I met someone on IIN http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/ Well, see the thing is, I really don't mean that I love her to death with all my heart and that bull crap, lol. Like just a big crush basically. She's real nice like I said and I was thinking , if we kept on talking for awhile, them naybe we could meet up someday. That's my plan. Like I said, I already know that she has a BF and I never try to take her away from him. I'm nice and respectful to her and vice versa. And yes i see where you're going with this. Like I know I don't want to build myself up and eventually have my heart taken out, I control that. But I question why other comments made on my post say that I should give this up. Do you think I should' http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179679 2007-10-16 12:54:31 You know my age cheese. I would say, enjoy the chat and the friendship. BUT! Don't expect anything else and keep a tight hold on your heart strings. I have a few friends on the net that I have known for years. Some I have met and some I haven't. Mostly all are females and mostly they all know I am gay and have no interest in them sexually. That works good for me and them. You, on the other hand are hetro and I really see no harm in the friendship EXCEPT that at your age it is easy to "let go" and that can be very painful and have far reaching consequences if you build yourself up and then get rejected. Honestly, it really is NOT worth the chance. Friendship and keep it there. You'll meet someone close to you who will "hit the spot" soon enough. Good luck. http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179583 2007-10-16 07:36:10 I'm quite the opposite - I rarely go in the IIN chatroom. From memory I recalled for the entire 4 or 5 months I have resided on IIN I have only been in there three times. Well all I can say that people on the net can be quite the opposite in real life. I suggest you take precautions when meeting people off the net. http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179519 2007-10-16 04:56:01 Yeah, I understand why you might not go ahead with the idea anymore. But she said that right now is not a good idea to meet each other, she said when we're a bit older. And she lives in my home state, which is only 6 hours away (i'm a transplant now, lol). But yeah 6 hours aint bad and its real easy to get to. And plus, she is still very nice to me and all. http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179516 2007-10-16 04:42:37 i would have to say i dont think you should pursue this idea,only because she is not totally up for the idea whole-heartily.i actually talked to a guy i met in a chatroom for over a year.we had alot in common,and we could talk for hours.We had talked about meeting,only problem was he lived about 18 hours from me,and i have a 2 yr old.So i thought it would be kinda hard for me to take a baby on a plane,since i'd never been on one myself.I was planning on meeting him,but before i could come up with the money he couldn't handle the "long-distant relationship" or whatever we had,and was actually very cruel to me.he im's me every once in awhile,but i dont really like him like i did. -dirt dobbler http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179450 2007-10-15 18:23:05 Well yeah Gizzie, I was here for awhile. But I found IIN and just basically used the chat. I really didn't bother reading any posts. So technically I'm not new but it seems that way because the point of this site is to help people out. And thats what I want to do! Oh yeah btw, my old name was "AJ67k3" on here. I didn't even bother adding any info or whatever. I just found that they had a chat and went i nthere and chatted for awhile. I realized the posts weren't worth reading back then, lol. http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179357 2007-10-15 15:09:00 Subtract the mew. http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179344 2007-10-15 14:48:40 Didn't you just introduce yourself as a brand new mew member a few days ago'It sounds like you have been a member for quite some time assuming DaBIGcheese wrote this.Im curious what was the user name of the girl you fell for on here' http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179333 2007-10-15 14:31:07 better hope its a actually girl..might be a guy...and ive met alot of ppl on here http://isitnormal.com/story/17427/#comment-179317 2007-10-15 14:12:40