recon dude, the whole "best friend relationship" is tricky enought bye itself let alone in that situation, you might ruin it if youre not carefull.

just keep looking for signs dude, you might scare him if you right out drop a bomb like that on him.


peace JAH bless

Why don't you go to the juvenile teen sites with your unfantile questions. Over 18's 1) Will not answer you in a manner acceptable to you. 2) Will not know how correctly to answer you, 3) give a damn anyway. So fuck off onto your teen sites and ask your tiresome questions and I hope you get the answers that you need.

well since the gay population is only 1-2 % of the total population the chances of him being gay is...well 1 0r 2%, so its not very likely he is gay.

This brings back memories. Not very happy ones, but.

Poster....I am and always have been "homo" and I know how you feel. I went through the same thing at your age. I fell in love with my best friend.

Even though he seemed to be straight and had a girlfriend whom he was supposedly quite "active" with, I never quite gave up.

Then one summer weekend I went camping with him and his family. We had smuggled a bottle of cheap wine with us and a couple of beers. Oh fuck....typing this is bringing it back big time.

We waited until late to drink some of the booze, snuck out of the campsite to wander around for a bit and came back feeling pretty good. We got into our sleeping bags. As I said my buddy had a girlfriend and he commented on how he had wished she was there to give him a blow job. The moment felt right and I commented that I could help him out with that. He seemed a little surprised but also interested.

The next thing I knew, his sleeping bag was opened , his pants were down and I was a few inches from his dick. Suddenly he freaked a bit and backed out. He wanted it but couldn't handle the thought of me doing that for him I guess. It hurt a lot.

Nothing was the same after that. He treated me differently and we very quickly grew apart. He was no longer my friend.

I wish I had an answer for you. It's an awkward age and even more tough if you're gay.

Be the best friend that you can be. Understand that you are very young and often many of the friends that you have now in the years to come will drift apart anyways. A handful will hold on. Maybe with this one will still be around for you. Maybe not.

Look for signs. Be careful. If he is REALLY your friend, it won't matter to him if you are gay or not. Maybe someday you can tell him. Be prepared for what ever consequences come about for telling him though.

i think if he was a real bestfriend , he would understand if u told him ur gay....and if he said he was gay too, then u can tell him tht u like him....

hmm....u probably shouldnt tell him, coz chances r slim that he's gay,coz if he was he'd show it till now and u would notice it big time coz ur one too, so i think u should wait some time to c how r the things going

listen im actully 13 i *i didnt know u could put ur age under 18 soz* and i liked a friend before but i knew he wasnt gay then i saw the girl of my dreams andi asked her out and how lucky did i get!!!!=D she said yes but nvm just try to think of different things

1 more thing sprinkles and i went through the same things this is my story.....
i was 12 ok and i was extremaly confused abut *sex* so.... i asked my friend to come over for a sleep over and then my mom went to bed i asked him about stuff about our day then i commented i got a boner....(dont know how to spell*then i asked could u give me a blow job?he said ehh..u gay?i said no!!! i said i just wanna *practice*and he said okay..... so listen dude its okay that ur feelings this just dont worrey but (hint) dont go what i went through!!!!!!