
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Spanking is good. You should get spanked by your bare bottom even if you are over 18.
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i understand your pain i got spanked till i was 16 and moved the f**k out when i graduated, no one deserves that, and i was like you i had good grades and never caused trouble. it is not normal especially since youre becoming a woman and your private area is changing! if it continues i think you should talk to a counselor at school or a police officer.
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Getting back to the original question. I was once a father of a 16-year old girl, so my view point will be from that perspective. “Honey, I care about you and your future. I could let you slide and continue to go wrong. I could just explain in kind words how you were wrong and why you should do better.” Obviously you’ve done this before and gotten away with it. This let you think it was OK to do it again. Probably I’ve just given you a swat or two and let it go, so you thought – ‘that wasn’t bad, I can take that anytime easily.’ I say your punishment is not totally abnormal. At 16, you know the rules and the consequences. Two or three times a month is a little excessive. If your mother is in the picture, you should discuss these things with her, then with both parents openly.

If you determine if your dad is “Just Mean” or if your spanking is “Sex abuse,” then you will need outside intervention. If you determine your punishment is deserved and you can exchange civil words with your dad, then don’t feel that you’re being treated like a child. After he finishes, embrace him and thank him for taking the time with you to show that he cares. You might also ask him what you can do to avoid another incident like this.

People today have a tendency to judge something as all bad when it is inappropriate, done incorrectly, and for a wrong reason in an isolated incident. It is unfortunate that our society does not teach the correct way and time to give a spanking. It does NOT solve all problems, and it is NOT all bad.

Spanking done as a scare tactic is for the wrong reason. It must always be a “care” tactic. If it is like learning to ride a bicycle, then that IS wrong and not normal. It should only be given in the most serious of rule violations and repetitions of them. The person getting spanked must always understand that it is a result of their making and not a result of getting caught.

