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I'm not getting any!!!

Well I don't like posting stuff on here but I'll go ahead and say it...

Well I've had this girlfriend for about 9 months and I love her to death. We haven't had any serious fights and I haven't cheated on her. It's been kept completely PG-13 with her but thats the problen! I want more! The girlfriend before her would do anything for me... head, sex, hand job.. but now I'm not getting any! nothing more then a h**ndj*b with this one. She says she wants to wait which is great but I'm getting this frustration. ya know like I'm young at age 19 and I want to do stuff but having a girlfriend that wants to wait is killing me!
What should I do? Leave her? Keep her? leave her then try to get her back later? idk help me...
Do you think it's normal?
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 17:08:31
thanks... uhhh I guess... haha pretty funny though... unless your being serious then still pretty funny...
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Orochimaru (9975)
2007-11-04 17:15:35
too fucking bad!!!!!
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 17:30:22
oh gee thanks guys! problem solved! but really...
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-11-04 17:41:08
Not that Homer's advice isn't brilliant, but ...

Have you never thought to ask this young woman precisely why she prefers to wait, and how long she wants to maintain her abstinence? Also, is she still a virgin? You don't mention her age here -- if she's under 18, the "no sex" rule is reasonable. If she's older, then you two need to get this out in the open. And whatever you do, DON'T mention the last girlfriend and the easily available sex you got from her. That is absolutely the LAST thing your present GF needs to hear.
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 17:46:41
well haha thanks... ya know I really didn't think I was going to get a straight answer... but any ways she is a little younger then me like still in high school about to grad. but she says she just doesn't want to accidently get pregnant... plus my family and hers would cut my dick off if that did happen... but thanks for a good comment...
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 17:46:54
well haha thanks... ya know I really didn't think I was going to get a straight answer... but any ways she is a little younger then me like still in high school about to grad. but she says she just doesn't want to accidently get pregnant... plus my family and hers would cut my d*** off if that did happen... but thanks for a good comment...
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 18:01:37
@: JanIAm
well she's 17 and I'm 19... thats the main thing here... she's still in high school... the last GF I had was the same age as me and the only reason we broke up was because she moved to NY city ... They kind of have the same personality but I guess it's just the age thing... she is kind of young so I guess I can just stick to spanking it 5 times a day to calm myself down... :.. ( AAHHHHH!!!! this suck!!!
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Doctor_Tongue (11536)
2007-11-04 18:41:49
Well I think the answer you seek is best provided by quoting a very wise man,John Mellencamp "there's a young man in a T shirt,listening to a rock and roll station.He's got a greasy hair and a greasy mind,he says Lord this must be my destination."
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violent10dency (10988)
2007-11-04 19:21:34
um she can an IUD and wont get pregnant for 5 years.i personally will not get on birth control,i dont like things that are unnatural.I'm also not having sex right now,but when i do find someone,I wouldn't make him wait that long.I commend you for staying with her man.

-dirt dobbler
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 20:12:11
@: violent10dency
:) thank you... I try to take controll of myself when it comes to things like this... by the way I like the Donnie Darko Quote on your profile :P
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realitychecks (11086)
2007-11-04 20:13:30
Well, if this story is true, if you love her at the age of 19 then talk to her and get some form of birth control, if that is her concern. I'm not sure if you clarified if she was a virgin or not? If, and when I was your age,I would consider if I really wanted to have sex with someone that is so hesitant as she might have regrets and hold a grudge against you in the future. It could also effect her self esteem, in case you're wondering. It's pretty common for a man of your age to spank it several times a day. So good luck. If she doesn't want to pursue it, I would suggest finding someone who will indulge in your behavior and like it as much as you do without the worry of pregnancy or stds. Be careful!!
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 20:16:25
@: realitychecks
thank you too... but yes she still has her V-Card... I know now that I am going to wait... like I said before it's ole righty from now on...hahaha..
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 20:18:13
@: Doctor_Tongue
I like the quote even though I don't listen to his music... I'm more of a Elvis man myself haha...or the killers...but any ways I think I get what it means... I'll keep it in mind for the future
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-04 20:25:57
@: realitychecks
by the way yes this is a true story... I actually just got off the phone with her... but I didn't bring up any of this though.... it's funny cause she played a joke on me the other night... We were driving down the road and she turned to me and said "I want to have sex!" and I was like "0_o" and I turned to her with a weird look and she started laughing at me :( and thats what pretty much sparked the idea to post this... I was going to delete this profile but I thought I would ask complete strangers instead haha... does this sound like a fake story? usually the fake stories on this site are like weird ass stuff.....just to let you know again this is not a drill !!! this is a real story or more so question...
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violent10dency (10988)
2007-11-05 18:59:56
@: tommyboy
thanks,and by the way i meant she could get an IUD***

I do however have a question about this girlfriend of yours. Is she a virgin?? you dont have to answer that it's just if she is,i can understand completely.if she isn't however and has been rattled around by a few guys, a few times,then i think you might have a problem.

-dirt dobbler
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tommyboy (10553)
2007-11-05 21:39:06
@: violent10dency
I said up there "She still has her V-Card" which means yes she is still a virgin.... but don't worry about it now...The problem is sloved...
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