There are differing levels of sado masachism. The idea is to get a sexual high from it. It is not to be feared but enjoyed. From your comments it is not your scene. We are all different so if it isn't for you don't do it.
NEVER knock it unless you've tried it. If you do you only speak in ignorence.
It is normal for those who like it, not normal for those who don't or have never tried it.
Do what works for you.

I dont think you should cancel they wont do anything to you that you dont want it will be an experience not to miss

M8 if you ever slaped your gal in the ass during sex thats sadism and she enjoying it is masochism

if she ever pulled your hair during the same thing and you enjoyed it then shes a sadist and your a masochist, as nearly said, the only diffrence is how far are you both willing to go.


P.S: hotwax, very nice


peace JAH bless

what is normal? there is no set standard for normal.we can only use stats and stats say most people are not into s and m.

I think Didge_Daz, you are wrong, according to the dictionary definition of Sadism/Masochism.
Sadism-
1. The deriving of sexual gratification or the tendency to derive sexual gratification from inflicting pain and emotional abuse on others.
2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from cruelty.
3. Extreme cruelty.

Masochism- The condition in which sexual gratification depends on suffering, physical pain, and humiliation.

See, so there is a HUGE difference between what you say are varying levels. there it is...extreme cruelty AND humiliation, not or.

Yes it is normal. Don't be shy now, just tell'em you're new at this and they will be gentle (enough).

they call it S and M!