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My name it Matt, I have liked this girl who is my best friend since I was twleve years old. She is absolutely gorgeous. She does some small time modeling for clothing company's nothing to big. We have been best friends for 6 years and nothing else because she doesnt like me that way and I have done everything I can possibly think of to win her over. In 6 years I havent even so much as kissed her and I am not in it for sex like most guys are. I just want to be with her and be happy. I thinkn about her constantly. I moved out here to chicago which is 4 hours from where I used to live in Iowa and one month after that she moved out here too about an hour from where I live. We have been best friends all through middle school and highschool and now heading through college but I have never moved past just her friend stage. I talk to her mother more than I talk to my own mother. I'm 5'3" 120lbs so its not like I'm fat and I dont consider my self to be all that terrible looking. but no matter what I do she never sees me as more than a friend but I cant let her go and she wont let me leave her she always pulls me back in if I try to distance myself. it's like she wants me to be toremented by the fact I cant have her my whole life. SOME ONE HELP ME!
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Comments (9)
Matt28r (10757)
2007-09-22 17:01:33
I tell all the people that I meet that her and I are dating just because I dont want to be made fun of. Also it's pretty hard to explain verything we have been through. I pray for her every single night that maybe someday I could be the one for her and if I cant be I want her to find someone better than me who cares more about her than me but there isnt anyone.
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Matt28r (10757)
2007-09-22 18:01:56
ya ok my best friend of 6 years hey what do you do last night of i banged some random chick I dont know. oh wonderful I love you lets hangout. that would go over great dude
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-22 18:27:09
Have you actuaslly TOLD her how you feel Matt?
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Didge_Daz (5056)
2007-09-22 18:33:04
M8 ive said this so many times i should get paid for it, your dead in the whater, sry but thats how it is, only way to escape the whole "best friend" trap and even thats not guarenteed to work...

You gona have to leave dude...3 months, a whole year, you need some serious ass distance, youre gona miss her thats certain, but more important SHES gona miss you.

In that time you neeed to do some serious soulsearch dude maybe hook up with a girl or two, get your head straight, from there on you can just go back or stay as you are, then who knows she might just see you difrently.


Mind you i did this once with sucess but in the end she just wasent right, sometimes you just get hooked up on the IDEA of the relationship when the reality can be quite difrence.



peace JAH bless
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-09-22 20:36:07
you sound to me like an imature sexually inexperienced geek. Get out there and get some and get over this girl who is never going to put out for you. She probably thinks your a fag I do
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Matt28r (10757)
2007-09-22 22:16:20
@: nearly
I havent ever really told her how I feel but I kind of assume she knows. she's always sayin I love you to me like when I see her after a long time or if I talk to her on the phone. and look if your gonna just call me a geek or fag I dont really wanna hear it because I dont care what you think I'm looking for help here not someone to make fun of me.
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Matt28r (10757)
2007-09-22 22:17:15
@: Matt28r
also didge daz your idea sounds good but I'm too afraid to leave her alone because she really truly is my best friend like i dont have any guy friend I just have her and thats it.
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Didge_Daz (5056)
2007-09-24 20:35:42
@: Matt28r
Fear should never hold you back dude...in this case you either DO or you DONT, if youre going to bet your money on "time changes all" dont bother, you have to make things change bye yourself or its not going to happen, gluck m8.



peace JAH bless
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Souseiki (11326)
2007-10-29 16:09:31
5"3'!!? Im 12 and 5"10' I live around alot of fairly tall people but never have I seen someone so short and your age. Try wearing bigger shoes. xD
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