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"No pain, No gain"


No pain, no gain

A very different approach to relationships. Instead of what if's and becoming bitter about all past experiences I have had, maybe a new approach is neccessary in order to refrain from becoming a skeptic to what I think a relationship should be.

It works quite well in the physical realm, I can go to the gym and work those abs quite a bit, wake up the next morning so sore I can hardly move, and yet I go back to the gym that day and do it again with just slight hesitation. This is because I know in order to get the "stiffness" out I have to do it again. The benefits are that it makes me feel good as new again. In that respect it shows that I have put for effort into and I still keep going back, to work out because it obviously works.

So If I apply this approach to relationships it should work shouldn't it ?