Must i tell him?
I like this guy and he says he likes me back. Problem: he lives on the other side of the country, but is coming to visit me soon. Sometimes when he phones or we talk he says things like “I’m not going to be able to keep my hands off you�, and things (sexual) he wants to do…(I wont go into detail). The thing is I don’t know whether I want to do those things, I cant know until we’re actually doing something coz I need to know whether if feels right. I’m also a virgin and haven’t decided whether or not to wait till I’m married. Should I tell him before he comes all the way here?
yes tell him
From what you say here, it really doesn't sound like you're ready for sex. You MUST tell him this. Dishonesty in sexual matters is one of the leading causes of misery, heartache, jealousy, AND statutory rape charges. The mere fact that you live so many miles apart alone will prevent you from completely realizing this relationship -- for all you know, too, he could be communicating with one or many other girls and feeding them the same story.
Think with your heart/feel with your mind. That's the best advice I can give you. Good luck.