God Bless America and our children.
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dude!!!(or dudet) ur 16 not 6 that isso not rite!!!
is ur dad a perver? sry but is he??? i mean rly, that makes no sense what so ever
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No no no, never, this is not supposed to happen!
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Are you guys that brainwashed? If she was being bad and her father though she needed a spanking he has a right to spank her. All you morons saying go to the authorities really now if she wnt to the cops and said arrent this man for spanking me they would laugh right in her face. Spanking is normal so it's not abuse ur being spanked for being bad by your parent it's normal get over it .
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@: BaPP
Um...not true this is in fact abuse, because abuse is ANY aggressive act that has the sole purpose of inflicting pain
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Father was spanked like that. He never spanked us bare bottom. I have 7 kids one is a 16 year old girl. I would never dream of doing that. Your father sounds old fashion. I'm sure he does not think anything is wrong with this,and the way he was raised posibily his Dad did the same. Nothing is wrong with your Dad, but I think 16 Is way too old to spank.
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I was spanked as a child until i was around 17. I can remember one time, i was trying to get the television to work and i was very frustrated, and i hit the TV so hard that it just wouldent work properly anymore. When my dad found out, he put me over his lap and gave me a well deserved spanking with a wooden spoon for about 10 minuets. Then he made me stand in the corner with a red raw buttox.
I love my father and he raised me well. =)
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Do you think you'll ever learn to spell??? I guess you're happy coming across like a moron.
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My adopted Dad ALWAYS punished me BARE BOTTOM until i was in my teens too. It looked really bad as i was a half Asian girl and he was white!!. But he had a novel punishment without needing smacking-but still made sure i received a VERY sore bottom when i needed one!!. He would lay me across his lap or a chair and with a small piece of sandpaper rub my bare bottom, hard, for about 30-40 seconds, it didn't hurt too much as he did it but after a few minutes felt like my bum was on fire!!-VERY sore. Then i was stood in a corner crying with my poor, sore, red burning little bottom! waving it about trying to cool it down-never worked!. He then offered cream (which was VERY embarrassing your Dad rubbing cream into your bottom when your that age) but i accepted-ANYTHING to ease the stinging! but he gave it a VERY good rub which added to my embarrassment. Then i said "sorry Dad" and i got a cuddle but i did love him....followed him everywhere!.
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@: KaiLa
@ Kaila, you should report this guy, even if it has been a few years, what a freaking sicko!!!
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You know i think it is normal, i mean damn ur under his roof so until u move out he can do what he wants (not sex i mean u know) I always look up spanking videos or pictures, i like the way they look to be honest ive ALWAYS wanted a good OTK spanking!! but i dont want my mom and dad knowing and seeing it!! that and im only 11 i back talk,never do homework,not good grades,cuss out ppl, see i need one!! ANYBODY?!?! :/
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i think yr lucky, i want to b spanked to know what it feels like. what does it feel like?
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just because your an adult at 18 doesnt mean yo cant be spanked. If you were 24 and came in late i would paddle you
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Not cool.
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Spanking is a scare tactic. One can relate this to learning to ride a bicycle. One does not want to fall because minor injury will occur. Therefore, one learns how not to fall or fall wisely. On one hand the impetus is to discourage aberrant behavior and on the other to learn an activity. With that statement lies the proof that corporal punishment works only when it is feared in context to a situation (references available upon request). If one is not scared of falling, he is most likely bleeding a little (and on the way to being a BMX pro). We raise our children to fear the things that will harm us, physically (typical parents do not perceive emotional or mental trauma until later stages). Some parents use fear and others use logic. Fear, not of committing an action, but of the consequences of getting caught. Logically, one should not be in that situation. In order to instill logic, it is necessary to communicate with and teach your children. They will fall and they will learn on their own. That is a must. Corporal punishment is a "quick-fix" to a situation that lacks rational thought. It is a typical emotional response to a negative action. In a way it is correlative to the emotion manifested by a parking ticket or a confrontation in bar. There are always several ways around violence. If we raise our children through violence, then we are destined to be saturated by it (and we are -- look around). It is normal to want to hit someone for misconduct, but to follow through is very very basic. We are smarter than that and so is a sixteen year old. Religion poses another point of view as well (or more of the same). "Forgive them, for they know not what they do." -- Jesus Christ However, many Christians believe in heaven and Him just because they do not want to "burn" in hell instead of really studying the teachings of Christ and living godly. Sound familiar, fear and logic. I am a solider. I have seen what negative reinforcement can accomplish with no oppressive physical contact. Totally transforming an average citizen into a competent, well-rounded, intelligent, fit warrior. I have also seen that training break a person's psyche down so far that he is no longer the same person (a bad thing). I have killed people. I have fought for my life. That is were violence and pain belong -- in combat. I was not spanked as a child and will never hit my children, ever. There is a difference between fear and respect (for both parties). Let us move past the days of tradition, ignorance and narrow-mindedness, and enter into a time of empowerment. Most women would agree that this century has been better for their gender than the last few. It is our fault for not knowing any better, right? Let's do something about it. If I can train a dog to fetch, heal, and follow without hitting him, then I can train a child until he can train himself (of course with objective influence). That's my two cents.
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You are so right on and I agree with you 100 percent.
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There are others ways of disciplining and you guys know it. Don't just take the easy way out, that helps you get rid of some anger too. You brought them into this world, and now you're going to beat them to teach them? Geeze look around us.... My mom hit me once when I was little on the hand....(Heh barely call it a hit.) She said I was jumping all around the kitchen while I she was making pancakes. I had lots of energy. And then I tried to reach up and touch the pancake in the skillet almost burned myself o.o but she slapped it away. She said I ran to my dad, cried for an hour, and was literally afraid of her for the next 2 months. She said she never wanted to hurt me like that again. But of course I can't just be running around breaking stuff. But instead of hitting she actually put in the extra time, to talk to me and teach me more, about what was right and wrong. And of course there were times when I didn't listen, so I got time-outs and my coloring book taken away. And omg I swear I loved my coloring books. As time went on and I became older I realized more why she actually told me certain things. And I started making my own good decisions based on what she had told me, and how she explained to me with good effort, and long periods of time why some things are no-no's. I was actually a good kid, and I didn't get spanked ONCE. Not because I was perfect, but because there was no need too. There's no need to cause physical harm to anyone, yet basically all the world does it. And if we can't even stop it between parents and children. How can we even begin to stop it between countries??? Maybe I'm just lucky because my mom is super patient and nice, I don't know. I wish all parent could treat their children like mine treated me. She's 16 and she's definitely not a child. Its wrong because she's human, it's wrong to spank a 4 year old because they're human! But spanking has gotten significantly better, since people are realizing the damaging effects it has. Give it another generation or two.....
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I have two points of view about spanking.
Firstly for a 16 year old girl to be spanked against her will think is wrong. I dont know what country you are in but there may be a number you can call such as childline.
On the other hand I was spanked as a kid at school and although I hated it at the time I have come to enjoy it as part of sex. But then that is more like erotic spanking between myself and girlfriend where we both enjoy it a lot and find it can be a real turn on
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I'm inclined to argee.

