hey i'm 21 and i've only been with one guy,and i have a baby with him.he never really liked to kiss,so i didn't learn how,and now i'm not with him,so we're pretty much in the same boat.I guess maybe you should get out there and socialize,so you wont end up living with your mom when you're 35.

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Do you not enjoy this fact about yourself? Obviously you dont but it is under your self control. It is up to you to find someone. I myself have never been with anyone, I have never even held hands or any of that relationship monotony, but I do not mind. Sooner or later you will find someone, but my largest piece of advice is stop going to this website.

21 VIRGIN? NEVER KISSED?
YOU MUST LOOK LIKE A COCKER SPANIEL NO OFFENSE

THATS HOW YOU GET A BABY, F.U.C.K.ING
AROUND THEN GIVNG YOUR VIRGINTY UP CAUSE YOUR TOO F-CKEN WEAK , WORST THING IS TO TELL HER GET OUT THERE
STUPID A.S.S ..THEN SHE WILL GET KNOCKED UP !!!!!

SO WHAT ALMOST A 40 YEAR OLD VIRIGIN

AND NO ONE GETTTING MY VIRIGIN D^CK

UNTIL I AM READY ..AND BESIDES SO

F-KEN WHAT .. I AM SOOOO PROUD , WHILE YOU STUPID A.S.S.E.S AS SCEWED
EVERY PERSON OUT THERE BLAH BLAH BLAH

GOOD LUCK "PEACE"

And your point is.......?



Would you like the mighty meat of the mighty spam to inject your little love tunnel ?

actually i was sheltered,as far as the area came towards sex,because i was tossed around by an extremely,controlling religious father,and my mom who generally let me live a normal life.I'm not telling her to go out and fuck anything that walks,you can meet someone,fall in love,and spend the rest of your life together,even if they're the only person you ever dated.

If you're too shallow to not date a woman who isn't a virgin or even one who has a child out of wedlock than that's your loss.I'd rather be used goods and getting some every night by the same man,than be getting none at all like you.(which i haven't found that man yet,but i motha` fuckin will) so fuck you very much and have a nice day.

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No u got pregnet and had a kid, the poster hasn't had sex ever, there's a diffrence.

whatever just b/c i have a kid doesn't mean i cant be inexperienced.It only takes one time ya know.i haven't had sex in over a year.and it used to bother me,i used to be very frustrated,now it doesn't bother me anymore.guys are so dumb i sware to god,my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me,and i dont anyone to tell me otherwise.i am no different than anyone else just because i got knocked up,and my 'goods' are still ok b/c i had a c-section ha-ha

-dirt dobbler

i dont need****

Is there supposed to be a timetable for when to start having sex somewhere, carved in stone? If not, then it's something you simply have not been ready for just yet.

You don't say anything about what your attitudes are about having sex, only that you haven't had it yet. How is the rest of your life going? Are you in a relationship, and if not, would you like to be?

I'm not sure if you're asking for advice or just making a statement which suggests that you're bewildered about still being a virgin. Only you know why this is so, and if you are ready to make the changes necessary to allow sexual intimacy into your life.

Stay a virgin. Sex is the worst thing anybody could ever do.

What's wrong with living with your mom at 35?

I live by myself already so it's OK, I moved out of my moms awhile ago.

How can someone whos never had sex comment on what its like

it's okay i guess. most wouldn't think anything less of you. time will come around.

"relationship monotony"

How do you even know that when you state you never had one, and labeling it like that lol relationships are only monotonous when you dont put any effort into them (this goes for both partys involved, takes 2 to tango).

As for the OP, we could all pat your back and say deep sounding things like "time comes around" but unless you move your ass...it wont.

Sry to brake you bubble, time isent a cure for anything except for life, if this whole "still a virgin" thing is trully bothering you, its only up to you to change it.



pece JAH bless

its ok.hopefully you have an education and know what you want out of life at this point.better to be a bit later getting started than being knocked up and jaded at 16.

sadly our sex crazed societ has kids thinking they should be getting sex by age 15 or something is wrong with them.

kid at 21? sad, but I knew a girl who was pregnant at 14 by some deadbeat guy in his 20s. She went to a school for teenage mothers. Pathetic.

Hahaha! Ugly bitch

YOUR VERY PRETTY AND SO IS THE BABY

SORRY FOR BEING A D^CK TO YOU..

WHY , IS ALL PRETTY GIRLS SO ON THE

INTERNET SO CRANKY? IS IT THAT TIME OF

THE MONTH ~~MMmmmmmmmmmmm~~~!!!!!!! J/K

LOVE 'N' PRAYERS,

LOST_GUY

P.S. ARE YOU ON ANYTHING
TO CONTROL YOUR ANGER SWEETY?
GOOD LUCK .. I CAN NOT SEE ME
WITH ANY GIRL WHO HAS A TRUCK
DRIVERS MOUTH ..BUT BEST WISHES!!!!

