do my firends hate me
hi i'm a 14 year old boy and i live in england. all my life ive felt like i hav no one to talk too. i can never trust anyone and its hard just not to break down and cry. erlier wen i go home my friends i swear where lieng to me i had to different stories! one wont even answer her phone and one of my other so called friends sed she ran off. i dont know wat to beleve anymore! they dont seem to care about me. i dont know wat to do! please someone help me
you could try talking to them but i dont think that will be very fun cause kids make fun of other kids so if you feel like they are gonna hurt your feelings if you let it out..then dont do it..[bytheway i am 13..girl]
I resolved my loneliness and awkwardness in two ways: (1) I became very good at a hobby that earned me a little respect from my peers (performing music); and (2) I hung out with people who were also lonely and awkward. Then we talked about what complete assholes the more popular kids were.
You aren't alone. If your current friends seem a little flighty and unpredictable at times, that's part of being a teenager. Also part of being a teenager is the reluctance to communicate directly and honestly with the people you're close to, which can lead to a lot of misunderstandings and frustration. Honesty is the shortcut through the bullshit we all endure in relationships; unfortunately, not many people are brave enough to try this with their loved ones.
I wish you luck in clearing up your misunderstandings with your current friends, and in meeting others that may suit you better. I promise you -- life DOES get better with a little practice.