I get the chance to pick a window if i'm "out of order" or get a punch.

16 and gettin bare arsed spanked; that is not normal no!


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Keep in mind wen u post, this story is from before 2006. I doubt she has troubles w/ this anymore. I would only post if u have advise for the many mofos here or for new ppl reading who have the same problem. Keep that in mind. This story is not up to date.

Aris
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There are much more evolved ways to inflict punishment on a young adult... Seriously, what a twisted combination of perverted and lazy parenting.
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if it were your mom, it wouldn't be as bad, but your dads got some issues and next time he tries, call 911, he is touching you inappropriately, plus your a minor.
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@: erikm98
erikm98: He is touching her with a paddle, not his hand. There is nothing wrong with a dad disciplining his daughter.
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@: bethany
Yes there is because men do not touch women.
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hellotykey
he may be a nonse/peedo
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I am 47 and still get spanked quite often by my wife. It is not for punishment though. I ask her to do it and yes it is for sexual reasons which I think is quite legitimate within marriage.
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it is quite normal.at least your dad pulls u into a room. my mom make me take down y panties and hold them and spank me in the living room.if not, she stuffs my panties i my butt crack (damn pain) and spanks me .
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I am a 34 year old mature (English)woman and am still spanked regularly for my misdeeds, indeed sometimes more than spanked i.e. caned or slippered . I know our country is notorious for "The English Vice i.e. pleasure spanking but I can the assure you my partner spanks me not because he is a pervert seeking some sort of sexual pleasure but purely in order to improve my behavior. You see sometimes I get a bit bitchey or forgetful or frivolous. Naturally I don't like being spanked. You can't imagine how awful that moment of truth is as you lie sprawled across the table with your skirt up, your knickers down and your stocking tops straining your back arched and bum up while he leers at you and lectures you on your bad behaviour. Why do I accept it then? Well, he is quite good with jobs around the house and other things and it is just one of the things in a relationship that you learn to put up with for the sake of other things like being spoit , taken out and taken care of. This may sound harsh but given the western world's increasingly permissive society and the shocking rise of female criminal behaviour many of the sophisticated female writers above would richly benefit from simply having their own bottoms soundly spanked. They should consider themselves highly lucky they do not have a moral welfare guardian like I do. Is a 16 year old girl too old to be spanked? Of course she isn't. Far more young women need to be soundly spanked by their guardians, boyfriends, partners, parents and I just hope in time she learns to stick out her bottom properly and to appreciate her punishments more contritely. I give her my warmest wishes.
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@: Annette
@Annette: A guy shouldn't hit a woman unless she's trying to kill him or something.

