do it in the bathroom or wen they arent home :)

Wow - I feel really bad for you! Your Dad sounds like he doesn't respect your privacy.

Orochimaru gives some good advice. You could try masturbating yourself when you know you won't be disturbed.

The only other thing you could do is try talking with your Dad about your privacy, and how as a 15 year old girl you want to be able to lock your door in case someone walks in on you when you're getting changed and stuff...

Then again, if he was screaming at you, he doesn't sound like someone who would listen to you. You'll have to judge that for yourself...

Both good answers, but here is another thought. Speak to an adult at school. There must be a nurse or some such who you can discuss your privacy with. You don't NEED to mention the sexual aspect. Your privicy is your right. Your father sounds like some sort of a freak to me. Maybe he WANTS to catch you doing it? Anyway, an appropriate adult will be able to guide you AND your dad if you so desire but that is your choice, not automatic.
Good luck.

As for stargirls answer, arent you the one who was saying somewhere that people come in here for advice? Seems to me you are in need of some when it comes to teenage privacy. At 15, if her dad took the door off or even indeed, the lock, this girl could be within her rights to speak to social services about it. Bet they'd have a field day with HIM. NOT a course of action I would recomend she take but certainly a last resort should one be needed.

Seems to me you do stargirl. Also it seems to me that you are not very experienced in life. You get what you give. You want respect, you give it. You want privacy, you give it. However, in this particular case, I fancy that were it to go to a child court hearing, the judge would rule that at 15, this girl is entitled to her privacy. If her father is so arragent as to refuse her that basic dignity, I personally believe the judge would remove him from that house. That is a position I doubt anyone would want. However, for her father to have her respect, he must respect her, and her privacy is to be respected.

you wicked person, how dare u tell some one that they are without dignity and respect? where is your right to tell someone that?

Orochimaru (9975) 2007-09-13 14:24:16 @: nearly
you wicked person, how dare u tell some one that they are without dignity and respect? where is your right to tell someone that?

Excuse me? Who do you think you are? You DARE to judge me you little miscreant? My oppinion is my right. Before you say it, opinions are like a ssholes, everyone has one. My oppinion is that you aint got no right to ask me what right I have so go f uck a donkey you small minded moron. You certinous being that crawled from wither I know not.

Stargirl. Your answer I respect, although I am convinced you are wrong. I guess wether or not she is entitled to lock her door comes down to what agreed rules are present in her situation. However, I am convinced that as she originally stated, her father knocked on her door and then started shouting. I wonder if he thinks to knock and then enter without an invite is acceptable with regard to a 15 year old female? I get the impresion that that is indeed what he tried to do, albeit it is not transparently clear. Surely the correct thing to have done would be to get her mother to go see to her?
Now cut the crap about leaving. She cannot leave because she is under 16. Of course teenagers need rules and boundaries. No one is saying they don't. But they have to be acceptable to asll moral standards and I personally don't think ANY man has the right to knock and enter any 15 year olds room without being invited to do so. I am also sure that the law of the land would come down on my side in this DEBATE.
It isn't the unlocking issue that I am taking issue with.

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he knocked on my door and started screaming at me that if I ever lock my door again

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He obviously (in my opinion) knocked and immediately tried to enter her room. THAT just is not acceptable. FULL STOP.

you are the out of the closet gay, i dont like gays. DAMN CRACK WHORE/ NOOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh dear. Is that supposed to intimidate or frighten me? Sorry to say you failed miserably on both counts. Want to try again?
What was w****/ supposed to represent? type the word with a space in the middle like when I tell you you are a sorry son of a bi tch. See, it comes out then STUPID. NOOB!!!!!!!!
Mefinks I know wat u mean there. Wouldn't expect some one who doesn't have one to know how to spell it.
K N O B ok? You sad excuse for a humanoid.

wow you are finally using ur mind

Are you REALLY so stupid? I was using my
B R A I N, you know, that thing thats vacant from your crainium?
Also answer the questions I put to you or are they to hard for a brainless twerp?

anyone w/ a brain knows you have had a grudge against stargirl, therefore it is obvious "nearly" isnt ur only profile! such childish way to hide yourself!!

try using the reply button, it is smarter then just typing the quote!!!

