I met someone on IIN
Well, about 6 months ago, I met a sweet girl on here. Eventually, we chatted some more and found out, you know the basics, where she lived, what age, home life and all that. And by the way, i'm 17, shes 15..going on 16 in a couple of months. Well over time, like a bit before summer I realized that I really like her a lot, even though we haven't met in person. And trust me guys, I'm not jumping the gun and saying yeah she's my soulmate and I love her for life. But she likes me as a good friend but the problem is, is that she already had a BF when we first started talking. And I thought she didn't. But I was okay with that, but occasionally over the span of a week we talk about 3 or 4 days out of the week currently. And to make things a bit more interesting, over the summer, I asked about eventually meeting up one day and seeing each other in person. She said no for a number of reasons (BF, parents and bad timing). So once again, I said I understand where you’re coming from and was alright with it.
But I have a mission though. One day, when we're older, we plan on (well hopefully both of us lol) will meet up one day and just chat, get to know one another. And soon I will be getting a cell phone and hopefully I can call her. Do you guys think I should ask her for her number? Do you think I should you know, keep on chatting online throughout the weeks, months and years to come if I like her this much. Or since she lives far away, maybe i should just drop the idea? What do you guys think? Please...honest opinions and comments would GREATLY be appreciated, thank you :)
-DaBIGcheese
Oh yeah btw, my old name was "AJ67k3" on here. I didn't even bother adding any info or whatever. I just found that they had a chat and went i nthere and chatted for awhile. I realized the posts weren't worth reading back then, lol.
-dirt dobbler
And plus, she is still very nice to me and all.
Well all I can say that people on the net can be quite the opposite in real life. I suggest you take precautions when meeting people off the net.
I have a few friends on the net that I have known for years. Some I have met and some I haven't. Mostly all are females and mostly they all know I am gay and have no interest in them sexually. That works good for me and them. You, on the other hand are hetro and I really see no harm in the friendship EXCEPT that at your age it is easy to "let go" and that can be very painful and have far reaching consequences if you build yourself up and then get rejected. Honestly, it really is NOT worth the chance. Friendship and keep it there. You'll meet someone close to you who will "hit the spot" soon enough.
Good luck.
And yes i see where you're going with this. Like I know I don't want to build myself up and eventually have my heart taken out, I control that. But I question why other comments made on my post say that I should give this up. Do you think I should?