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Tried Swinging...
Okay, here goes. My wife and I have been together now for about 3 1/2 years. It wasn't until about 6 months ago that she told me that she was "into" girls and wanted to do a FFM threesome (My wife had never been with a girl before sexually). This certainly got me going. After looking for 6 months and going through 2 crazy girls who we only kissed together, we decided that maybe we should try swinging as we knew that it was almost a 100% guarantee that we would find somebody within a very short period of time. We happened to find a young couple who only live about 1 mile away from us. We went to their house, had a BBQ, played strip poker, and had one wild night. They then gave us a key to their house (even though they had only known us for such a short period of time). Is it normal that two complete strangers (who have a 2 and 5 year old son) would give us a key to their house? I found it a little odd I was just curious as to what others thought about this. We are both 21 years old and have a 7 month old daughter and obviously would NEVER give ANYBODY a key to our house, whether we knew them very well or not.
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Well i have got to tell you i think your crazy to be having sex with people you really dont know.Did you use protection?

I think your just asking for trouble when you go and do something like this with people you barely know.Giving you a key to their house this has got to be made up from some stupid movie you watched on tv.
At times, it's hard to tell whether a story is real or not but I'll proceed as if your question is sincere.

Yes, you are right, it is odd to hand someone their house key. If alcohol was being used during your get together, it may explain their impulsive decision to hand to you their house key. Alcohol figured into a situation can make people do things they would never consider doing if they were sober.

I would suggest you return their house key (do not make a copy of it either). Be polite, but just say you are uncomfortable with it in your possession. I can explain why you should return it. If someone, anyone, should happen to burglarize these people's home, they would tell the police that you had possession of a key to their home and this would instantly make you a suspect. You do not need that.

If adults want to experiment that is a legitimate choice but if people have children and are married it is a bad choice and should be avoided.

Raising children takes priority over personal pleasures and couples raising them should not be engaging in such activities.

Just my opinion.
You find the fact that they gave you a key to their home unusual, yet you guys have just fucked each others wives silly and don't think THATS unusual. I think you need to get your thinking straight. Which is more unusual, having illicit sex or handing over keys. I am not decrying the sex bit but Hey the keys...?
Well, there comes a time in each person's life when they realize that relationships are NOT based solely on sex and you really do have to separate sex from love, because the two are not one in the same. The key thing was, we weren't really that drunk and YES we did use protection (of course) The dude's wife handed my wife a key to their house because they had left and we were there and she gave my wife a key in case we had to leave for any emergency and had to lock up their house...my wife went to give the key back and his wife told my wife "I know this is a little forward but we want you to keep it".

I'm sure that they don't go around giving people keys to their house, we all connected on a really good level and were immediately extremely comfortable with each other.

I do agree to the having kids thing, to some degree. I agree that if it's something that is going to be done that we always get a babysitter. You know, having kids does not mean that your life of fun and excitement comes to an abrupt end. We made sure that they were clean and they don't swing with any other couple other than us. We of course took all safety precautions prior to engaging in sexual intercourse.

When it comes to children, you could say the same for drinking alcohol/smoking cigarettes, something that you wouldn't want to do around your children but if you are going to be doing it, make sure that they aren't around to witness it so that you are not posing as a bad example.
I do agree with what you say Sisophous and you do bring up a good point. I know that if anything were to come up like that, police wouldn't find anything in our house anyway, because it is not something we would do, but it is definitely not a situation in which we want to be putting ourselves in the first place.
gizzie wont give good sex advice.he is a frustrated 30 year old virgin and he hates anyone who posts about having sex.
sisophous, you're still alive??

I cant believe you still remembered us here at IIN. What made u come back?
No you got it all wrong i just hate you get it right pencil dick!
Sorry i dont hate you i dont hate anyone thats a bad bad word sorry man,but i do dislike you.
stop trying to suck up to me.if you hate me say it and stop watering it down.get a backbone you goddamn redneck sissy.
Trying to suck up to you wtf are you talking about you fucking waste of skin?I didn't hate you but i do now!
@: Barnum
Thanks for your kind replies folks. I've just been away for awhile but drop in occasionally. The best.
i luv 3 somes!!!!!!
3somes are great i love watching my woman work 2 dicks
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