My "ex" http://isitnormal.com/story/16930/ She probably wants to be your friend for now... and as she says now isn't right you might get another chance in the future. http://isitnormal.com/story/16930/#comment-216800 2007-12-25 10:44:56 i like sex http://isitnormal.com/story/16930/#comment-174563 2007-10-06 18:29:04 listen to her ....declared your love again for her...take care http://isitnormal.com/story/16930/#comment-173549 2007-10-04 23:21:47 But Homer. You had such a long list. What if he gets tired before he gets to the double-fisted hammer punch' http://isitnormal.com/story/16930/#comment-173459 2007-10-04 18:48:20 I really hate to make any specific recommendations without knowing precisely why she ended your relationship. The reasons you've listed here: "It's me," "It's not the right time," and "It's not going anyway," are generic answers that don't really reveal what is in her heart and mind. Ask her to level with you, and to be completely honest. Honesty is the one thing that many people avoid in a relationship because so many of us have control issues and are afraid of rejection. But the worst has already happened here -- she's broken up with you -- now she needs to do some deconstruction of the relationship and provide you with the facts that both of you deserve to hear. If she refuses to tell you, then you will know that the issues that divide you go too deep to mend, at least at this time. But if she DOES level with you, the relationship may possibly be salvagable. Bear in mind that you may not like her answer(s), however. Try to hear her out nonetheless, and allow yourself to fully process the information before you react. If you HAVE said "stupid things" to her in the past, now is not the time to do a repeat performance. Good luck to you. http://isitnormal.com/story/16930/#comment-173449 2007-10-04 18:21:24 what are you 12' http://isitnormal.com/story/16930/#comment-173404 2007-10-04 16:44:13