Well now, let me give you some advice now. Go to the list of threads/stories and you will find 2 there, presented in the last half hour or so. Then open them and read my answers. They are both refering to stargorl. Then, if you can remember all this with no brain, come back here and tell me I have a grudge against stargirl if you stil believe that to be the situation.
Being as I only found this site by accident yesterday, and have merely expressed my oppinions in my responses to some on here, I find it incredable that you can make an assumption like "NEARLY HAS A GRUDGE AGAINST STARGIRL" I don't know her so why would I. This is an adult forum for expressing oppinions is it not? BIG BOYS and GIRLS can do that without bearing a grudge. I can assure you thatr I hold a grudge against NO ONE. I might not like some, I might like some, I certainly DO NOT have a grudge against ANY. NOT EVEN YOU. You amuse me with your ranting.

it sounds like your dad may be a bit obsessed with you and what you may be doingin your room.Id go tell another adult that your dad is interested in you sexually and that may get him to back off a bit .

Hmmm something here...

As much as I respect Stargirl, I am pretty much on the other end of things on this one.

A father who Demands that his Fifteen year old daughter keep her door Unlocked When She Is In There ALONE is someone who (IMOHO) is either:

A: Perving on her.
B: A SERIOUS control freak.
C: Badly out of touch with the concept of privacy.

So, he wants that door unlocked All the time huh? So he can come in, at his leasure - and probably without knocking if I were to take a guess?

When you are changing?
When you are on the phone with your friends?
When you are just out the shower?
When you are masturbating?

I don't know. With all respect to others who think differently, there is something kinda slimy about all this.

I can understand if he wants the door open/unlocked if you have a boy in there; or possibly even a girl - depending. But to Demand that the door is Never locked shows that he has no respect for your privacy.

I am a big believer in "kids/teens" Rights. MY dad...he was / is a mostly liberal hippie (outside of work) and though he wanted me to be safe, he understood the value of privacy for girls my age, at the time.

My advice, do as he asks, but do everything you need to do in the bathroom. It keeps the peace and gives you the privacy you Deserve. If he demands that the TOILET door remain unlocked so he has free access - Tell Someone FAST. It just moved from "Slimy" to "Perverted"

Tobra

Very well put indeed. And there are people in here who don't like you? I find that incanceivable lmao. My first encounter with you but I have to say that on first impresions I AM IMPRESSED. No, not because you basically agreed with what I have been saying, allbeit you managed to put it much better, but you seem to be level headed enough and able to "stepback" and look at the issue and then opinionate about it so well. Power to your elbow.

Sometimes I get lucky.

I am Not saying I'm right. Hell, for all I know, I could be way off. I'm just calling it as I see it.

My dad... He had a no locked door rule - when Winter or I had boys over, or our brothers had girls - from about our ages of 14 on. But when we were Alone, he pretty much left us be, though when Winter and I hit puberty he more often had our mom police us while he looked after our brothers.

There WAS an exception to this rule: One of my older brothers started smoking. Our parents are pretty liberal but the rule was no smoking in (Their) house - Period. If any of us wanted a smoke, we had to go outside. This is when my brother was about twenty and still living at home. Well, my brother broke that rule, and in doing so set fire to his bed, his drapes and nearly himself.

The door was gone the next day.

And had it been me or Winter, I expect the same would have happened, and in my opinion rightfully so.

There are privacy issues, and saftey issues. I agree that maybe the door should stay open with boys/friends in there to a certain extent, but if the girl in question has proven herself trustworthy in other ways, I think she should have the Privacy (and Respect) to change clothes, talk to friends or, yes, masturbate to orgasm without having to worry that someone is looking over her shoulder.

Maybe I am wrong, but, having been there (and caught frigging, once, by my mom) I don't believe so.

Tobra

just work around it, shouldnt be to hard. i can see where they're coming from, they wouldn't know wat ur doing, could be shooting up or something for all they know

Why don't you kill him and bury him so you can send us all the fingering videos you want!!!