18 years old, no girlfriend experience

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is normal worry what you are going through, but at the same time you are right in the aspect of not doing stupid stuff now that later you will regret. that shows you are mature or at least responsable. just try to start slow, by just talking to girls, asking them out for coffee, eating, movies anything, the thing is like for "practice" sweet talk to them, but since they are "friends" only, that will be ok, no harm done and you will see what rings a girl and what does not. then you will go a next step and kiss. just take your time, be responsible as you have been and in a matter of a year you will be screwing nice girls. just go slowly, take your time and prepare yourself for the moment you choose to really "attack" and go for what you want.
regards
galeni

Who needs human females? My girlfriend has a 2 GHz processor!

Go to a prostitute

hey
dw its normal
but the longer you leave it the worse it will get

Go stick your dick in the ugliest, fattest bitch you can find, then be choosy later...... unless of course you're really a FAG........

look i couldn't read all your story cuz it sound like a pussy writing a story but just the first sentence let me know your GAY so to your question your gay and be proud about it buddy

Sounds to me like you're too intelligent. Maybe dumb it up a little. Girls are totally turned on by jackasses.

Yeah, you might be acting too nice. Girls might think you're a pushover. Be a little cocky. Don't turn into an asshole, but break balls a little bit. Sly remarks and stuff that make you look confident, and make girls laugh. Confidence will come in time, and girls seem to sense confidence, and whether or not it's genuine. Still, you have to fake it til you make it. Maybe try going to a mall, and saying hi to 100 different girls (they don't have to be attractive, just a lot of young women). You'll never see any again, and saying hi will probably be enough to start some conversations and build your confidence. Good luck mate. You'll be a late bloomer and make up for lost time, I'm sure.

In college (a few years ago) I dated a boy for a year and a half who had virtually no experience with women, not because he didn't have the opportunity, but just because he hadn't met anyone who he had that intense mutual attraction with. This posed absolutely no problem in our relationship. It's all chance-based, and too many young hoodlums aren't aware of their own happiness to the point where they trick themselves into having affections for people who aren't right for them. I have met a lot of amazing men who had little to no experience with women sexually until they were in their early 20s. As long as you are secure with yourself, open to human interaction of all forms, and refuse to settle for something that isn't emotionally gratifying to you, you will be absolutely fine, if not ahead of the game.

God, I hate you now, you just reminded me of what my life is going to be like in 4 years T_T

HAHAHAHA U SUCH A LOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No, it is not sad, quite common. I strongly suggest you give girls a chance who you do not consider to be the most attractive, or the cutest. You seem to be very selective, too choosy and backing yourself into a corner, saying it has to be all or nothing, the best looking girl or no girl. This would explain why you have not dated thus far and yet still be able to converse with girls. Find something you enjoy doing and ask a girl if she'd like to join you. Shoot for something that is non threatening, perhaps during the daytime, a few hours time at most, no long date. If there is something between you, you can always set something up for a longer time on another day. This way it is casual, easy going and less pressure for both of you. Remember, the worst that can be said is "no thank you" or "sorry, I'm already seeing someone". Then, ask others, sure many will accept.

i suggest hanging out with a cool guy who will gvet u laid

Dont worry about it, im 19 now and I met my first girl friend when I was 17, I know your a year older but still, thats not that much time. Right now we're living together and are still very much in love. When your ready your ready, dont try and rush it. Life has a way of working things like this out. Also, dont worry about being a virgin, I found that some girls actually like the fact that they can "de-flower" their boyfriends. Besides when I met my GF I too was a virgin, and after a month or so I was a pro. Hope it helps.

i want you. LOL

Same thing with me. Except i'm only 16. Last time I had a relationship was in 6th grade also (4 years ago) and after that I have tried going out with girls but it only lasts a couple days to a week and a half and i don't like it. My story is practically the exact same as your except you are slightly older. I would go to a local club (a dance one for ALL AGES) with a few great buddies. Just go out on the dancefloor and GO CRAZEE!!!! Girls love a guy who isn't embarassed about how bad he looks while he's dancing. When you are doing that, leave the floor every 2 songs you dance or so, and i bet a couple girls will come up to you afterwards and talk to you. if not then reverse the story except still dance. While you are dancing just slightly move up to a pretty girl and start talking. Make sure that she's not with a guy first otherwise you could get laid out. :)

so otherwise, dance, thats about it. ohhh yea. another place to go the mall like previously stated. Talk to random girls you find attractive, try to find groups of beautiful women to go up to and randomly say "hey, how's everyone doing today?" going up to groups is much better because, also previously stated, confidence is a kkey point to getting the girls, if you walk up to a group or 6 , there's bound to be 1-2, maybe even more who will like you just from coming up. So test these things out.

DON'T BE SCARED TO GO CRAZY!!! I learned the hard way. I've been scared to do crazy shit for the past 4 years and recently I started going to malls and talking to girls and they start talking to me. I haven't found a real connection yet but I've gotten a few great friends and all who would easily want to go the step further in a relationship. Have your friends dare you to do stuff. During school if your friends say something to the matter of "go over to those girls and say something" fucking do it. Even if it is a joke and everything, you could get a date or a friend from it.

MORAL: do anything you can, don't be scared, and always take a friend with you for help or to mess around with.

at least u had a girlfriend once i'm sixteen and have done absolutly nothing with any girls, or guys but thats because i'm straight!!

u sound sooo nice!!!!
im 18 and i look young 4 my age 2!!!!!!
i sugest giving girls complments and dont b 2
excited if anything happent!!!(just pushes use firls away!!!)
relax play it cool!!!!!!
ul find her soon!!!!!
xxx

ebony, nothing personal, but you seem a bit over excited...

I am in the exact same situation as you, except I'm 17. Everything you said is pretty much the same for me.

Life is like a dick when it gets hard F it