A husband has absolutely no right to spank his wife as punishment. A woman doesn't have to answer to her significant other like that. It's fine if she wants him to spank her in a sexual way, but this is not cool. And I doubt spanking would fix the problems you think we have over here.
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@: Annette
Like your style we like spanking
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This is not good because it might deprive you of feeling joy when being spanked during sex with your boyfriend.
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I think it is very wrong your dad spanks your bare ass with a hairbrush he should be doing it with a BELT!!!!!!!!
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I have older girls and I still spank them bare.
The fact that they have to be spanked bare adds to the punishment.
I am not one of those who spanks for any small misbehavior. If anyone gets spanked more than once in 3 weeks then it is a lot.

Anyone who suggests that there is any sexual reason behind me spanking my daughters is just a sick person.
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"Anyone who suggests that there is any sexual reason behind me spanking my daughters is just a sick person."

Yeah, right.
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i cant beleive so many people think to spank their child is ok. im 25 my dad spanks my bare bottom with his slipper.i thought i was the only girl who still got treated like this.mum says its ok while i still live under their roof.id love to know how old your kids are?i wouldnt mind a slap across the legs or something-but being bent over my dads knee and smacked with his slipper-how embarrasing.are you a nutty dad or what?
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I think spankings are great and it is dead wrong for it to be against the law when I was young I always got a strapping with my pants down, please understand even at 16 years old for a girl to be spanked just mean the dad loves her daughter and he wants her to learn!!!!and what other punishment really works effective anyway? for a girl to be spanked old school way please don,t make a big deal out of it because its not!
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I do not like bare bottom spanking atall.
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I thank spanking should.

mom & dad should spankins

stare at age 5 yr old-- should stop at age 21

the bottom line is ur kids will love
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Your dad has a problem. You are too old to be spanked (Bare assed, underware, or any way). I'll tell you this when a child turns 12 it is time to fight back next time he tries to spank you kick him as hard as you can right in the balls that will show him you have had enough. If he dosen't get the picture let me know and I'll take care of it for you. Be strong.
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@: NoAbuse
I guess thats where we don,t agree but maybe 13 years of age should be the cut off age for getting spanked by your parents but then maybe this girls dad wanted to get her attention and strappings work good for most kids, people have been spanking there kids for centuries and not a chance a bare bum whipping is child abuse, I think your Dad what was best for you so give him a big hug he loves you!!!!!I use to get the same!
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our whole family
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i have seen that people have said they get smacked still and even at being an adult that is so wrong i even told my mum about things like that my mum says its well wrong as in teens they need to be treated as teens not small kids i have heard things and yes you see people abuse that athority as i was in town once and the small boy looked 3 and screaming and crieing but not to bad the mum made it worse buy smacking really hard a few times he really screamed his head off that was defo abuse ppl need common sense
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Yes, if you can't do the time, don't do the crime. Now get back over my knee. ;P
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Well, it really depends on your father's motivation. Is only your bottom bare, or can he see your genitals?

I've seen my stepdaughter's genitals and twice even her chest when she's gotten the belt because she's had to pull a one-piece bathing suit to her knees.

We insist on modesty, ironically enough, and do not allow two piece swimwear, but most people know that there's no way to pull the back of a girl's one-piece swimsuit away from the buttocks while keeping her breasts covered.

The thing is, she must not mind her breasts showing that much because with her bathing suit to her knees, she puts both hands over her pubic hair, leaving her breasts to bounce away. I've even taunted her, saying that there's really nothing to be accomplished holding her hands over her pubic hair because her "private"-Hahaha-parts are fully visible from behind.

