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Hello All,I have known a male friend for over a year. During our friendship, he has always been nice to my son and I. He seems humble and respectful. In the beginning, he would shake my hand and establish conversations with me. In recent months, he has started giving me hugs and kisses on my cheek. During the last year, he was in a relationship and have departed their ways.
Recently, we went out with his stepson, child, my son, and his children's grandfather. During the outing, he smiled at me a lot. He gave me his sweater because he thought I was cold. He sat next to me and kept giving me hi-fives. I asked if he wanted his sweater back and he said that he will get it from me another time. That night, we were joking around by saying whether or not he earned any points. The next day he called and I teased him about forgetting about me. He asked if he lost any points, I said yes. He said, well he has to earn them back and I said well I am sure you can figure it out. So, later one, he called to say that he missed me. Later that day (before picking up his son), he called again to say Hi. I still have his sweater. And, he kept giving me hugs and kisses on my cheek. I was told my the grandfather that he thinks that the father likes me.
What do you think?
Should I say anything to him? Should I call him and ask?
I like him.
Feedback and suggestions appreciated.
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Thank you for your advice. He does seem like a good guy. I just have had poor choices in men with my last relationship being abusive and stalking behavior. So, I need to be more careful with men.
When he called me yesterday for the 2nd time, he said "Hi beautiful" and asked if he earned any points.
Again, he has always been a good guy. Very attentive and good listener.
He will have to call me if he wants his sweater back, right?
Create a beautiful day for yourself and I wish you success in your life.
God forgives you!
Well, I did speak with him tonight. However, I didn't say that I like have an interest in him (though I do). I asked how he felt about his ex, which he replied that he still has feelings for her. He said that he is taking a break from the relationship and hopes at the very least that she stays around so that he can see the kids, and not have to go to court. I explained to him that I care about him and the boys as it would also affect my son.
I don't know what to think. It is flirtatious behavior, but maybe it is just who he is.
I am confused. I don't know what he is thinking or what men think. I only know my last two relationships. The very last ex was very physically and emotionally abusive. We did flirt, but there wasn't much courtship. So, I am not use to the flirting behavior, or anything else.
Any thoughts?
Honestly, I would like to find the right guy for my son and I. The right guy who would be respectful and loving, understanding and compassionate, and someone who is honest, commmitted to family, and protective with good listening skills.
signing off, bugsbunny
You can either let things run its course or take some action, and bye action i mean call him up, kiss him whatever im sure youl think of something.
Still if you chose to let things run its course try and show more interest for him (hug him, tease him, ask him out), at least he has some feedback and knows hes on the right way
best of luck
peace JAH bless
So, I spoke to the guy today. The situation was that I have extra tickets and invited him to go with us on Friday night. Although he was really excited and wanted to go, he had other plans with his family. However, he said that he will either definitely see me this week (re: his stepson spending the night Friday) or call me.
Sidenote (he is going to a wedding with his ex for his family member on Saturday - bummer).
HOWEVER, he said take extra pictures. I told him that I will with my sexy costume on and he said, now I am really teasing him. I was teasing, but he said that I am really making him feel guilty (haha). I said, well, we can always go out sometime as friends. I rarely get out and I don't want any drama, so I go out with my family. He said, yes, definitely we will. He mentioned, maybe the movies. Hmmm??? I guess, I should wait to see if he wants to go to a comedy or scary movie. So, we agreed that we are going to make it up to each other. (haha, teasing, but we mean it)
So, what do you all have to say?
Crookshanks and Didge_Daz,
Thanks for the advice and I did ask him. I also told him that I like him and that he was a good and sweet guy. He deserves the best.
We shall see...
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