No. I think sex is more than a pastime. I don't think most people have sex just because they're bored and they want to kill time.

Sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another person.

But it is over rated is it not? I never found a woman who could satisfy me. I would f uck her (or make love to her b4 you get into that) then go have a wa nk to get my satisfaction. Why do you think I am gay?

LOLOLOOLOLOLOLOLOLOL, nearly is a mistake

Perhaps I didn't look hard enough. Gotta say I agree there. However, my sexuality is much more complex than that. I personally think I was born gay. Then, when sexually assaulted by my father, some dormant inner sexual cog clicked, but was pushed to the back of my mind until my teens, when I started to have sex with both sexes. Always got more outta da boys though. Anyway, I progressed to adulthood, played both ways, got married, has 3 brilliant boys, got divorced and then made A CONSCIOUS DECISION to be gay rather than straight or bi.
Like I said, complex. Plenty more I could say but will not.

gay repent!!!!!(@ chiastreet4777, nearly, and poster)!!!!!!!!!!!

I guess everybody's understanding of what it is to be gay is different. My understanding of being gay is that I find men sexually and emotionally attractive. It's not just a "that was a good f*ck" sort of a feeling, although that it part of it.

From your post I think you're saying that you tried f*cking women but you didn't enjoy it, so you tried men and that works for you. Tell me if I'm wrong...

Let me ask you a genuine question: Do you enjoy having sex with men, or does that not count as proper sex for you?

If you're not enjoying any sort of sex, maybe you have a low libido.

If you just don't enjoy sex with women, but you find it's great with men, then I agree, sex with women is pointless for you.

Let me know what you think...

ur not that complex

I dont just enjoy sex with men I LOVE IT. Don't want love or involvement though, it is pure sex as far as I am concerned. Oh, by the by, I am the submisive one (play the female role). The only place my dick goes (or comes) is in my hand. So yes I am a wanker b4 you put that to words.
However, my inclinations may be gay, but since diagnosed HIV, I have chosen NO SEX so I guess in fact, these days, I am asexual.

that is going to be funny watching you rot of HIV, hahahahahah

Let me give you something to ponder you moron. Throughout my life I have had sex with both males and females. I enjoyed the men more. I never used condoms so, inevitably I guess, I ended up with HIV. YOU, YOU are a homophobic fool. YOU will go screw with the opposite sex and at some stage you will take a risk, if indeed you haven't already done so. When you are there fornicating, and this is your point to ponder, will you be absolutely sure that I haven't been there first? Will you be absolutely sure some one LIKE me hasn't been there before?
Now, THIS is where we differ. I hope that in either instance, wether it be me or some one like me, they are "clean" because I would hate for you to contact HIV.
I took my risks and they bit my arse, I knew the risks and I accept the consequences. Hence, I refrain from ANY form of sex these days simply because I wouldn't want to risk passing on my HIV. Even with a condom, you are not 100% safe. They are 98% safe. They tear, come off, whatever. I am not prepared to take that 2% chance of ruining some one elses life. Unlike the misscreant who gave it to me.
DON'T think because you stick to one man/woman that you are safe. Are you 100% watertight sure that your partner isn't "playing on the side" Unless you spend 24 hours a day every day for the rest of your life with him/her, you will never be 100% sure you are safe.
Remember this also. There are thousands, no probobly millions of people out there that are married. MOST OF MY MEN WERE. Are you STILL 100% sure. Think about that a while before you make such inhuman statements. You will not upset me with them but they just might one day come back and bite yout miserable little arse.

I wonder. You say you never found a woman who could satisfy you.

Why?

I mean, is it that you just wanted / want something special sexually? (Kinky?) or does it go deeper than that.

My sister Winter, she had a BF once, he said he was always kinda let down after sex, no matter what she did, no matter how long, how kinky (or loving) he said he was always let down and that the act never lived up to the IDEAL.

Turns out that, early in life the guy devoted A LOT (read ALL) his free time watching / masturbating to porno. He started, as I understand it, with tame stuff and then got progressively more perverse. By the time he got with Winter, he was so jaded by The IDEA (of whatever act) that The REALITY could never come close to being as exciting/fufilling.

I can't speak for you, but I think it is important to understand WHY you've never been Completely satisfied by a woman.

Tobra :)

You have got the chutzpa to mention GOD? After the things you post here?

You can bring God into a conversation? - I'm amazed that the word doesn't shrivel your tongue.

Your kind, the only time they THINK of God is when they have fucked things up so horribly for themselves that nobody left here will talk to them anymore. The only time they mention God is when they want to score points or express peity over someone else.

sad.

I never really tried to analise that aspect of my life. I have always masturbated for as long as I can remember. Had a few "bad" experiences with girls when (very) young, again in teens. Maybe worth thinking about and assessing. Always got my sexual gratification from masturbating. That probobly has a bearing on it to.
Point is, I will give it a lot of thought but these days, because of my HIV, I guess I am asexual rather than gay. No way I would EVER take a chance of passing that on to ANYONE.

nearly was thew poster but you being so thick wouldn't have picked that uo from the answer above would you. raflmfao

OK just for you Oro, I will repeat the reply in question

nearly (10533) 2007-09-13 09:29:34 @: karl1234
But it is over rated is it not? I never found a woman who could satisfy me. I would f*** her (or make love to her b4 you get into that) then go have a wa nk to get my satisfaction. Why do you think I am gay?

I aint the one into incest spam. Told you before, don't judge others by your own standards. As for Heaven/hell, they are one and the same place. THIS IS BOTH. I got no fears of death. You obviously have.

if you have sex witha dude, YOU R GAY, PERIOD!!!

As long as it's done for recreation I don't care. When people start carrying on the tradition of humanity, I really don't condone that.

lol