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Girlfriend help

Hi, im 14 and a boy and ive only had one gf, everyone (including girls) say im really hot, but i dont know why i cant get one??

i really need help!!
please can i get advice, ive considered being gay, but i dont think i would be much good at that either
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ponaqshka (11189)
2007-11-03 09:23:14
DON'T be gay!If you are really hot, and girls say that, then just go up to a girl that you think likes you and ask her out! and don't wait for girls to ask you out cause some are like the old fashion, waiting for the guys to do it.I am 13, girl, so i know!lol Good luck finding a girlfriend and i don't know if that helped you but I tried!Bye!Oh and how come you haven't had a girlferind, you are 14 already you should have had like bazillion!lol
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-11-03 09:29:45
youre 14 why do you think that you even should have a gf at that age? youre still a silly little kid.grow up.
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ponaqshka (11189)
2007-11-03 09:34:36
@: slackjawedyokel
Hay I am 13 and Ive had so many boyfriends..but im not a silly little kid.Parents think that when you are 14 you are, but they don't really know their kids then!
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niggawitmoney (9329)
2007-11-03 10:10:46
@: ponaqshka
lol...u so serious lmao
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-11-03 10:55:22
@: ponaqshka
Ummm yeah you are a silly little kid at 13 so was I.When you grow up youll find out that you didnt know as much as you thought you did at 13.
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SMARTPERSON (10886)
2007-11-03 16:22:59
(SIGH)
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-11-03 18:53:23
@: ponaqshka
At your age, young people tend to move in and out of relationships quite often. I was surprised when my now 14-year-old daughter was in a relationship with a boy that lasted an entire year.

This is probably the worst time to have a relationship that is anything more than enjoying shared interests and learning a limited amount of information about physical intimacy. Remember that in this "age of information", whatever you do with your girlfriend, particularly if things go sour, is potential material for a long and excruciatingly detailed MySpace rant. My 13-year-old son is already the star of a MySpace hate site because he pissed off a girl, and there are 10 members at last count. They posted his photograph with a drawn-in penis sticking in his right eye.

As difficult as this may sound, please take it slow and "shop before you buy." Hold out for someone who shares your interests and respects who you are.
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flikr (10636)
2007-11-04 01:53:08
sometimes I wish i was gay because it would probably be a lot easier to get laid, too bad i'm not though..
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nuttygirlnat (12469)
2007-12-28 20:09:30
@: slackjawedyokel
WTF? everyone has a bf/gf at that age!
umm, dude.. don't be gay, i mean.. sure you might not have a gf but i don't have a bf i'm the same age..
just enjoy life atm :] when the right girl, or boy comes along then go for it. But until then.. sit back and enjoy life (:!
xo
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