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this guy is weird

I am 15 years old. I'm pretty developed for my age so of course I get all of the indecent comments. One day I was at my mother's friends house. The womans name is Shaye. Shaye had her male friend, who is 23 over too. The man made a comment saying how pretty I was and that he'd like to meet somewhere. My cousin was over at the house with me and she got his number to text him. (He thought she was getting it for me.) She texted him about me and then he replyed, 'is she over 18?' of course I'm not... I had already told him that. She of course said no, and he still said well tell her to come over to my house tomorrow(he lives down the street), so we can talk. He's freaking me out, he's everywhere I go, seriously. I'll be at a football game and he'll just be there talking to my friends, or at the park with my little sister and again he's there. He makes these suggestive comments all the time, and asks weird questions like, so have you ever had sex with your bf? Or like how far have you been with a guy...

I know this has turned into a problem, but I am unsure of what to do or if he's even technically doing anything wrong...



Is it normal for a 23 year old man to practically stalk and make sexual passes to a 15 year old teen?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (15)
I would say that technically he is harassing you. You don't say where you live and that could well be relivant. America, Europe, Britain?
I would sugest initially speaking to you parents about it. If you are not satisfied with the results of that, talk to welfare at your school or a female teacher. Another option would be to talk to a female police officer who would most certainly be able to tell you EXACTLY what he could be charged with and possibly set up a sting to trap him. Plenty of options there for you.
I would be interested to know the outcome so please, keep us posted.
Sounds like he needs to be told straight up to fuck off.I dont bother no bitch unless she is 18 or older.
What an absolute creep. A 23-year old man shouldn't be trying to relive his teenage years by sniffing after an under-aged girl and making her feel guarded and uncomfortable.

This guy needs to get the "back off" message from someone his own age or older. It would probably be tough to share this information with your parents, but you'd better share it with SOME responsible adult before this guy works up the nerve to put a move on you. He knows damned well what he's doing is wrong; now he needs to hear it from somebody else who really means business.
Okay well whatever.. I was just asking! I have no idea what to do! I'm stuck! If I tell my mom she'll freak out. I always tell him no or I ignore him. The thing is he always seems to be near me. I don't know what to do.
Could you tell Shaye? Could she tell him to back off? He might get scared if he realises someone knows that he is interested in a 15 yr old.
Well this is a peculiar situation.
I think someone should know about it. But I wouldn't wait to see what he does...

It could turn into something.
you should tell someone but if it were me he's stalking i'd beat the sh*t out of him and tell him to leave me alone you should do the same
There is a post about how hot you are...
I do not understand as I am not English yet
Is it normal for a 23 year old guy to be attracted to a 15 year old. YES!~ Is what he is doing normal? Depends, but in North America is to NOT and depending on what state you live in it is harassment, stalking and she anything happen uninvited it would be rape, and even if it was invited saturatory rape. One reason he is interested in you is because it is easier to manipulate a young women such as your self then someone his own age.

Tell you parents ASAP.
I agree. What he is doing is totally Illegal. You need to get yourself a tazer, or at least some pepper spray.
eww creep. get a gang of bikies to pay him a visit.
she is smoking hot!
call the police file for hurasment dude that guy sounds gross!!