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Well, heres the story. I'm dating a wonderful guy.. have been for about 4 months now. I'm 15. I DO socially drink. Well the other night, I was out with my friends. (Boys and Girls at a girl friend's house.) But my boyfriend couldn't come because he was busy. Anyways it was just me and about ten others, both genders. I am REALLY against cheating. I feel its very wrong, and I would never intentionally do it to hurt my boyfriend. I really love him alot.Anyways, when I was fairly drunk, one of my guy friends who I assume has an interest in me, told me I was cute. All I could say was, "Oh, thank you." I didn't want it to go anywhere or project images of avaliability of me in his head. This guy is decent looking, but I have no intentions to pursue at all because I am in a good relationship with my boyfriend. Anyways, later on, I was poking the guy, just having a good time. And then out of no where he was poking my chest and kind of fondling my boobs. The thing is, I was way to senseless to really slap him and tell him to stop. I don't slap.. i'm not that kind of person. Anyways, later outside in the dark, he started rubbing my butt, and it made me worried so I walked away a few feet to let him know I don't like that. He didn't do anything. Nothing else happened.. but when someone trys to do something with me. Or HIT on me. I feel like my innocence dies, and I feel like I was the one cheating.
What exactly should I do in this situation? Should I tell my boyfriend about how I feel, or is it nessissary. I don't know why, but I feel pretty bad about it even though I didn't do anything. The only physical touching I did with this guy was probably a poke, or a arm around the shoulder for a few seconds.
... What do you guys think? Sorry it's so long.
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Your comment makes me feel no better than what I came here to seek. :[
I'm not a bad person, and it's not on your behalf to judge me without getting to know the whole me. It's not like i'm into drugs, or anything poor such as that. Many teens party.
Im not judging you ,but you posted in here which is kinda like asking to be judged,it just makes me sad to see kids think that being drunk and getting into sexual situations at such a young age is normal.
Now as to the cheating issue,telling your BF or not ,what does it really matter? He is just some silly boy your not going to be seeing in 6 months probably anyway.
One thing youd better take away from all of this----next time when you are good and drunk instead of just getting a boob felt up you might get raped and end up pregnant or with a sexual disease or both.THAT is the name of that tune.
I don't plan to party with strangers when i'm still underage. I party with close friends, who do have a good record of dating. I'm not hanging around the town rapists.
Also, you shouldn't judge a teenager's relationship. Me and my boyfriend are holding up strong, and we both are on the path of one day becoming highschool sweethearts. :)
However when my friend fondled me innapropriatly, it felt like I was the one cheating.
Please don't post on my story if your just going to come back with more negative things to make my esteem lower than it is right now. I'm seeking advice, not a lecture..
you party with close friends huh?----that same close friend that took advantage of you when you were drunk and groped your breasts?
Yeah it sounds like you hang with some fine outstanding gropers.....er.. I mean friends.
"Please don't post on my story if your just going to come back with more negative things to make my esteem lower than it is right now. I'm seeking advice, not a lecture.."
Please. Don't critisize me. Your getting on the topic of rape. I didn't come here to have rape advice or lectures. I came here for advice for something else! Just please don't post.. ._.
Youll have to wait for someone your age to post an answer who also thinks they know all there is to know and maybe they can tell you how cool you are.
My story is far from cool. I'm admitting to something and I don't want to be bashed about it!
Don't underestimate an individual
just by their age.
If you post again, it really shows your lacking in self control. And don't tell me to stop. This is my story. Please go away.
anyway tell your boyfriend, im sure he'd appreciate you telling him and not finding out some other way. if someone else tells him he's bound to get the wrong idea.
1) You are drinking in excess at age 15.
2) You come onto an ADULT SITE and complain that you don't like the responses you get.
3) The appropriate adult wasn't watching the situation properly. Wouldn't want MY kids partying THERE tyvm.
4)You aren't really old enough to be in a "steady relationship"
As for the rest of it, no, you shouldn't feel guilty about some one trying to feel you up. What you should feel guilty about is the fact that you betrayed the trust put in you by your parents and your boyfriend.
You were VERY LUCKY young lady. You could so easily have been raped. You could have ended up pregnant. You could have ended up with an STD. You could have ended up in an even worse situation than ANY of those. I would sugest that in future, you drink only what you can handle and NEVER go anywhere without a suitable escort until you are capable of defending yourself which you certainly are not at age 15.
Now if that is lecturing you, then I am very sorry but you got it coming. As a father myself, I express my opinion. LIKE IT or LUMP IT. At the end of the day YOU ASKED FOR IT.
Don't tell your boyfriend, you'll just be making things worse. And who doesn't drink at 15?