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I feel like i don't have friends
If you first look at you will tell that i am cool ,good looking ,nice clothes ....But i don't have a lot of friends,When people meet me they think that am cool but when they meet me up close they don't think like that anymore .I don't have friends to hung out ,Most of my friends are sons and daughters of my mom and dad friends , I am feel lonely ,i have problem to talk with girls i am to nice but it doesn't pay of ,There is one girl that seems to love me but am afraid to talk with here because i fear what she will think about me when she finds out that i don't make lot of friends .When i look in other people contacts on mobile phone i see that they have more contacts than i do and more calls in one week then me in a half year.And on network i see people how much more msn contacts then i do.I am rely said about that many people don't see that on me .Now only thing that make me happy is good shopping and sport.
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Do your self a favor a definitely ask that girl out.Im sure she will judge you by your personality not the number of friends you got.Good luck
xxx
and i totally dissagree with ilikecheese. DO try to be someone youre not unless you already fit in, but dont overdoo it or you wont look cool.
if its true, then i know how it feels, i never had ANY freinds untill about 4 years ago wehn i changed schools. AND YES I WAS SOMEONE I WAS NOT, and it worked out fine =) most of it was just not acting like a complete dork.
goodluck ;)
I was in your situation for whole my life till year ago.(but I had luck to find 2 freaky guys like me, and I'm not alone anymore)
Being a loner is not bad thing. You just need to find out that you DON'T NEED FRIENDS. Find a thing that you're good at and do push yourself in that area. I would recommend you to read "Thus spoke Zarathustra" from Nietzsche.
Or you may read anything from Arthur Schopenhauer.
And the most important thing you have to accept is that You are DIFFERENT from the others. Trying to mix in the society will only reduce your qualities, and in the end you'll still be alone. You have to LOVE yourself. Forget about the society, you're not part of it! And yeah, I'm sure you will find a girl somewhere that likes freaks like you and you'll be happy. Despairing and trying to be like the others won't bring you happiness, nor whatever you seek for.
After you get satisfied with who you are and what you do, people would kill to be friends of yours. But I'm sure, you won't want to be in the stupid "groups" of the society.
I'm sure when you say society you mean 'us', after you'll accept who you are you will mean 'Them' when you spoke of the society.
Cheers
I've been in couple of situations like that, and did nothing, just because of 'fear'. But all that change since I suffered watching every girl that I loved with some loser who didn't had doubts in himself.
For now, fear is your greatest enemy. When you'll accept that you're a 'sociopath', wear will be something in the normal people that you have benefit from.