I guess a 13-year-old gets used to her bare C-cups jiggling after a few spankings, but it's not my problem either way.
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next time he tries to spank you...shit yourself

that will teach him
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What's wrong with you people??!!
Spanking is NOT at all acceptable!
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With all due respect, if a spanking is administered "properly", ie with love, with the requisite explanation of why it is deserved and needed, with respect shown to the child receiving the spanking, etc.then there is a chance it will be effective. And the child will appreciate the correction. Years later he will volunteer that he appreciated his parent's caring enough to punish him.
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to be spanked till this age is wrong,if ur parents do believe is spanking let your mom does it. it is better that your dad take a close look to your bare bottom.
i spanked my daughter she is 11 year old when she is a naughty girl.i lay her accross my laps giving her 20 swats with my hairbrush for serious offenses and 10 swats for minnor offenses. i hug her after the spanking, her butt is always red and sore, but i think she deserves that.i use a cool cream and the very next day she is ok.
and i think i will spank her till forever if she misbehaves. but i will not allow her dad to spank her after 13 year old.its not normal.
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this is turned into a spank or not spank question... if a spanking is ok, then a bare bottom spanking is ok also.

the bare bottom is very much a humiliation, to the person being spanked, and allows the person spanking to know how much damage they are doing, or trying to prevent doing to the person being spanked. My cousin now wished several spankings he had as a child would have been bare assed, as his dad would never have done the damage to him. if he had to witness it first hand, ie. not hidden by clothing.
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sure is lots of whiny know it all teenagers in here. do you know what the police will say if you call them cause you got spanked? "stop fucking calling us."

you are a retarded little brat, suck it up and deal with it.
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I'm surprised he didn't use his bare hand. Why use a hairbrush if you're going to bare-bottom spank a 16-year-old?
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that,s just wrong perv
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I agree too. Over the knee on the bare bottom. That's a lot of the effectiveness of the spanking right there - showing a girl of 16 you're not too big to be punished like a toddler. And the spanks don't have to be scorchers; just enough good ones to leave your naughty bottom globes looking like two scoops of strawberry ice cream.
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I think it's perfectly normal well maybe if it wasn't bare assed. Funny how these days us kids seem to think that discipline is not normal and that it's bad. If your dad beat you repeatedly than that's a definate bad thing. Just think if it's just discipline than you will thank him in the future.
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It has been proved that people who get bare bottom spanked up to the later stages of life show better sills and dicipline in the real world.
if you have been spanked up to the age of 18 you add an extra 5 years to your life.

I was personally spanked until i was 18
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This is for "Loving Dad" and the father of the 16 year old girl: http://www.nospank.net/n-d76.htm

This guy went to jail for spanking his older daughter bare and I hope the two of you do too! You are sick, sexual abusers. Go to hell.
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this is not normal. this is disgusting your friends would take the mock outta you like a flock of sheep. i mock u haha
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this bothers me very much good kids should get time out it is effective!!!! a person does not need to be belittled it is wrong!!! if you are going to spank... please refrain from pulling the clothes off!! sick pervs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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mommof2darlings: A spanking is supposed to be given on the bare bottom! However, I think given her age that she should be allowed to wear thong underware when her dad is administering the paddleing or be allowed to keep her underware on and pull them into her butt crease.
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Alot of people are puting rude comments on here to this young girl.
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wow thats really mean/ hot
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kill em...
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I dont blame him. If I had the chance, I'd be spanking it hard, and I dont only mean your bare bottom!!
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@: mooks
Good for you me next
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No I do NOT gett off on hearing abuse!!!!! Or what I would consider abusive behavior. Gawd! That is stupid, and I havve my own stories and reasons. That is why I want to talk....
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Ever thought of behaving yourself?
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I don't think just "behaving myself" would solve the basic problem. Can you think of any reason a teenaged girl should have her pants pulled down, bottom bared, and roughly paddled on the naked behind in front of male cousins is any way a good idea?!
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I keep hearing all of this stuff about a 16 year old being "too old" to be spanked bare bottom and you have to treat her like an adult.
Well, I will tell you how my mother viewed the whole subject when I was growing up. "Act like a chid and show the responsibility level of a five year old and you will be dealt with as such." You see the point? A person is to be dealt with and punished according to the age level they are acting at the given moment, not their biological age. So if person is 16 and acting or showing the level of responsibility of a five year old, then they will be dealt with and punished as such.
That having been said. I say "way to go" to the girl's father!! Here is a dad who cares. He is not baring his kid's backside for sexual reasons but for disciplinary reasons.
For any punishment to be effective it must carry undesireable and unpleasant consequences both physically and emotionally. A bare bottom spanking definitely fits that criteria. Now I am not talking about abuse, but effective discipline.
I was spanked as a child. Often bare bottomed. Momentarily it was pretty painful both physically and emotionally. There was not abuse, however. There were not any real marks left other than a momentary red bottom. As far as I know, no one has ever died or sustained any long term health problems from a red bottom. I am a better person as an adult because of it.
In conclusion, I say "Way to go dad". Congratulations for not joining the vast group of people of today who have been brainwashed by the "Dr.Spocks".
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yes your dad is a pervet and you should report him or get him arrested. I MEAN it.
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beachhottiex3 where are you from?? what country ot state or city
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It depends on where you live. Where I'm at it, it wouldn't be normal.

