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i am 30 years old my husband is 29 we had our daughter when i was 25 shwas calm before but now she gets so paranoid when he gos out to the shops or anywhere causes a scene by crying if he talks to a female friend or looks at another girl i tried to put her in her ownroom but she sleeps in our bed in the nude pushes me away lies on top of my husband or lies down behind him wraps her arms around him, she is always sitting on his lap can't keep her hands of him touchinghis face him stroking his hair
help i need help
She is a small child that adores her dad but there has got to be rules.What causes this type of behavior is hes is spoiling her rotten.Niether you or your husband are doing her any favors spoiling her in this manner make her sleep in her own bed and when she acts up discipline her.
Make sure its a mutual effort or it will never work.
I seen this work - you and him need to clearly explain to her that it's "mommy and daddy" time.
If she continues to walk into your room tell HIM to immediately take her back in her room without apologizing. Keep doing it til she gets the reinforced message that she is not allowed to sleep with you two.
Corrective measures must be taken - do not reward her for her mistakes or when she has little cry fits totally ignore her when she does such things. Only pay attention when she does the rights things. She will soon realize that the right behavior gets your attention.