Are You Normal?
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is it just me?
I am 14 and in 9th grade and have never had a boyfriend. My brother and my cousin who are both 11 and have had a lot of girlfriends and have already had their first kiss. I havent even had my first kiss. I feel so stupid and abnormal cuz no guys ever really talk to me. I dont get it. Im am very pretty and have an athletic body and im not that shy except for when i talk to a guy i like. I did move once in 7th grade so i was in the same place for 2 years and never had any guy friends. now i moved again this year and am in 9th grade, i do talk to a few guys but only in the classroom. i dont have any guy friends to talk to in the hallway or anything. i like this guy and i think he likes me back because my bro told me he probly does. I dont know him very well and only am in one of his classes. and he came up and talked to me once. is this normal? how can i make alot of guy friends without being nervous when i talk to them? and how do i find out if my crush likes me? help me pleez!!
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Lots of young girls just sleep around to be accepted or popular. You'll just end up being a mom when you are 16 and the guy will ditch you.
soooo normal, yes. But that doesn't make it easy.
It is possible that you are not just pretty, that you are drop dead gorgeous, which intimidates boys at that age. Cindy Crawford also didn't have any dates in high school.
But whatever the reason, the boys you are most likely to be interested in are going to be the less pushy ones. If you like a boy, ask him to do something with you, not even a date, but to sit next to each other at a basketball game, or lunch, or to have ice cream together. Or study together, if you want to be even less date-like.
Don't think of dating as a measure of success, just think that you want to spend time with people you like, or that make you feel special to be around.
Be willing to risk having your feelings hurt to have them raised once you find someone you feel special about who also feels that way about you.
Don't feel bad if someone doesn't like you the way you want them to. They don't choose who they are attracted to any more than you do.
your crush would rather commit suicide than go out with you unless he is totally desperate