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Iv known this girl since i started school. I liked her a lot back then it started to go away but in intermediate i asked her out and she said no. Now days we text each other 10 times plus a day but we hardly see each other in person. I dot know if i should ask her out again. if she says no it could put a damper on our friendship. but im still not sure if i really want to go out with her. Wjat do you think i should do about ths?
Do you think it's normal?
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brothershamass (380)
2007-10-29 07:22:59
Ask her again, she might have changed her mind and you might get to shag her.

If she says no and she still wants something to do with you she's properly a dick tease anyway, so if she doesn't want anything to do with you, you know that she was a good friend until you fucked it up, but at least you will know you had a good friend for a short time rather than a dick tease.
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nearly (10533)
2007-10-29 08:00:40
@: brothershamass
You claim to be 36 and no doubt you expect youngsters to show you some respect. Perhaps you should consider some empathy and also remember the saying "Such as you sow, so shall you reap"
When these same youngsters turn on you because they are better able to, you will be screaming that they are hooligans. Have you thought that maybe you are contributing to that day with your poor sense of humor and total lack of empathy?
There is more to a relationship than asking a girl out with the ultimate aim of "shagging her". I don't think you are a very nice person but only you can change that. Perhaps you'd like to give that some thought also!

@: poster.

Ask her out by all means. If she stil says she doesn't want to go out with you, so what? At least you have her as a friend and let me tell you, good friends are hard to come by so cherrish that friendship and who knows what may develope later when you are both older and maybe would like to take it further?

Good luck meantime.
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-10-29 08:36:18
You have some good advice here already, I see. To the above I will only add this: I consider the cell phone (and also the computer, in some instances) to be the enemy of intimacy. Communicating with someone via IMs, texts, and e-mails is fine, but it should not be a substitute for face-to-face contact. People are growing increasingly isolated due to modern technology, even though it may SEEM that it's bringing us closer together. Please forgo some of the artificial communications and try to actually TALK to her once in a while.
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brothershamass (380)
2007-10-29 08:40:23
@: nearly
The fact you're a faggot means that you have little idea what a teenage boy wants to do with a teenage girl.
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GreenFrog (16718)
2008-10-05 21:17:16
be honest with her and with yourself. if you like her, talk to her about it, if you don't then just enjoy the friendship.
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