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It's been about 3 months since the first person I fell in love with and I broke up, I was with him about a year and a half. I have guys interested, been asked out by various guys but I just smile and run away almost everytime. I went on a few dates with a really cute guy cause my friend encouraged me but no matter how attractive he is I just didn't feel anything for him, or any other guy! What makes it worse, even though I'm not interested in my friend but we always end up kissing untill I run away/push him away and I feel bad afterwards even though I know he's just wanting fun. I know I'm not over my ex and I also can't force myself to be with anyone even though he's already been with various girls already. I wonder what the normal time length is untill one starts to not feel so awkward and scared of other guys!? How long has it taken everyone else to move on from there first loves? I'm only 19 so I know there are gonna be more guys but in the mean time untill I am over my ex whats a better way of letting guys down other than smiling and running away. I'm getting myself into trouble with friends for doing that!
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gizzie56 (8681)
2007-10-15 13:24:41
It sounds to me like you are worried about getting your heart broke again so you are shying away from other men.My suggestion to you is to start dating again and dont rush into anything get to know a guy before you have sex or anything.

Life has its fair share of let downs so get over your first love and look towards your bright future.Its all just part of growing up you'll be fine.I wish you happiness good luck.
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LosT_GuY1968 (10729)
2007-10-15 13:44:28
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Crookshanks (10749)
2007-10-15 15:02:44
@: LosT_GuY1968
'isitnormal.com is intended for people 18 or over. We have also made an effort to specifically limit isitnormal.com's appeal to people of age 18 and older' hmmm how about that, also, this story is asking actual questions while your stories as I have looked are ALL garbage, get over yourself, you really arn't funny!
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Didge_Daz (5056)
2007-10-16 04:36:24
As i said many a times GET OVER IT

Sry theres no miracle cure you can take to make heart ache go away, you just have to plow thru,

The only reason one holds on to byegones is
because they want to, be it bye nostalgia or whatnot, youd be better if you just let go of that ship and focus on moving on with your life

Time wont heal anything unless you put some effort into it.

I apologise if it sounded a bit rude, but when your stuck on a place like that, one needs to hear stuff as bluntly as they come.

There have been alot of ppl that got stuck on that "one love", and it completly ruined there lives for years on end, just dont let yourself be a victim to that, find a way to move on the sooner the better.


peace JAH bless
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nearly (10533)
2007-10-16 07:20:19
I will tell you this poster. I am 60 years old and still remember my first love and heart breaker! Move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea of life!
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