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Is It Normal?
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I hangout with a group of guys around my age, every weekend we go to parties and get drunk. I feel happy around them, but the thing is I sleep with a few of them and the just pass me around like a toy, but I get off on that I don't know why but I like it, I act stupid so I they don't think I understand whats going on and they pretend like they don't know I've been with a particular guy, even though I've heard them talking about it. Is this normal !?!
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Comments (18)
I don't think this is normal, especially since you seem unhappy about the situation. I'd suggest you stop getting drunk, and stop sleeping with them. Find some other friends.
Anonymous
I never said I didn't like it
Anonymous
i love sluts!
can i join in on some of this action. i like to get drunk and have sex.
Why would you disrespect yourself? Have you no self love? People will treat you how you ALLOW them to treat you. They don't care what you know or don't know, they care about your actions. And your actions are to fuck all of them when you're drunk. You're just an ignorant promiscuous girl who wants love from men. Good luck....try not to turn into a prostitute.
Risky Business
Drunk + sex = an unwanted pregnancy and STDs
Anonymous
@: Moi
Drunk + sex = an unwanted pregnancy and STDs
have u heard of condoms and birth control pill?
Birth control can fail . . .
And most drunken folks get stupid don't care or remember to use a condom.
Not really
They want hole and they can get it easy. Its not the way to be as mentioned above all the disease blah blah. End up preggers.
Its not that you like it. it is a sense of love that your lacking, sex and love are different. but can be interpreted as the same.

Get away from that situation its dangerous
Blah blah blah blah STD blah blah blah blah BASTARD CHILDREN blah blah blah ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR blah blah

As long as you don't do it in the street and scare the horses, it's fine by me.
Anonymous
Obviously you like the variable sex, and maybe the fact that the current guy can picture you with his mate. Maybe you like the fact that these guys think you're a slut. To be a slut seems degrading, like all you want is sex, don't care what with. You need to think a bit more about yourself and how you'd want to be seen, how you feel about yourself.
Anonymous
It all comes back to you! You are the reason that they all talk about you. They all know who you've slept with, and if you've had sex with more than one, then they take it for granted. Whoever you haven't had it with, well, they can guarantee that they could be next. Your image is not good. Guys know you'll put out and that's all they want. Maybe you enjoy it, but it all seems disgusting to me. Think about your future self-image and confidence
deeper issues
There are deeper issues here, and virtually everyone else has so far been glossing over them. It's more than just a matter of "fine by me as long as" .... which is a horrendous moral view. And it's also more than promiscuity, STDs, and becoming pregnant. The deeper issue is one of true love of self, and then true love of others. I'm willing to bet that your self-worth is almost non-existent if you are "happy" with being a toy for others. If you see yourself, in any way, as an object, that you cannot truly and fully love another as a person. You are allowing yourself to be degraded for an immediate pleasure; this kind of degradation disables you for living out a true love relationship in the future. Love cannot be equated with selfishness, and in servicing these guys, you are also servicing your selfishness. That makes you to be less of the person God truly made you to be .... and what you want the most at the bottom of your heart. Seek out a counselor. Also take a look at the need to get drunk .... that's indicative of self-loathing, too.
i dont know if it's normal or not but i do the same thing. I also hear them talking about what they did to me, but in alot of detail. it makes me feel sick but at the same time i enjoy it. dont worry about it, i just pretend i dont even remember what happend.
Anonymous
Geez how can u be like that? thats how all my girlfriends are like now and i hate it!!! eveyone in my town has fucked everyone and it sickens me!! i always hear "oh jeremy fucked deanna and melissa in the same night" and frankie and keith tag teamed deanna" and kristy got fucked by phil and travis at the same time" jessie and amie went down on eachother" how can u degrade yourself like this?? u know those so called friends are calling u a whore and a slut behinde your back i can almost gaurentee it!! you are gonna wind up with STDs or some shit. are u gonna be happy then? or what if u get pregnate? are u just gonna be a stupid bitch and get an abortion? u got to think about these things because they do happen!! i hear this shit all the time and its fucking sad.
ya its fine as long as you don't get pregnant cuz we don't need any more garbage folks in this world. there is already enough bastard kids and kids raised or i should say not raised period. if your going to continue doing what your doing you might as well make some money out of it. thats the only difference between you and a ho right now. so think about it. i think a ho gets more respect.
Anonymous
have fun!
so long as you have fun its okay however dont get too drunk to forget a condom (can i join, where do you live). im horny lil 15 year old haha
Anonymous
if you really do enjoy it, that's great, but i would suggest having plenty of other friends too. you could talk about it with them etc. and have ppl you don't feel like you have to pretend around. make your time with them a choice each time, not just what you do every weekend. also, as others have mentioned, stay safe!
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