Go ahead and just tell your boyfriend if he is like most guys he will go with the program as long as you include him. Is all this i think im bi-sexual stuff coming from being mistreated by a man?

No. I've never been Mistreated by a guy and really I don't want a REALTIONSHIP with a girl. I would just like to make love with another woman. I would enjoy it I think.

The girl I am thinking of approaching... She is lovely. Half black half latin, and much of my desire for her is from the Idea of pleasing her, sexually.

I would enjoy it too, for sure.

Happy bi but don't want to hurt my BF

October

Look its like this i can tell your going to do this its human nature to satisfy our curiosities.Heres my suggestion go ahead a try it without your boyfriends knowledge.You know the old saying what you dont know wont hurt you thing and see if its all that.

I suggest you think long and hard though before you do it because it could turn into a cluster fuck from hell when your girlfriend decides shes in love with you.Just thoughts to ponder.

Hmmm...my wife just came out to me that she was bisexual, she had never been with a girl before and we decided together that we wanted to have a FFM threesome, we both agreed that it would be a lot more fun and I would be able to guide her through it. After almost 6 months of searching for a girl that was mature enough, we both decided to try swinging instead, as it was a 100% guarantee that we would find somebody within a very short period of time. Low and behold, we found a couple who only live about 1 mile from us, we went over to their house to meet them, had a BBQ, had some drinks and started playing strip poker. My wife finally got to be with a female and now we are all considering this to be a long-term thing with each other (and no the guy and I don't touch each other)Swinging is wife-swapping but also the wives play together. We had an absolute blast and we both agreed that it was a lot more fun than the same old boring sex that we've been having for the past 6 months of our now 3 1/2 year relationship together. We were both really jealous of one another when it came to other people, so we thought that a couple who are secure in THEIR relationship would be good for us, as neither of us would have much to worry about. After we did it, neither of us have ANY jealousy whatsoever.

I would say to tell your boyfriend about your bisexual tendencies and see what he says about it. Maybe then you could get him to talk to the girl you like and see if he could find out whether she is bisexual/lesbian. You could also do it yourself. Start talking nonchalantly about bisexual/lesbian women and gauge her reaction, make it look like it's something that doesn't bother you (which it doesn't) and like I said, gauge her reaction, that will pretty much tell you whether or not she is into girls. Good luck and keep plugging!

Cheating isent gender bious its emotional, and bye todays paterns yes, that whould be considered cheating :s

but hey you have to do whats best for you, you should never let "gravity" hold you back :)


peace JAH bless

No he isn't blind or in a chair, asshole. He is a GREAT guy named Eric.

Tobra

well it would be cheating that is for certain.id say youd have to build up gradually to it with her and just dont come right out and blurt out that youd like to gobble her.ignore gizze and spam---they are jealous of anyone who might be getting sex.

Enough already holy shit talk about a spazzzzzz!

ew..... I guess I am too straight, but it makes me sick to think about going down on a girl... maybe if I was really in love with her as a person... but just for the hell of it? ick. To each her own.

Uhm, arn't you MALE, Potato?

Tobra

And, in my case... I really want to be with this girl, but it is HER pleasure that I am thinking of. The thought of touching and licking her excites me, but the thought of Giving HER pleasure is my major turn on.

October

I'm very female lol.

Ahhh. Now I know. :)

October

can i see u naked ill send u a pic of my dic n turn u straight hotboy2367@hotmail.com

sure, no problem.

Drop me a letter at :

potato@yahoo.com

good for you ! =) =)