I feel like i don't have friends http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/ Life is what you make it. If more friends is what you want, then you have to grow the fortitude to go out and get them. Talk to people. Get phone numbers. Call people and ask what they're doing on the weekend. And as far as girls go, there are likely dozens of girls that are interested in you, but you have to make an effort and go out and get them. Just talk to them, about ANYTHING, and go from there, it works trust me. "Don't be shy. Don't let the tide of your sorrow drown your nights and flood your days. If you are shy for tommorow you'll be shy the rest of your days." http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-261521 2008-08-19 20:26:07 And about that girl that likes you... I've been in couple of situations like that, and did nothing, just because of 'fear'. But all that change since I suffered watching every girl that I loved with some loser who didn't had doubts in himself. For now, fear is your greatest enemy. When you'll accept that you're a 'sociopath', wear will be something in the normal people that you have benefit from. http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-232219 2008-01-15 11:06:08 Don't be a cry baby! I was in your situation for whole my life till year ago.(but I had luck to find 2 freaky guys like me, and I'm not alone anymore) Being a loner is not bad thing. You just need to find out that you DON'T NEED FRIENDS. Find a thing that you're good at and do push yourself in that area. I would recommend you to read "Thus spoke Zarathustra" from Nietzsche. Or you may read anything from Arthur Schopenhauer. And the most important thing you have to accept is that You are DIFFERENT from the others. Trying to mix in the society will only reduce your qualities, and in the end you'll still be alone. You have to LOVE yourself. Forget about the society, you're not part of it! And yeah, I'm sure you will find a girl somewhere that likes freaks like you and you'll be happy. Despairing and trying to be like the others won't bring you happiness, nor whatever you seek for. After you get satisfied with who you are and what you do, people would kill to be friends of yours. But I'm sure, you won't want to be in the stupid "groups" of the society. I'm sure when you say society you mean 'us', after you'll accept who you are you will mean 'Them' when you spoke of the society. Cheers http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-232217 2008-01-15 11:00:07 blah blah http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-221239 2007-12-31 20:36:35 well try to always be yourself! people will like u for who you truely are, if the girl doesnt like u, dont give a shit an take it as experiance. have confidence and an attitude and be urself, thats all u need. goodluck ;) http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-213135 2007-12-18 13:57:53 Btw, gizzie is right, by far. and me (a)!!!!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-205123 2007-12-01 15:36:44 hmm... weird now, if youre good looking, have good clothes and you look cool, then you would be popular, at least with the girls. To say that youre good looking must mean you have high self esteem and people with high self esteem are popular. dont worry about calls or msn contacts. my 1 friends (that lives out on the country side) has about 100msn contacts. i have 34 (i live in town near everyone). My friends doesnt even have his own computer, i do. doesnt matter how many calls you have, i usually just shout stfu and hang up to most of my friends cuz theyr annoying online and on phone. and i totally dissagree with ilikecheese. DO try to be someone youre not unless you already fit in, but dont overdoo it or you wont look cool. if its true, then i know how it feels, i never had ANY freinds untill about 4 years ago wehn i changed schools. AND YES I WAS SOMEONE I WAS NOT, and it worked out fine =) most of it was just not acting like a complete dork. http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-205122 2007-12-01 15:35:36 just be your self dot try to be someone your not xxx http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-185387 2007-10-29 04:24:26 All those friends your talking about them having are most likely more like acquaintance's then friends.If you end up with 4 or five true friends you will be lucky.You will find your true friends are the ones that will be there for you when you really need them.All the rest are just acquaintance's. Do your self a favor a definitely ask that girl out.Im sure she will judge you by your personality not the number of friends you got.Good luck http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-165283 2007-09-17 21:32:53 Ahhhh..don't worry man. You dont have to have 500,000 friends in the world to be "cool". I say just carry on and don't worry too much about them. And plus, talk to the girl that you think likes you. It will get you to socialize more. And plus, if she can't like you for who you are, then dump her and move on. http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-165047 2007-09-17 15:15:12 thats sad, still friends can stab u in the back!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-165027 2007-09-17 14:53:28 lol...aw http://isitnormal.com/story/16213/#comment-165021 2007-09-17 14:42:40