I think they should find a different form of punishment really.
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I think spanking should be given if other means such talking and etc does not work. That is what wrong today most parents are too lient
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I think it's normal, in most cases. I can remember a total of five spankings given to me in my life by my father, and no, I don't think he was a pervert. It only happened when I did something terrible or dangerous, and after I was told or warned 10000 times about it. Once was when I was almost 16, and yes, it was bare bottomed. My friend and I hitchhiked on the highway to get to the bowling alley. We got found and picked up by concerned police men instead and after my friend was picked up by her furious mom, my dad pulled down my pants and put me over his knee. He only hit me with his hand, and only about 6 times. I don't really consider it abuse.
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If you want them to start treating you like a grown up, then act like one. Are you late for work to? If you are given a time to do something, then do it. Then maybe they will treat you like you are older
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your know there is always a time when you gotta get your foot down. you are 16 now and have a mind of your own, ideas, likes and dislikes. let them know you are not 5 anymore but always be calm even if they get mad (which should not me likely)
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no offense thru my comment ok.
ok! i hope ur dad is literate n he has gone thru biology once be4 . just talk 2 ur mom or try talkin to her n tell her that ur sex hormones and sex cells r active n u hv periods(i know dt she knows laready bt be sarcastic). tell her dt it would not be right for u to show ur boobs or ass to anyone else just like dt cause they hv grown. m 21 n i keep lukin for sexually related questions on net to answer em. i never got spanked n my parents were very lenient. dey were though not too gifting kinda people. when they used to punish me , dey used to talk gently n in a very unusual (depressed n hopeless) manner to me n dt ws enough 4 me to go do wt dey expect. so , wt u need is not good grades. two things after mom to daughter talk. when next time dad spanks u , u remove all ur clothings be4 he comes to spank u(if dt is comfortable 4 u) and let him observe ur adulthood. he would realize slowly dt u r not a five year old. u know , parents always want their child to not to repeat d mistakes dey did. they want u to be successful and for them u r always a child . don't be too harsh to them and receive spanking as if it doesn't hurt . don't stop him and don't cry or shout during the session(u hv to control ur pain from ur butt inferno) .just do wtever he says . try to reflect glimpses of adulthood by making food for urself and doin ur own work urself . it will help u know. i did all dt from d age of 8 . try to be as much naked in front of ur dad as possible (if it doesn't hurt ur sentiments) . just let him see vagina hole(try spreading ur legs by any methods possible and whenever possible). he would feel ashamed and uncomformtable and the next time he spanks u would be d last time (i hope)
thank you.
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Use a spell checker, for God's sake! Your horrible selling detracts from you message.
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You better check if that's actually a brush he's hitting dat ass with!
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Is your Dad bare assed while he spanks you?
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he's getting off on this, not cool. tell a school counselor.
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i agree with mooks and Ann54...