GIRL 14 SHOULD HAVE CASTRATED THAT GUY 2O'S HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING SICK
B-ASTARD

SHE IS MOVING IN WITH ME , SO I CAN

LICK HER 35 YEAR OLD PIE DAY AND NIGHT ..MMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmm!!!!!

SHE WOULD CALL HOME ..OOHHHHH MOM COME GET ME THIS MAN IS HURTING ME ..
WHATS HE DOING ... HE IS TONGUEING MY
PUSSY 24/7 ... AND I THINK HIS PEE PEE
WAS IN ME ...I CAN'T TELL MOM!!!!

hah you make me laugh. so you're only sorry b/c you think i'm 'pretty',so what if i was ugly would you be sorry then? i'm not really a bitch,and for the most part i am kidding about things i say.I know I know i cuss like a sailor,i dont usually cuss in public,and i dont cuss around kids,it's just me. about my anger issues.i actually think i need anger management,i bottle up all my anger,and when something sets me off,man can i explode.it can be pretty intense sometimes the things i say i dont even remember.It surprises people when i explode,because i'm so nice and shy.I dont have to do that so much,i think it's because people have realized that you shouldn't bother a person who has bottled up anger.i could go all postal!!! on your asses....anywho no hard feelings. k? i'm out

-dirt dobbler

being a mom at 21?? come on being a mom at 17 is young not 21.That's just my opinion,i'm glad i got knocked up at 19.When mothers finally decided to have a baby at i dunno the average age of 27 or 28 that shows their maturity level,you know they wanted to party,and see europe before they got tied down to some kid.I've never experienced drugs(except pot,if that counts) I've never experienced binge drinking,or being with multiple sex partners.I'm so glad i have a kid,and i have learned so much.plus now when i do meet the right guy,and have another baby i'll be under 25 probably,which will be better for me health wise and figure wise.I'll also get to live longer to see my grandkids,if i dont die in a fiery explosion on a freeway.toodlez

-dirt dobbler

well if you live with your mom or parents whatever when you get that old(not saying 35 is old).YOU wont be able to function,when your parents die.you will be totally confused,and incapable of being a productive citizen,and you'll be immature. i'm sure some figure it out,but seriously what kind of person wants to live with mommy and daddy like that??? they'd be weak. hehe am i getting on everyone's nerves yet??

-dirt dobbler

You don't need to experience something to understand it.

Maybe in some cases, but not all.

bet you are ugly you should have lost it at 16 like all normal people

No I don't think that getting knocked up at 19 makes you more mature than people who wait until they are more experienced to have children.

experience? ha noone is prepared,and i mean noone.i guess i just think people who wait till 30 are selfish,and half the time they dont even have patience with their own kids. nobody knows exactly the way parenting goes with their first child.the first child is the practice baby.

-dirt dobbler

You think that adults who wait until they are mature to have children are selfish? thats ironic.

oh contraire,they dont wait until their mature,they wait until their parents and/or friends think it's time for them to settle down.

-dirt dobbler

either way it doesn't matter,if you want to wait until 30 to have your first child odds are you wont have another for another 10 years if ever,but if you do decide to have a child at a young age,i dont think people should give you critisism about it(not saying you were).People do to me all the time,but they think i'm 18 when i'm almost 22 it's very annoying.The sad part about it the only ones who do it are 18 yr old lil babies who are jealous b/c i have a car and my own place and they dont.

either way it doesn't matter,if you want to wait until 30 to have your first child odds are you wont have another for another 10 years if ever,but if you do decide to have a child at a young age,i dont think people should give you critisism about it(not saying you were).People do to me all the time,but they think i'm 17 when i'm almost 22 it's very annoying.The sad part about it the only ones who do it are teenage lil babies who are jealous b/c i have a car and my own place and they dont.

wth?? why did it do that?

I inderstand people who believe that girls under 20 should not get pregnant or attempt to rasie children, at least in western society, for several important reasons. I feel the same way.
So far you have said that people who wait until they are mature to have children are selfish, and that girls who disaprove of you having children at such a young age are "lil babies"
From that, I question your own emotional and mental maturity.

hehehehehehehe, you said "lil babies"!

I don't think it's unusual. I know a lot of college age kids that didn't have gf/bf relationships until they were older. You always have a choice. If you wanted to you could hook up with random guys and have all the sex you wanted, but I sounds more like you want to be in a serious relationship, hold hands, kiss, and then eventually move towards sex. If it's a matter of your appearance, then you can always get in shape, change the style of your clothes, and put yourself in new situations to meet more people. Maybe it's not that you're a virgin, because I'm a virgin by choice until I about a year from now when I am married. I was also a "late bloomer" so being a virgin isn't something unusual.

if i was immature,i'd be living with some guy who worked at burger king and sold pot "on the side".We agree to disagree?? i still think our next generation will be all to hell anyway so what difference does it make? =)

-dirt dobbler

jus make sur eu get da vaccination agaisnt cervix cancer b4 u go f.u.k ne1