nice guys

You seem rather shallow.

If you're as 'pretty' as you say, you should just find a guy you're interested in 'having fun' with and just go hit on him.

omg..i'm in a situation like that. its hard eh?

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You must live in the bible belt. Most guys like having sex, regardless of whether they are nice.

Sorry to butt in on this female conversation but yes! it's normal to find some nice guys boring. It sounds like these guys you talk of are overly nice, seems odd that even a nice guy alone with a pretty girl in his room, is not having thoughts about what mischief the both of you could be getting up to!, nice or not, he's still a young man with all the urges....surely?.
Are you really that pretty?, I ask this as mostly it's the nice guys that find pretty girls intimidating, well so I always thought, it was the ***holes that hit on the real pretty girls to boost the old ego.
Not all nice guys are all pure and innocent, I think go out meet more people....out of town with a group of girl friends maybe?.

you aren't looking in the right places. maybe the reason they just talk is because you are pretty, as in bulimic and your breath smells of puke. Who'd want to kiss a person that pukes all the time. just ew.

I'm sure it is true many guys are intimidated by looks because they feel inferior in that category.

BUT, that isn't the only reason supposed "good looks"--those that elicit the word "hot" out of many guy's mouths--are a turn off to some guys.

I have relatively little social experience, but I catch on fairly quickly. And in my experience the "hot" girls are often shallow and bitchy.

These supposed "hot" girls become this way because their egos are constantly boosted by moronic and/or shallow guys. Guys constantly overrate or overdwell on girls looks boosting them into overconfidence.

Many guys are doing themself a disservice by overrating and overcomplimenting girls looks. Basically, the more they boost these girls egos, the less likely these girls will give them the time of day.

SO, the main point I wanted to make is that supposed "good looks"--those that elicit the word "hot" out of many guys mouths--are a turn off because through experience I've been subconsciously influenced.

It's really simple. My mind associates supposed "good looks" with "unattractive person". Sure, I can resort to logic and see the anomalies to this looks = shitty person association. I know that not every "good looking" person is a shitty person, but the subconscious influences have already set in.

So it takes me a lot more than raw looks to find a person attractive. Once I see their personality is when I figure it out. Within reason, personality directly influences looks. It can make a girl whose raw looks are mediocre BEAUTIFUL. And of course, like I said, it can make people who have exceptional raw looks unattractive. Works both ways.

In my last post I forgot to say something really important.

I was going to say that overconfidence--boosted because of good looks--often produces a person who is less appreciative of others, more shallow. Duh. I guess we all know what shallow means.

When the person is shallow and overconfident they have a lot less appreciation and respect for other people.

That's all I wanted to add.

BTW, I'm a very nice and respectful guy. Some people are surprised once they get to know me. Not necessarily because I am "good looking", but because I was shy, quiet, and have a clean-cut look, I was often accused of being "stuck up" or whatever, which was so not true. So I have a taste of what it's like to be stereotyped. So just to make that clear.

Just tell the dude your not interested in a relationship and just wanna have fun. Then ask him if he wants to fuck. Why do chicks think nice guys dont like gettin some ass now and then? Just because a guy respects you doesn't mean he wouldn't like to do you. He just doesn't want to treat you like a sex object. He's actually interested in who you are. That means he might actually be interested in satisfying you in bed, while asshole guys just care about themselves. Believe me hunny, the nice guy wants to do you doggystyle +, and he will if he knows your into it!

I've dealt with this myself. Before I fool around with a guy I always make it very clear that I am not looking for a relationship, ask them if they are okay with that, and only proceed if they agree that it'll be a one-time thing. Even if they say they're fine with it, half the time they pursue a relationship anyways, even though they agreed not to. They say that they "can't help" wanting to be with me, but I still feel lied to.

I hate the double standard. If a guy has a one-night stand and the girl calls the next day, she's "clingy." If a guy does it, he's just being "romantic."

Some advice though: Try pouncing Mr. Nice Guy. If he puts up a fight, figure out what his problem is. If he's really that anti-sex, good for him, but he should be with a girl who feels the same way.

I love dirty, fun, naughty, freaky, raunchy, perverted sex. I just want it with someone that won't leave me the next morning, like I have now. If you perhaps ever got to know one of these guys, you'd see they want the sex as bad as you, but want to build up to it. What good are different guys when one guy can give you all the fun you need? Try it sometime

I'll fuck you real dirty and nasty and when I leave I'll drop £20 on the floor and make you feel cheap and slutty. Then you'll never see me again.

Thats the kinda guy u want^^^^^^^^ donkeyspuzz? Cause its either him-type or Good-boy type. Or loner type who doesnt give a shit either way(right here)..