I feel guilty about not wanting kids http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/ If you don't want children, then that is your right to make that decision. It's not like there is some written law that says you must procreate by age 35. Many couples don't have children and go on to live very happy, fufilling lives. You and your husband are all that matter. If you don't want kids and he is ok with that, then it doesn't matter what ANYONE else thinks. If they can't understand then they are being selfish, not you. http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/#comment-261528 2008-08-19 20:50:10 If you have no interest in having kids, then don't have them. Many educated, healthy, and financially secure people these days are choosing not to produce children because they realize that kids often just end up interfering with one's independence and peace of mind. Not everybody is able or willing to do what it takes to be a good parent, and it's far better that those people recognize that and remain childfree. Raising kids is not all giggles and sunshine, and if you're having problems in your life then there's a good chance they'll just make you even more unhappy. http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/#comment-257975 2008-08-01 11:28:04 don't feel guilty... it might cause marital problems in a few years, but take it as is comes... you are being smart http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/#comment-242401 2008-01-31 18:30:34 sick gay! http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/#comment-182156 2007-10-22 14:31:03 If you and your husband agree on this dont worry about what anyone else says or thinks do it your way fuk the parents http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/#comment-165815 2007-09-18 20:04:45 stick to your guns.all these people wanting you to have a baby will be gone at the end of the day,even your hubby to some extent,and this kid will be your responsibilty. if you know deep down you either dont want kids or wouldnt be a good mother or both then be firm in your decision. frankly hearing your conditions I think you are making a very wise decision. http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/#comment-165814 2007-09-18 20:03:41 I don't think having children as "a sacrifice for my husband" is an ideal situation. If you really don't want children, and your hubby was aware of this before you tied the knot, then he should understand and be supportive. As you say, you familly has a history of some not very nice problems. If you were to have a child in the knowlege that you could pass it on, and indeed did pass it on, would you be able to look at yourself in the mirror' I very much doubt it. DON'T have children if that is what YOU want. Good luck. http://isitnormal.com/story/16257/#comment-165662 2007-09-18 16:33:39