Why can't i get a girl?
I hope you men/women out there can help me >.<
Whenever I'm at school, or just walking around I notice that I get stared at by some girls. So why the f don't I have a girlfriend? I consider myself pretty...nerdy. Not that i look bad, or whatever. I don't know if its just my laziness to have a girl or if i really am just a loser or something. Should I hold off on getting a GF (like get a job first) or should I jump in the deep end?
Really pissing me off that I haven't gathered enough balls to ask a girl out. It's not that I'm not interested, I just don't think I have the time or money to handle one.
Please help.
I always found it easier to meet young men if we were involved in the same interests. I was a violinist in my school orchestras, so I had something in common with other musicians. In fact, almost everyone I dated in high school and college was involved in music in some manner.
If there are any clubs or other extracurricular activities that interest you, you might try joining one to see if you find any young women who interest you. Your mutual interest takes a little of the awkwardness out of getting a conversation started, at least.
Other than that, I suggest you work on your sense of humor. If you're struggling for an opening line, making a girl laugh (not AT you, of course) is always good. At least from this old broad's point of view, a good sense of humor is at the top of my list of appealing qualities in a man.
The more girls you talk to the easier it will get. Don't give up though even if it is painful or awkward at first. Sooner or later you'll get the hang of it but not if you don't try.
When the one says yes it will have been worth it.
Oh yeah, don't let the "no's" bother you. It's their loss