Are Gay Feellings normal

It's normal for a 14 year old to experiment with sex, regardless of who they fancy. So yeah, what you're doing is okay-ish.

At 14 you don't really get to know all the risks of what you're doing. Like anal sex can be very risky if you don't know what you're doing. You could get a Urinary Tract Infection (an infection inside your penis) which would be very painful. Worse, you could damage the wall of your anus and get an infection that would be very difficult to treat.

Touching and kissing your friend is pretty safe, but oral and anal sex carry a lot of risks. Maybe that's something you could save until you're older?

About it being awkward - don't push your friend into doing stuff so fast.

Have fun - but be safe

it could be phase or not, try it, if u like ur a gay

At 14, 15 or 16, your hormones are running riot. Yes it is perfectly normal for you to experiment. That is what experience is, things you have done. You learn better from your own experiences than from anything anyone teaches or tries to tell you. I played a great deal at your age. Most of my "playmates" are as straight as a rod now. It did them no harm and nor will it harm you with some one your own age. This will not define your sexuality. That has already been decided.
What you must do, however, is find some one who WANTS to do it, not some one you have pursuaded. Take appropriate precautions as well. Just because he is your age doesn't mean he hasn't "played" before. So he is just as likely to have a STD (sexually transmitted disease) as anyone else. If you are going to "put it up" wrap it up. Use a condom. DO NOT put yourself at risk.
There are sites on the net for people your age, where you can go and ask all the questions you wish without anyone judging your moral or sexual judgement. Use them please. They will do you no harm and may well give you (both) a great deal of guidence.
Just for the records, in case you didn't already know, I am a 60 year old gay who has HIV. I do know where you are coming from and I do know what I am talking about. RE READ and DIGEST my answer and then TAKE MY ADVICE PLEASE. off the back of my head you could type "terrance higgins trust" into your prefered search engine. They are basically an HIV support group but I would be VERY SURPRISED if you didn't find something for your own age group.

sorry to tell you this but youve got more than gay'feelings' if you plan on deep throating and ass fucking.that is a bit beyond feelings.That is just plain old Elton John gay.

They're normal, if you're gay.

perfectly normal, when I was 12 we used to suck each others dick. This was before videogames

well try to say if you 2 want to go ferther email me at jordan50007@hotmail.com ill try to help you out

Actually, homosexual feelings at one time or another ARE so common it is quite debatably normal. You can't put a judgment on a normal human experience because of one old fashioned english word.
Unfortunately, when you are 14-16 things like that can easily get out, and you do risk physical harm or permanently marring your popular image.

normal_guy, you're right that the dictionary used to just define queer as strange or unusual, but the word queer can now mean different things. Now it can also mean gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered etc., and when used in those situations it doesn't carry the meaning strange or unusual.

You have to be careful about quoting the dictionary. The definition of heterosexual used to be "morbid sexual passion for one of the opposite sex". I think most heterosexuals would ignore the old definition and just use the new: "manifestation of sexual passion for one of the opposite sex".

Besides, trying to work out what's normal by using the meaning of the word is kind of boring...

if you guys do it, and still talk to each other, you're most likely going to start dating.
so, if you want him as your boyfriend, go for it.

For what it's worth, I've done stuff of that sort with people of both genders with whom I was close friends before, and with whom I am still close friends, but not, you know, dating. I can't say that what happened to me was the rule or the exception, though.

when i was young my friend tried to hump me it was nasty, but now hes older and has a girlfriend so i guess it's ok

Please come back my "sweet potato" I miss you I truly do!

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what an interesting story

One time I was drunk as hell and my friend gave me a handjob. We ended up having sex and the next day it wasn't awkward at all. So it really depends on the person.

but you liked it right? lol jk

would you do it again?

He thinks it might be arkward after you do it huh ... YOU"RE DAMN RIGHT IT'LL BE ARKWARD!!!!!!! Look, it sounds to me that you're pretty sure about your homosexuality, which is fine. But please make 100% certain that you friend is as well, or at least Bi-sexual and willing to go through because he is genuinly attracted to you in that way. And for God sakes don't let your other friends find out. In fact, don't let ANYONE find out untill you're much older. Trust me, it's for your own good that way.

he might be aroused and want to go further after the blowjob

Its actually completely normal to have these feelings at 14. This is the time when you're discovering who you really are. I'm 14 and I'm bi. So are a few of my friends.
I can't help you with the whole getting him to go further thing cause the farthest I've gone was kissing. I've thought about going farther but I wouldn't do it with any of the people I'm friends with now. That would make it a bit awkward if you both found out you didn't feel the same about eachother.

It's ok if ur gay