i'd be spanking you and myself at the same time, and i'd also play with/fondle ur boobs, then i'd be fucking u hard in the pussy, then i'd want u to facesit on me and fart a nice and smelly one so i can devour it, then i eat u out like a pro♥ ;)
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50 yrs ago, for something serious, mom would paddle us boys on the bare butt til 14/15-----but times have changed----I also think a dad spanking a daughter has some sexual overtones that a mom paddling her sons (50 yrs ago) did not contain----tell someone like a counsellor or clergy person as it is not normal---also it is too frequent to be normal
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Call the cops. Spanking any child isn't right anymore. I would even call te cops if I knew you. And you're 16?!
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Studys show that kids who are spanked grow up to be more violent.
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My husband is very anti smoking and I am.
The conversation got on to smoking and somebody asked our 19 year old daughter if she had ever smoked.
She replied she can not. She said if she did we would take her knickes down and she would have an extremely sore bum.
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omg thats terrible !
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THE TOTAL TRUTH

"It is WRONG to harm ANY living creature for ANY reason other than to prevent THEM doing harm."

Read it several times. Your duty is to do your VERY BEST to live by that rule as closely as you are able.

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you're too old to be spanked. Call the po-po or prank him big time or something! You can't keep tolerating that!
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i wish my daddy bare ass spanked me. someone be my daddy?
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sound hot
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WTF! I never got bare ass spanked! And if I did it was via extention cord!
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Run away. Your dad is abusing you!
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Sounds to me like your parents are going to hell!That is not only incredably freaky but just plain weird!
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You know it is a controversial story when the comments are five times longer than the story, and still growing.
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Your dad has issues...
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Did you take care of it yet? It hurts fir me to read about this last year a girl a dated went threw the same thing but i helped her threw it geting her stepfather put in jail
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I am a 24 year old girl, and I wish my father would still smack me on the bare bottom. Sometimes I know I am out of control and if my father smacked me on my bare bottom then I would have nothing to say about but just lye their and take it.
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Firstly I suspect you are not a 16yr old girl. Assuming you are, it might or might not be counted as abuse, depends where you live. However, the best way to avoid being treated like this would be to stop doing things that result in spankings. Is it just your dad or does mom swat you too? Maybe ask your mom to do the spanking? Do you have siblings and if so, do they get spanked?
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Don't mean it doesn't happen. I live in the country on a farm and that's what happens to me only I'm a boy.
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To many comments... TOO MANY COMMENTS... SHUUUUT UUUUUUUUUUUUUUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET OUT OF MY HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Loreat.
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Sixteen is too old to be spanked by parents, especially if it's bare bottom.

At a certain age it seems sexual, so it's very wrong.
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once you devloped it started to become sexual
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I'm sorry this happend to you. I hope you found something helpful in all these comments. This seems to be a very old post and if my math is right you'll be about 24yo. so I'm figuring that its stoped by now. I will pray that you have to have a good life.
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Unsure19
its what makes the girl feel like a toddler so good idea not a tough girl after so have at it
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no this is not normal. children shouldnt be spanked after the age of 12.
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Ok.
Now that all the comments are in I will come clean.

I have only ONCE ever spanked a kid of mine bare OTK. This was in a case where one of my kids bit another.
She was 6 at the time.

Besides that case I have never bare-arse spanked a kid of mine and wold never do so again. Spanking a 16 year old is totally out of the question.

I just wanted to see what comments would come in.
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Yes it's normal I am 17 and my dad spanks me bare bottomed all the time
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Spoil sport!!!
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EmoGirl100
What bitch did u say Spoil Sport?! shes lucky to have someone spank her i always wanna get spanked but i dont want my mom n dad knowing soo mostly i roleplay
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you're weird.
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